never steal another guy's girl
jasonwoo
02-14-2007, 10:56 PM
hey guys
recently I met this hot Japanese girl and I dated her a few times.... she is actually here on a work visa and she will be leaving in april. She looks alot like this minor celeb in Japan called Mika Orihara (http://japansugoi.com/wordpress/more-mika-orihara-gravure-idol-videos/) so she is a bit of a looker.
My friend invited me to drinks and he brought this girl along and he actually liked her... but I also liked her and started seeing her behind his back. All's fair in love and war and she wasn't married right?
Tonight when i went to drinks at the bar I saw her and she was all over this other guy i know. Although I knew what i was getting into, considering she is temporarily here so she cant be that serious...i gotta admit, i do feel a bit cut.
However, what can i say? Considering that i took her away from my friend as this other guy did to me....i can only say karma comes around. hahaha
Wonder how many of you guys have done this too? My bet is most guys (when they are single) have done this
recently I met this hot Japanese girl and I dated her a few times.... she is actually here on a work visa and she will be leaving in april. She looks alot like this minor celeb in Japan called Mika Orihara (http://japansugoi.com/wordpress/more-mika-orihara-gravure-idol-videos/) so she is a bit of a looker.
My friend invited me to drinks and he brought this girl along and he actually liked her... but I also liked her and started seeing her behind his back. All's fair in love and war and she wasn't married right?
Tonight when i went to drinks at the bar I saw her and she was all over this other guy i know. Although I knew what i was getting into, considering she is temporarily here so she cant be that serious...i gotta admit, i do feel a bit cut.
However, what can i say? Considering that i took her away from my friend as this other guy did to me....i can only say karma comes around. hahaha
Wonder how many of you guys have done this too? My bet is most guys (when they are single) have done this
Shpyder
02-14-2007, 11:15 PM
Considering that i took her away from my friend as this other guy did to me....i can only say karma comes around. hahaha
Wonder how many of you guys have done this too?
Never done this to a friend, never intend to either. I'm sure everyone has their own standards, but I would never go for the same girl I know my friend is interested in. There's a certain disloyalty associated with that which goes against elementary rules of friendhsip. :2cents:
Wonder how many of you guys have done this too?
Never done this to a friend, never intend to either. I'm sure everyone has their own standards, but I would never go for the same girl I know my friend is interested in. There's a certain disloyalty associated with that which goes against elementary rules of friendhsip. :2cents:
Oz
02-14-2007, 11:24 PM
Nah, never done that to my friends.
beef_bourito
02-14-2007, 11:37 PM
as soon as a girl is in a relationship a friend of mine she's off limits. hell if i've got a girl friend who's in a relationship with a guy i won't break them up for myself. i wouldn't want people messing with my relationships, why should i do it to others. friendship is worth more to me than what could be a short lived relationship, and much more important than meaningless sex.
doberman_52
02-14-2007, 11:42 PM
as soon as a girl is in a relationship a friend of mine she's off limits. hell if i've got a girl friend who's in a relationship with a guy i won't break them up for myself. i wouldn't want people messing with my relationships, why should i do it to others. friendship is worth more to me than what could be a short lived relationship, and much more important than meaningless sex.:iagree:
DinanM3_S2
02-15-2007, 12:43 AM
Do you like this girl more then this friend? My advice is that unless you are willing to risk losing a friend, stay away from any girl he is involved with.
BleedDodge
02-15-2007, 01:44 AM
Fugu!
elementskater15
02-15-2007, 07:26 AM
if she looks like the Mike chick, then congrats on getting her taken from you...you don't deserve a hot asian...;p ..really, dont ever steal a girl from someone unless you straight up don't like the guy or something. I bet the murder rate would drop drastically is people would stop with the girl stealing BS
ghostrx7
02-15-2007, 08:20 AM
everyones in agreement here,i never stole a friends girl. could of, but no way i put a girl in front of my friendships. i was just telling a story about my best friends ex wife. while they were married, we went to a club, my friend forgot his ID, and the wife came in with me and blew him off. she ended up dirty dancing with me, then she tried to kiss me! i rejected her and told my friend his wife cant be trusted.....
gouldie1903
02-15-2007, 10:32 AM
i'm pretty sure there's a manlaw about stealing someone's girl. don't remember it exactly but it says don't do it.
ghostrx7
02-15-2007, 12:38 PM
i probably wouldnt be able to date a girl my friend was with. you always have the image of them sexin in the back of your mind, which is like jumping in a cold pool, not stimulating at all.... altho my roomate dated a girl that i went out with like 3 years ago. it was weird when she came over our house and we bumped into each other, but i kept my space. i only slept with her tho, nothing serious....
poormillionaire2
02-15-2007, 02:18 PM
Bros before hoes!
I never have and never will take a friend's girl. Even if I don't know the guy, but I know that a girl is taken, I don't even try. Its not right.
Ok, now that I think about it, I am a bad person. I worked with this couple and we all started hanging out and stuff. We were all friends, and there was a big group of us. Anyways, I wasn't good friends with this guy, but we hung out a few times, but he treated her like shit. Everyone wondered how she put up with it. Anyways, she broke up with him and then, me and her started hanging out and we eventually got together. Not exactly on topic, but similar. But I don't really feel bad for what I did. I didn't technically steal her though.
I never have and never will take a friend's girl. Even if I don't know the guy, but I know that a girl is taken, I don't even try. Its not right.
