helppp wiring probs!!!

hey good news i completed the motor swap. bad news the connectors for the wiring harness to under the power distribution center dont match the ones from the sohc are two 10 pin connectors and the existing connectors from the dohc that stayed with the chasis are a grey 14 pin and a black 10 pin.any one got any help? i know the wires that dont match go to the brake lights and the other goes to the cruise control disengage when u hit the brakes
neon guy 97
charlie