Yup, I forgot to mention suspension as well. I was going to write it but I got lost in my train of thought

. A good suspension will a great idea for your car, just don't go with the cheap brands because they will only cause you problems.
I think the H22a would be out of the question. It would pretty much eat up the $5,000 he has to spend on performance, just getting the motor in. He probably wouldn't even have $ left over to ad bolt-ons to it. But it is one hell of a good swap in general.
I also forgot to mention engine sale sites (it was almost 2am when I wrote my response so give me a break

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Try
www.hmotorsonline.com,
www.passwordjdm.com, and
www.totaljdm.com . But be careful and read what each site says the swap comes with, some will be cheaper than others but will not include some essential parts needed for the swap.