Ok, now that I think about it, I am a bad person. I worked with this couple and we all started hanging out and stuff. We were all friends, and there was a big group of us. Anyways, I wasn't good friends with this guy, but we hung out a few times, but he treated her like shit. Everyone wondered how she put up with it. Anyways, she broke up with him and then, me and her started hanging out and we eventually got together. Not exactly on topic, but similar. But I don't really feel bad for what I did. I didn't technically steal her though.
beef_bourito
02-15-2007, 02:29 PM
i'd say that's fine, she broke up with him, she's free game. if a girl breaks up with a friend of mine and i want to date her, it would really depend on what their relationship was like. if they were really close then i'd hang back for a while, then ask his permission. if they weren't all that close, or it only lasted a month or so, i wouldn't wait quite as long, but i'd still ask permission from my friend.
if the guy is just someone i hang out with every once in a while but am not really friends with or anything than i wouldn't really care all that much, i might still ask if the guy cares, maybe, but i wouldn't really care all that much what he said. i mean i'd give it a bit of thought but if i'm not friends with the guy i don't really care.
if the guy is just someone i hang out with every once in a while but am not really friends with or anything than i wouldn't really care all that much, i might still ask if the guy cares, maybe, but i wouldn't really care all that much what he said. i mean i'd give it a bit of thought but if i'm not friends with the guy i don't really care.
ghostrx7
02-15-2007, 03:00 PM
i think we all agree with each other. for example, a kid i know from highschool was really good friends with this girl ashley. i dont hang out with the kid, but we say hi when we see each other out. it all started when she wanted me bad at a bar, and we wanted to leave together. he ended up coming with her and sitting on my couch next to my bed while we were chillin on the bed. he wouldnt leave until she left, so we ended that night. this guy isnt her bf, but he kinda thought she was(u know, the guy that has alot of girl "friends" and is protective of them and hoping they fall in love with him...) anyway, i saw him a few days later and he confronted me saying that they have a backround together and they kinda have something going. the girl tells me there was nothing and never will be. so i ended up hittin her off and he got all pissy. he still talks shit to this day, but he knows hes just a douchebag and he will never talk shit to me. i believe i did nothing wrong, so i dont really confront his grammar school maturity azz, but if i hear one more time that hes talking crap, im knockin his bitchazz out! some guys are such babies when it comes to girls i cant stand it. i look at it as if someone could steal my girl, the girl was never worth it to begin with, and def not worth cryin about it. funny thing is i still hit her up bout once a month.....been about 6 months now
poormillionaire2
02-15-2007, 04:28 PM
Some guys are just hopeless pansies. Some people need to just move on and look elsewhere.
See what women do? They tear men apart. Its sad really.
See what women do? They tear men apart. Its sad really.
beef_bourito
02-15-2007, 05:08 PM
(u know, the guy that has alot of girl "friends" and is protective of them and hoping they fall in love with him...)
that guy pisses me off, i've got a bunch of girl friends, and yes i watch out for them, make sure they don't do anything stupid, but if they're gonna hook up with a guy i let them, screw it let them have their fun. well at this one party there was this girl i was going for, but there was this guy, sort of a friend of mine, who was basicly attached to her at the hip. it was bad, wherever she was, he was, he wasn't even talking to her or anything. anyways, any time i got close to her and stated talking to her, he'd start being like "marie, let's go get you... etc." and he'd just go on like that until she left me. it was so fucking annoying. now i knew he liked her so i eventually started getting pissed off at him and gave up on her (plus there was someone who was talking alot of crap and i was trying to avoid getting into a fight with him while my friends were there, i don't like fighting in front of some of my friends), i started trying to get him to make a move, it was kind of sad, he would go close, think about it, then back off.
that guy pisses me off, i've got a bunch of girl friends, and yes i watch out for them, make sure they don't do anything stupid, but if they're gonna hook up with a guy i let them, screw it let them have their fun. well at this one party there was this girl i was going for, but there was this guy, sort of a friend of mine, who was basicly attached to her at the hip. it was bad, wherever she was, he was, he wasn't even talking to her or anything. anyways, any time i got close to her and stated talking to her, he'd start being like "marie, let's go get you... etc." and he'd just go on like that until she left me. it was so fucking annoying. now i knew he liked her so i eventually started getting pissed off at him and gave up on her (plus there was someone who was talking alot of crap and i was trying to avoid getting into a fight with him while my friends were there, i don't like fighting in front of some of my friends), i started trying to get him to make a move, it was kind of sad, he would go close, think about it, then back off.
imtheoneandonlyD
02-16-2007, 05:13 PM
hmm, any guy that would steal a friends girlfriend deserves an ass whooping. The girl im dating now was in a relationship when i met her and i never actually came onto her. She started asking me to hang out and when we did she started liking me and broke up with her bf. Now i had nothing to do with telling her to break up with him.
But when shes with a friend its a whole new story. One of my exs was being constantly bugged by one of my "friends". At first she brushed it off but then he started telling her he loved her and all this other bs. I havent seen him since i told him i was going to beat his ass for being an idiot.
I would never steal a girl away from a friend and any guy that would derserves to be beaten.
But when shes with a friend its a whole new story. One of my exs was being constantly bugged by one of my "friends". At first she brushed it off but then he started telling her he loved her and all this other bs. I havent seen him since i told him i was going to beat his ass for being an idiot.
I would never steal a girl away from a friend and any guy that would derserves to be beaten.
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