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Old 08-17-2004, 05:19 AM
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Re: Love

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Originally Posted by 90Stangjc
I hate attraction......in a way. If i got into this i would be talking for the rest of my fuckin' life. So i'll TRY to make it short. Have you guys ever noticed that when you feel like you LOVE someone its for ALL the wrong reasons? That's because IT IS STUPID! But anyways, if you sit down and REALLY think about why do you love her? Do you know, i do!
There is a mechanism inside of human beings that is called "Attraction". It is triggered by things and dis-armed by things. Here is a small list that "attracts" and women to a man.
1.Voice tone
2.Unpreditibilty
3.Body Language
4.Overly confident with a humor mix
5.Control (You controlling her)
6.How you take care of yourself (Even if your not phsically "Attractive".

Now here is a list of the things that repel women.
1.Being needy
2.Letting her lead
3.Being too "nice".
4.Being preditible and boring
5.Being "available" often
6.Unconfident

This also works in a womens favor. Any of you ever read the book about how to get a man to marry and women written by a gay man for women?

Sorry to spill the beans, but most likely if your the guy who loves her to death, she's not going to like you as much. In fact, she might end up leaving you. Unless you know how to keep her with you.

Ever notice how the "assholes" and "jerks" and always the ones getting the girls?
And how the women will get abused, but end up going back to the "asshole" that hit her. But leave the guy that was doing everything in his power to make her happy. Yep that's no coincidence (it that how you spell that big ass word?), that's attraction. Dont you just love life?

^^ Truer words have never been said.

But when I was your age, I had it all of that figured out and even more, but then I still F*cked up. If you never experienced it, you won't know until it's too late. But now I know better... wiser... immune . Like chicken pox.

There's also often the possibility of pheromone released by the woman, which makes a guy act like a puppet or jack ass. We see this sort of things between insects, and flowers and honey-bees.
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