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Hey dude. Sorry to hear about this. It sounds like something similar to what I went through when i broke up with my ex 3 months ago.
Not sure if this is the situation, but we never actually had an argument when we broke up. She said that she needed some time and space, and I gave it to her. The thing was that that allowed her to decide that she didn't actually want to be in a relationship in the first place.
But you know what the good thing was. i decided I didn't want to be in a relationship either. We were at the stage where we lived and breathed each other, and in a way it meant that we actually both lost ourselves. In any relationship I get into from now on, I know I must respect the other persons freedom to be by themselves, have their own time and space. The thing is that I thought I didn't want my freedom when I was in a relationship, however after coming out of it it was the biggest thing that I missed.
Give her time, and try not to bug her too much. You can say that you are sorry for having an argument with her if it was your fault, however sometimes an argument is just a sign of deeper troubles or giving it a reason for things to end.
As far as my advice goes, I don't think that being in my situation is exactly the same, however I know that when I stopped calling my ex, and getting on with other things, was when she flet like she was losing me forever and wanting me back. The thing was when that happened, I didn't actually want her back.
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