91 4 runner v6

Have starting issue , I think I've narrowed it down to starter relay. But I can't find the relay. Any idea where it is located?:headshake

Check the middle one of the 3 square relays in the engine bay fuse panel.

Keep in mind that the starter solenoid contacts are a weak point in the starting circuit and are normally the problem when starter function is intermittent or totally gone.

Try here:

http://www.4crawler.com/4x4/CheapTricks/Starter.shtml