OK, I admit it... I must be the dumbest person on the planet.
I finally got it and it took about 15 seconds. I am sooooooooo stupid. All I had to do was TAKE THE RUBBER off before trying to put the clasp on!!!!!!! Then put the rubber on and then the plug.... UGH!! I feel sooooo stupid. If I would have taken this to the dealership, they would have laughed at me. I spent hours trying to figure this out over a 3 day span...
Order of removal:
Unplug
Take Rubber off
Unclip Safety Pin type Clasp (DONT UNSCREW/REMOVE)
Take the Bulb out
Replace Bulb with new
To Put Back:
Bulb in lined up with triangular edges
Close Safetly Pin Clasp
Rubber goes on
Plug goes in...
SIMPLE!