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I have been in three relationships. And I can say that no, I have never ended a relationship because a guy was too slow getting me into "the sack". As for myself, I am not inclined to have sex without love. I think without love, sex is rather selfish and somewhat demeaning.
As far as nice guys finishing last. I would definately have to say, no, they don't. In my experience, I have only been attracted to so-called "nice guys". Yes, some have had real rebellious streaks in their past or present, and yes part of that is a bit thrilling, but overall, I would say you have nothing to worry about JD. Being the "nice guy", while it does seem to have it's drawbacks, I'm sure (just like being the "nice girl" does), it pays off in the end.
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Taranaki: "roses are wonderful plants,but they do attract parasites...and the harder you cut them back,the stronger they return.They smell sweet,their faces are soft and pretty,and they can defend themselves with sharp thorns where neccesary....but left untended,and without support,a simple gust of wind can leave them shattered....but not forever....the roots of the rose are strong,cut the wood back,and it will always bloom again."
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