Don't boost the hell out of the stock motor, it's a waste of a good motor. But here is a wiring pinout of the H22 ecu (AcesHigh is the man):
http://www.automotiveforums.com/vbulletin/t211027.html
Here's the axles explained:
http://honda-tech.com/zerothread?id=434668
And I believe this is the right setup for the resistor box; though the pic says 99/00 Civic Si, there is a member on there that said it was the right one for his h22 swap. So if it's right cool, if it's not sorry:
http://www.honda-tech.com/zerothread?id=222366
Good luck on the swap it's killer. My buddy had a turbo h22 (built the motor first though) in his 4dr that he's moving to his VX, should haul some major ass.