Im finally happy

My fiancee and I just signed the papers on our new house. Im only 20yrs old and already am buying a house and getting married. It feels great and wierd at the same time. I got a big yard 175sq ft x 240sq ft. The house it self is 2008 sq ft and i have a walk out basement with a two car garage and a shop. I neveer thought i would be getting married and buying a house at this age. I never even thought i would make much of mlyself but for the past 3yrs ive been working hard and trying to fix all the mistakes i made when i was younger. I finally got all my mistakes taken care of so i got my life on track and we are even thinking of having kids earlier than we thought too so im really excited.

that's a great accomplishment. i'm at 20 now and still lost in the proverbial mess of the american dream, so i know what you must have felt like when you mean you never saw yourself at this stage.

congratulations on starting the rest of your life

Congrats on making my bum ass feel even worse :frown:

j/k Congrats mang. I'm 23 still trying to get my ish together and find a way to get back to my lady (NY is so far away from Chicago :crying: )

good for you, glad to see everything's going well.

i think in 3 years i'll be in the same position. (hopefully)

I never even thought i would make much of mlyself but for the past 3yrs ive been working hard and trying to fix all the mistakes i made when i was younger. I finally got all my mistakes taken care of so i got my life on track and we are even thinking of having kids earlier than we thought too so im really excited.
When you were younger?:rofl:

You're still young man. Real young.

Glad you got your life straight though and your very happy. Wish I could say the same about mine, but I'm still sorting things out.

Best of luck to you. Wait till your at least 25 to have kids. You're still a kid, turn 21 hit up the bars and live it up with your wife.

You're still a kid, turn 21 hit up the bars and live it up with your wife.

alcohol + a night alone with the wife = :naughty: = kids

alcohol + a night alone with the wife = :naughty: = kids

:rofl: Very true. But don't forget

Kids + wife = no nights alone = :screwy: = alcohol

alcohol = you angry and drunk = - wife and kids


lets see how long we can take this

^Ah so...

you - wife and kids = alimony/ child support payments = no money for alcohol:frown:

Easy...

giving your children to your parents who love their grandchildren + hotel room with the wife + alcohol = :naughty: and everybody wins

Man this makes me feal like crap, I'm 20 and still live with my dad, Fuck this shit, I'm going for a drive.............................................

Thank you guys we wont be married for about another year. We dont plan on kids for 2yrs but maybe will have one sooner. Were trying not to rush into anything but its kinda hard because we are really excited.

Congrats on making my bum ass feel even worse :frown:

j/k Congrats mang. I'm 23 still trying to get my ish together and find a way to get back to my lady (NY is so far away from Chicago :crying: )

Oh my god! What and awesome quest! You need to do it!!! GO GET HER!

P.S. rock suburbia dude. Congrats on marriage and the house!

I'm 23 still trying to get my ish together and find a way to get back to my lady (NY is so far away from Chicago :crying: )

you think that's far away?

i live in London, my girlfriend, Nicole, lives in Florida. That's far away.

How can you deal with that man? The girl I like and I hang out once in a while outside of school but if I don't see her for a few days I get bummed out. I can't imagine how you feel.

it works out very well, and of course i get upset/depressed because i'm not with her. but i love her and i'll do anything to make it work. which at the moment is working to raise money to visit her for a couple of weeks in october. and will soon consist of moving to the States.

Good God. A wife and a house at 20??? Kids in two years??? I think I just got a migraine thinking about that!!! :eek:

But if it works for you dude, congrats!!! :)

you think that's far away?

i live in London, my girlfriend, Nicole, lives in Florida. That's far away.

Tell me about it...I live in Florida and my boyfriend lives in London.

Wait a second...haha.

Yea I think I know how you feel man, I mean the girl that I like is a Victoria Secret model and I only get to see her Once a week and that’s on TV, worse yet, she doesn't even Know I exist yet............................

Well soon my girlfriend will be in Nicole's neck of the woods. She starts grad school in Daytona in two weeks. I go back to school in Tallahassee, Florida in January so when I get back to FL we decided we'l trade off driving to see each other on the weekends.

I didn't know the Nicole/Chris relationship was real. I wish my girl would join the boards and waste her days away with me :frown:

Well soon my girlfriend will be on Nicole's neck

Oh sorry got ahead of myself there...

I wish my girl would join the boards and waste her days away with me :frown:

The stripper!? If so get her on here ASAP!

I didn't know the Nicole/Chris relationship was real.

are you serious? it's very very real...

when i'm in the states the first year (well, 9 months.) will still be a long-distance thing. but after that i'll be with her.

Tell me about it...I live in Florida and my boyfriend lives in London.

Wait a second...haha.

So you two are dating. Man I'm quik on the uptake. Come on guys get with the program.

(God I feel stupid.)

So you two are dating. Man I'm quik on the uptake. Come on guys get with the program.

(God I feel stupid.)

don't worry, it's not big news on here. just every other member who visits COT knows...:tongue:

don't worry, it's not big news on here. just every other member who visits COT knows...:tongue:

I never knew because of all that stalking you did to me, like tracking my IP and everything...

I never knew because of all that stalking you did to me, like tracking my IP and everything...

you look pretty hawt right now, sitting in front of your computer...

you look pretty hawt right now, sitting in front of your computer...

:uhoh:

don't worry, it's not big news on here. just every other member who visits COT knows...:tongue:

I live in COT and somehow this bit of info passed me by. Mabe its all the visits to Banlandia messing with my memory. I saw you guys post in the same threads all the time, but since I know where you both are I kinda ruled it out. Hmm, learn somethin new every day.

And muscletang, no its not the stripper :p That's a whole other issue right about now... I don't even wanna get into it, but my life got a LOT more complicated in the last 3 days :frown:

And muscletang, no its not the stripper :p That's a whole other issue right about now... I don't even wanna get into it, but my life got a LOT more complicated in the last 3 days :frown:

Is that so? Well lets talk, I'm listening...

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Dr Phil! NOOOOOOOOO!!!!!

He has a striking resemblance to the Mils Lane clay figure in your avatar :icon16:

I won't hijack this thread with my woes and insane stories, perhaps I'll post another thread in Relationships

He has a striking resemblance to the Mils Lane clay figure in your avatar :icon16:

Except Mills could kick his ass nine ways to Sunday.

My psychological advice? Lets get it on!