I dont really see that you have many options here......you said she doesnt want to do the long distance thing because of past experiences, and you want to go to college and I dont see that giving up on college over a girl is the best idea, so basically you just have to get over her.
I'm sure you will incounter many girls in college that may be more convenient, location wise.
Either that or one of you needs to make a big decision to move or stay in the area of the other, such as her moving to where your going to school or you just not going to that school.....Is this relationship worth that ?