Power Accessory Relay

Does anyone know where I can get a power accessory relay for my Isuzu Amigo 1999 v6 3.2L. I cant use both the cigerette lighter as well as the acessory port and all the fuses look fine. The only thing I can think of that I have not replaced is the power accessory relay, this is one of the two black squarish things in the drivers side fuse panel

did you pull the outlets?

Sometimes the wires will melt right off the back of them due to using too high of a wattage of device in them.

pulled apart the front console to get to the accessory socket and the cigerette the wires looked ok. I pulled it apart thinking that there may have been like some sort of inline fuse or something but didnt find anything. I am seriously confused by what it could be. Called up an Isuzu dealer yesterday and the guy said he couldnt find this relay in his book.

Im confused as I am holding the stupid thing in my hand and the fuse layout diag says that it is something for the acc socket (I assume accessory socket)