96 accord problem/front susp. other

First off this car has 244k, looked like nothing was ever replaced and 1 owner... I bought the car cheap and done this stuff to it.

Front upper control arms
wheel bearings
brake pads
drivers side axle didnt need it

So im still ruling this maybe my tie rod ends.. heres what it does

I can drive it and right at 50mph and the last shift of the tranny the front drivers side will shake/wobble, if i make it downshift and get up to 50mph or more it wont make it the shake/wobble... It has done it some in lower speeds just cruising also..

Now my drivers side tie rod the ball joint looks like crap/busted and sorta loose.. $27 dollars im gonna do it anyways, if this dont take care of the problem what else shoudl i look at... Also i rotated the tires to see if it may have been a busted belt in the tire didnt help.. Put the new axle in thinking it could of been axle, that didnt work..


One other thing, put all new plugs/wires ect in the car due to a misfire across the board..

each day when i first start it the car has a rough idle to it till i hit the gas and then stops... Could this be off the plugs not being properly gapped or something else...

Thx