kissing questions!!!!!!!

hey, i am still kinda new to this forum, obviously. i am dating this girl, yeah i like her a lot. i have been out with her twice now and i still have not kissed her.:( the first time i saw her, we hugged after the date was over. our last date was different. right when she got out of my car, she just ran and jumped into her car. i am a nervous guy when it comes to girls (it was obvious she was bating a kiss) so i just said "i had a lovely time this evening, can i call you tomorrow?" she said yes. am i in a good situation? how many times shoud i take this girl out before i kiss her? thanks everyone

chris

:lol2:

Just go for it...

Im the same way man. But if it's obvious she wants one, kiss her IMMEDIATELY. No need to wait in that situation.

She's probably thinking the same thing you are!!! People are too prepared for rejection by default, she probably feels too shy to do it cause she might not know you wanna... so do it, nothing too big, just go for it. And be happy you've got a girl like that, could be worse, she could ONLY want the physical...

Yea i am the same way as you man but everyone so far is right you jus need to go for it! but whatever u do dont come on you strong cuz that will scare her!





Originally posted by slave
She's probably thinking the same thing you are!!! People are too prepared for rejection by default, she probably feels too shy to do it cause she might not know you wanna... so do it, nothing too big, just go for it. And be happy you've got a girl like that, could be worse, she could ONLY want the physical...


now chris... you make it sound like that is ALWAYS a bad thing??:sun:

on the quote i meant to say slave but im a dumbass

i dunno man my 1st g/f i got a kiss ...Ally and I were talking to each other for so long athat i got more than just that so i can't help ya there

Just take it easy dude, relax, try and figure out what she wants. My last GF i kissed the first time after 3 weeks...

Do it when you think you should. The guy I was seeing, we kissed the first time we went out a date, and it felt right to do it then. Just do it when you know the time is right.

Julie

PULL YOURSELF TOGETHER MAN!

The first hurdles are the easy ones!Just relax,take it easy,and DON'T make a huge deal of it.It's a huge risk,I know,but just wait until you are both relaxed, and get up close and personal for her.If she's not ready,she'll let you know,but don't take that as an absolute rejection.A girl will judge a guy as much on how he behaves when he doesn't get everything his own way as much as she judges him any other way.

In short,don't work to a preset timetable,don't try and force it,and it isn't an automatic sign that your ditched if she says no.

Lordy,how are you going to cope with the MAJOR events?;)

sorry dude... but I'm gonna go against the crowd.... if she "ran and jumped into her car", you might wanna think that out.. and if the image in your head from that statement is as funny as the one in mine, you're laughing. I can't speak for all girls, but the usual modus operandi around here is you stick around making nervous conversation if you want a kiss..

another clue... did she spin out her tires when she got in her car?

Originally posted by slave
And be happy you've got a girl like that, could be worse, she could ONLY want the physical...
Because that would just piss off every guy who ever lived, who would want that?:rolleyes:
Try this, when your in your car together, jsut reach over and touch her hair and say it looks nice or soft or something like that and look into her eyes, just look at her for a second while your touching her hair and then pull back and just keep talking for a little bit. Then if she didn't get all wierd when you touched her hair the first time, reach over and do it again, but this time, while your looking into her eyes, look down at her lips and then back up to her eyes a few times. If she doesn't reject you there, then your good to go. Just lean in and kiss her.

ok Dr. Freud what if she wears her hair up? :silly2:

when in doubt....ask her:right: nothing wrong in opening ur mouth to ask

Originally posted by BLU CIVIC
when in doubt....ask her:right: nothing wrong in opening ur mouth to ask

I'll stick with you BLU CIVIC whats the worst she could say...... no i guess but at least she'll think you didn;t try to force her

Originally posted by sexylexy


I'll stick with you BLU CIVIC whats the worst she could say...... no i guess but at least she'll think you didn;t try to force her
thats true, but i talked about this before with my current gf, and she said she woulda laughed if i asked her, she woulda thought i was some kinda dork(for lack of a better word). we dont live in an ABC sitcom, people dont go around asking "may i kiss you?". just do it. if she likes you, she'll kiss you back. or maybe she likes you but doesnt want to move too fast... or you'll get another response, in that case you tell her to walk home:D

Originally posted by strodda

thats true, but i talked about this before with my current gf, and she said she woulda laughed if i asked her, she woulda thought i was some kinda dork(for lack of a better word). we dont live in an ABC sitcom, people dont go around asking "may i kiss you?". just do it. if she likes you, she'll kiss you back. or maybe she likes you but doesnt want to move too fast... or you'll get another response, in that case you tell her to walk home:D

My fiance asked before he kissed me - and I thought it was sweet and respectful.