[savagewolf]

its your bushings. 3rd and 4th gen are notorious for bad bushings, find a headlight rebuild kit. mine did the same thing. there is no relay to the lights, its hooked directly to he switch in the car. good luck installing it though. try not to kick the car when u try to get to the bushing. if that doesnt fix it, try trcing the power wires back to where they came from, there may be a short.