02 RSX power mirror wiring diagram??

trying to get some aftermarket mirrors wired in to stock harness ....aftermarket wires are colored blue, black, white, gray .....

I am only able to get the switch to work in the up/down function...

any help would be nice...

also..while trying to get the passenger side mirror wired I thought I blew a fuse but I cant find any fuses that are not good...so is there a relay somewhere? ....I had the driver side halfway wired up and was trying to get the passenger side done when I blew the fuse...now neither side works...

stupid non-matching colors...

car is not mine....boss bought some mirrors for it and asked me to put them on....not so easy when using odd parts.