2 women, 1 man... ?

I'm in a bit of a predicament. Something i didn't think would be happening, is. I am in love with 2 girls.

Girl 1: I have really never felt this way with any girl, feeling completely compatible and completely interested with everything she is. Unfortunately, I am not completely attracted to her physically and she herself is quite unreliable and unpredictable. Smart, caring, and insightful, she's one weird, socially awkward girl. Comes from a rich background and is quite stubborn with her views on life, which are usually very liberal and "hippie". An outsider will call her mentally insane after a 5 minute conversation. Born American, Ukrainian heritage. Does more "substances" than me.

Girl 2: I am completely lovestruck by this girl. She's (imo) very hot, a completely insane sense of humor, very interesting, intelligent, and quite possibly impossibly dreamy. She comes from a very poor background, is "set" on her views but open to others, ADD, OCD, flirtacious, fun, naive and naughty all at once. An outsider will probably have a crush on her after a 5 minute conversation. Half white, half black. Does not quite approve of all my actions, however, I have started questioning them, as well.

I don't know if anyone has been in some kind of similar situation, but I figure I might get some advise other than my own, which is "go with the flow". I think it might be my test to see where i am in life, if i'm ready to move on and grow up, or, if i'm going to follow my desires.

3 in the bed and the little one said, roll over. Roll over.

3 in the bed and the little one said, roll over. Roll over.

I haven't heard that for more than a decade.

3 in the bed and the little one said, roll over. Roll over.

amazing... to say the least. :p

after much confusion, #1 got the axe.

Bad move. #2 will break your heart and #1 sounds like 'keeper' material. Scared of commitment or just not interested in LTR?

Either way you would have regret your decision! No matter who you would have chose you will always thing about what it would have been like if you chose the other!

well, they're both keepers, oz. i kinda did make it sound like #1 was the keeper, its b/c i've liked her for a lot, lot longer, know her very well, and really does think just like me. that doesn't mean #2 isn't my type. If I were afraid of commitment, i wouldn't have worried all too much about this and probably tried to simply hook up with both. Truth is, i'm ready for commitment, i want to be in a long term, meaningful relationship. I feel old, wasted, and eager to move on with the next steps in life. Another thing is, (this is not shallow), i said i'm not physically attracted to #1, and i am to 2. not that 1 is ugly or something, not at all. but that feeling makes a difference. as long as i've liked 1, there was really never any sexual tension. we've fallen asleep by waterfalls with eachother but still never felt like we were going to end up together.
#2 is not far removed, like some girl i would just hook up with. She's become close and trusting of me over some time, and I want to know as much as I can about her. Also, #2 is more... normal. she's not at all, trust me, but more-so than #1, where #1 will, despite concerns for her, dissappear for a good 2 weeks, randomly appearing back in people's lives. she'll destroy herself with drugs at times, or completely obsess herself with detoxing her body and mind from malnutrition and drugs.

hungrycat, I NEVER regret my decesions. I've grown above regret, and find the most of every situation I put myself in. In this case, what am I to regret? if all goes idealy, hopefully 5 years from now I will still be happy with #2, and still be close friends with #1.

Maybe its just me...but I think if you had to STOP AND THINK about which one you wanted to be with, maybe neither is "the one"....



In which case, you should have slept with them both and had stories to tell your grandchildren.....:evillol: "Thats so gross grandpa" :evillol: :evillol: