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Originally posted by KatWoman
Sadly I see too much of that in other relationships  How long have you been together? Unfortunately it is hard to change people. If she's been doing that for as long as you remember, she may keep on doing that. I would suggesting talking to her about it and let her know how it makes you feel when she bitches and complains at everything. If she's not willing to compromise a bit and respect your feelings, it may time to look for someone who will treat you better. I don't mean for it to sound cold or brutal...and I know it's not that easy to just drop a relationship and move on. I've watched my siblings go thru bad marriages with spouses that cannot be pleased no matter what. Better to find out or move on now before you end up tying the knot.
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My sentiments exactly... I've been the giver plenty of times before, and I have to keep myself in check to make sure that I do get atleast respect or love to reciprocate. Burning-out from giving is not a good thing, so if that's where you're headed, my advice is to get out now before you are in too deep... (I never said it'd be easy
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