EGR resistor question

Please don't flame me as I know this has been asked many times before. But I have no idea where to place the 10k resistor to get the CEL off. I have recently eliminated my egr because of a non egr phlenum change, and it never working correctly in the first place because my CEL was on for it way before. I have pictures of the probe type thing that came out of the old phlenum for the EGR. The only female connector I could think of to put the resistor into is on the other end of the probe, which is not on the firewall, but instead, plugged into a male connector attached to the firewall.
http://i89.photobucket.com/albums/k226/X2Xtreme360/engine003.jpg
This is the male end that connects to a female end on the firewall.
http://i89.photobucket.com/albums/k226/X2Xtreme360/engine002.jpg
Here's the probe that goes into the phlenum.

You put it right into the plug in thats on the firewall. Plug it in like you would plug in a socket.

What I'm saying is the socket on the firewall is a male connector and the connector shown in the photo is the female end of the connector. I can't shove a resisitor into a male socket. I must be looking at the wrong socket or something.

Let me see if I can take a pic of mine. It might not get posted till later tonight or tomorrow though.

Hey Stealthee, you probably 4got, its all good, I was just wondering if I could get that pic because I am clueless as of right now.