trying to get back with teh EX

I was with this girl for just shy of 2 years and at the end I thought I wanted my freedom so I didn't really want to just end it with her because I did not want to hurt her so over the last 2 months we were togeather I really started treating her really bad not being myself and it ended up in a mutual break up after that we have been apart now for a month did not talk at all and now all I can think is that I want her back I called her up and told her how bad I was feeling and now she is not willing to give me a second chance to prove myself again during the 2 months that i was treating her bad she was crying all the time she didn't want it to end at all but she knew something was up and now she doesn't want a relationship at all any help here guys would be greatly appreicated I did not relize what i had and I messed it all up

Moving to relationships for you.

My question to you is: why, after you treated her badly for two months, would she want to get back together? She'll just expect more of the same.

that's what happenes. you screwed yourself over, sorry man. moving on time.

She probably doesn't want to get back together with you because your punctuation sucks.

I know why you say why would she want to get back togeather but I have told her why I was treating her bad and I told her we can take it slow we don't have to jump right back into things just talk and hang out but she won't even give me that she says we can be friends but i don't know how I would act when I see her with some other dude

u effed up by not being str8 w/ her from the beginning/ she won't trust u at all now... move on

She probably doesn't want to get back together with you because your punctuation sucks.

What punctuation?


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of course I was straight with her in the beginning the relationship would not have lasted as long as it did without that it was just the last 2 months I explained that to her and she did understand

you guys are just saying move on it is the easy way out but I do not want to take that road I would really like to continue what we had

when did we say its the easy way out? i didnt know there were options here? i guess you could stalk her, but i think thats illegal.

What punctuation?


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Okay, so it's nonexistent.

well I guess you didn't say it was the easy way out but i am just looking for other options here I am looking for a way I can convince her to take me back

well..we dont know her so we cant tell you what to say. if you know enough about her you might can convince her. nothing we can help you out with there, buddy

I was with this girl for just shy of 2 years and at the end I thought I wanted my freedom so I didn't really want to just end it with her because I did not want to hurt her so over the last 2 months we were togeather I really started treating her really bad not being myself and it ended up in a mutual break up after that we have been apart now for a month did not talk at all and now all I can think is that I want her back I called her up and told her how bad I was feeling and now she is not willing to give me a second chance to prove myself again during the 2 months that i was treating her bad she was crying all the time she didn't want it to end at all but she knew something was up and now she doesn't want a relationship at all any help here guys would be greatly appreicated I did not relize what i had and I messed it all up
I honestly dunno anything about girls but it seems to me that the number one thing about relationships is communication. if i were in your shoes looking for freedom, i would have talked to her about my feelings, period. I'm sure any man who's been in a relationship with a girl for as long as you have felt the same way at some point and letting them know how you feel is how you can find a solution to keep both people happy in the end. You didn't do that so you screwed up, move on. Tons of fabulous babes out there man.

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If you can't be in an honest relationship then both of you should move on. The general rule is don't go back to something you've ended and essentially it's evident to her that you can't be trusted.

Move on mate - take the lesson down as experience and you need to sort out whatever is bugging you before you embark on another relationship lest it end up the same way (and I'm presuming you don't)...

well she just called me this morning balling her eyes out on how much she still loves me and how much she misses me now we are going for coffee on sunday so well will see what happens

You lucked up buddy. Don't eff it up twice

i almost want to say dumb bitch, but accord put it nicer. good luck.

1 rule of thumb, ex's are ex's for a reason! i found out the hard way a few times...

I hope she tells you you're a jackass.

And then pours the coffee on you.

You sound just like my ex.

a little scorned nicole?

Hah, I'm not bitter. He just reminded me of everything that happened with my ex, and all I have to say is fuck that. I hope she's smarter than that. Especially when it comes to a guy and his freedom, he'll just do the same thing again. You guys are just as fickle as women.

were all human, were not perfect. and i have been in the same situation. i have treated a girl like shit because i wanted to end it but felt guilty, most of us probably have. but we all learn from mistakes also. adapting is nature.

True. Good luck to him then. Good luck to both of them.

not really saying he adapted and he will b healthy this this girl, more like he'll remember his mistakes when he finds a new relationship. i just avoid the whole situation all together!lol

Thanks guys I will try my best and Nicole8188 wow aren't we a little harsh do you think you women are just innocent of this whole thing ?

...at the end I thought I wanted my freedom...I really started treating her really bad not being myself...i was treating her bad she was crying all the time

You made it sound that way.

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:screwy: :iceslolan what? u dont write one sentence paragraphs?

Isn't posting in understandable language one of the AF official rules? It should be. I think we included it in the Noob Handbook. I might have to put it back in my sig for the new guys.

well we had our talk yesterday things actually went really well we do have a lot of stuff that we are going to work out we will be taking things slow and going from there thanks guys and girls for all your input