Problems with this girl

:banghead: :banghead: This girl i know... we have had some problems. Her name is nikki, she is really nice, beautiful and smart. The only problem is that she does some things i dont like. Pot, Stealing, Cheating. I dont think that makes her smart. but to the real stuff. Her and I have kinda had a thing for each other. but its been werid. we hang out one night and the next day she like hates me. i have no idea what is going on in her head. it is confusing! It somtimes seems like she is still in love with her X. Her X is a just Plain Douche Bag. he allways cheats on her and can never be trusted. Nikki and i have talked about going out, but i cant ever trust her either. i dont know what to do. I am sure i forgot something so sorry.

From what I hear of her x, yea, he is a douche bag, lol.

well, what ive learned in 28 years of living is that some people like instability in there relationships. my best friend date girls that are horrible in my book, and they argue like no tomarrow, but he still loves it! some people need drama in there life to survive. thats why girls dont like a respectable, down to earth, conservative guy, which i used to be.

Ryan, you also gotta remember, your 16, ya may not be wither later on. If you dont like that, tell her. Then if she respects that, she may listen. But if you do, dont worry so much.

ya thanks cory, but i dont want to tell her that. im afraid what she will say and also, she has a lot of power in popuality. all she has to do is make a rumor and it spreads in min.... lol. Our school is too smalll. i dont know what to do. She is so sexy and amazing. I cant even begin to describe her. Its totally not about the sex or anything( i mean im a guy and its in my DNA, but that is a bonus) I want a serious relationship with a girl i can trust, and this girl looks like i cant trust her. so fuck her i guesss. but i know that i will allways run back to her cause i cant help it. Id add a pic but dont know how, A Newbie Yes a Newbie!!!!
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some people need drama in there life to survive. thats why girls dont like a respectable, down to earth, conservative guy, which i used to be.

So THAT'S why I can't get a girlfriend. Anyway, if she's really popular AND she's into pot, cheating, and stealing, she's probably a prep. You reeeeeeeeally don't want to get involved with a prep.

Nismo, shes not really a prep, there reallly isnt any preppy kids here, I know her too, but she "does" some other things that turn me away from her too. I my self wouldnt get involved with her.

btw, how do you load pics into a thread, i remember seing a thread about it somewhere on AF but dont remember where.

I tried to go out with a girl like that. six months of endless fighting. i don't know, girls like that can be alot of fun, but i like to find a balance somewhere between fun and stability. i dont like baggage and i dont like any underlying issues. i'm also kind of picky :rolleyes:. right now though, i'm 19, going to college, and working everyday. i'm kind of trying to find someone whos on my level with that kind of thing.

Yeah, it is pretty fucked up. i dont get her at all. she just pisses me off and then i go home and have a bad day at home with the parents. its fucked up. o well i will eventally find somebody. shes too good for me. no big deal. Peace!!!

too good for u? no such thing.... too snobby, maybe...

Plenty more fish in the sea.

But you won't find many girls there, best try a mall or something. :smooch:

I agree with ghost that ther is no such thing as too good, too fucked up maybe but not to good

15 year old giving 16 year olds love advice :rolleyes: ...The smartest thing was 2.2's comment. Go fishing man your young enjoy it. Dont get stuck on someone who isn't giving you the respect you deserve. Now lets talk about cars!!

15 year old giving 16 year olds love advice :rolleyes: ...The smartest thing was 2.2's comment. Go fishing man your young enjoy it. Dont get stuck on someone who isn't giving you the respect you deserve. Now lets talk about cars!!u talkin aboutt nismo? I think Ryan is gonna go fishing. How do u post pics?

pics sure..

got to www.photobucket.com
sign up
upload your pics
then copy the code that says

[IMG]http://img.phot.....

Click advanced and see if it works

Well, you are young and there are plenty of fish in the sea. I was in a similar situaution when I was younger too. I got over it and now im with the sweetest girl on earth! Patience and trust is key to having a good relationship, and if it isn't there to begin with, its probably not worth it. My 2 sense.

agreed, harder to try and change someone then to trade her in for a better model.....

agreed, harder to try and change someone then to trade her in for a better model.....

it's just a pain when you get a bad finance deal.

I think he gave up on her after yesterday, some things she said and did this week made them both mad. lol So he is looking for someone else.

I think he gave up on her after yesterday, some things she said and did this week made them both mad. lol So he is looking for someone else.

you know him?

you know him?Yea, he's my best friend. I told him about this site so he joined.

haha, my friends are not cool enough for me to invite.....

and yeah, bad financing deals are no good. better to rent with an option to buy..hahaha

and yeah, bad financing deals are no good. better to rent with an option to buy..hahaha


hahahahahahahahaha...

test drive..

even better! sometimes i need more than a test drive tho.... you really gotta try it out before you make your final decision...

haha, my friends are not cool enough for me to invite.....

and yeah, bad financing deals are no good. better to rent with an option to buy..hahahaI have 2 friends on here, Ryan (ZZK) and Timmy, i dont know what his screen name is though. There the only people I would tell this site to. Yea, test drives are fun, lol.