99 ody parking lights

i took the drivers side fuse panel/box thing out and still not sure which plug is the "10 pin connector for parking lights" one is. i dont see any damage to the harness or plug, no shorts or anything, but it still keeps blowing the fuse. after all of the plugs were pulled it hasnt blew the fuse 10. any ideas? im tired of this freakin honda crap!! im buying real american from now on...