VW part sites...

Is there any web sites out there specifically for VW cars or any good sites out there that have a good selection of parts for VWs?

Go to thesamba.com. It's mostly aircooled but they have a really good Classified section and forums for watercooled cars as well. There is also vwvortex.com which is a forum based website which is mostly watercooled.

you can try

http://www.dubautoparts.com/