[Neutrino]

I guess you're right there is sometimes, that rare case when the reschedule is based on genuine reasons. Buts it’s been my experience that most of the time they either found some other guy with whom they would much rather go with, or they just did not know how to refuse you or felt bad about it the first time and they just worked up the nerve to say no.


Plus I had so many girls complain to me how all these guys that never get a hint to stop asking them out, that I made it my policy to make it as easy as possible for them to refuse me if they don't want to go out. Basically I ask them out as nonchalant as possible and always add at the end "unless of course your too busy" this way they can just pick up the excuse and we can end the discussion in some amicable "some other time" which of course I know means never. And beyond that first time I will not ask again so they won't feel pressured.


Bottom line: I would just feel too bad to have a girl go to the ordeal of a date they did not want so I make it as easy as possible for them to refuse.