[fredjacksonsan]

Serious reply:

Be straight up w/him. Tell him you dig him, but he's too mushy. Either tell him what's in your post, or show it to him.

Have you hooked up yet? It comes to mind that he may be acting that way if it hasn't happened. I don't want to know, just something for you to consider.

Comedic reply:

BTW, did you throw up yet and how did he take it?

Of course, if you've already decided you don't need/want to be going out with someone right now then why worry?