weird question

Alright now. Guys, is it a common problem to have a tremendous number of fat and/or ugly/annoying girls to have crushes on you? Cuz see.... yeah.

I just, don't understand. It's tremendous. I had a teacher in high school tell me one time that "All the fat girls in the school have a crush on you." I mean, of course not literally ALL, but yeah, it was a reality based joke.. tremendous. What's the deal with this? Is it normal? Cuz I get the hotties too every once in a while... but the ratio is... out of this world...

And girls... the one or two of you out there... If all the fat and ugly and annoying girls have a crush on a guy, does that mean that all the hotties do too? Or does it just mean I'm only good enough for the fat, ugly, annoying ones? It just blows my mind. It's like a curse. I'm hoping at least 10 to like 100 of you guys tell me I'm not the only one.

I know, weird question. Leave me alone.

That's the funniest thing I've heard in an incredibly long time.

Anyway, I don't think you're incredibly unattractive, so I'm sure there are hot girls out there that like you too. But hot ones don't have to put it out there as much, so you're not going to hear about it.

When I was in school, all the fat/ugly/annoying girls had crushes on the same guy - he was the hottest, most popular guy in school. Just because they're fat/ugly/annoying doesn't mean they have bad taste.

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No, completely unusual! Everybody knows fat/ugly/annoying girls aren't supposed to like guys at all. They all become lesbians or nuns.

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Man seriously, how old are you?

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No, completely unusual! Everybody knows fat/ugly/annoying girls aren't supposed to like guys at all. They all become lesbians or nuns.

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Man seriously, how old are you?
Why would his age matter?. We allow 13 year old and older members, which he meets obviously. So while this is a "odd" question as he stated (might belong in the relationship forum though) it is a valid question. I think plenty of guys and girls have found for like every 5 or more people that have a one sides attraction, there is the one case that is mutual.

We can't always choose the people we appeal to and that appeal to us which is a shame but its better to at least have some admirers that may not appeal to you than none :smooch: .

I didn't think it was an 'odd' question. I think it's a fact of life. Of course people are going to like you, that you don't find particularly attractive. And you will like people that don't find you particularly attractive.

What teacher goes up to somebody and says "hey all the fat girls like you"? And saying, 'it blows his mind', and 'it's a curse'....Really?
It might have been the fact that I read it at 4am, but it comes across as a bit immature and egotistic. No offense meant, and I'm sorry if I'm wrong, but it is the internet, and tone is hard to interpret, but that is how I did/do. :dunno:

You should obviously take it as flattering. Just because they're fat or ugly doesn't mean they have bad taste. It also doesn't mean you should dismiss them as dating candidates.

I didn't think it was an 'odd' question. I think it's a fact of life. Of course people are going to like you, that you don't find particularly attractive. And you will like people that don't find you particularly attractive.

What teacher goes up to somebody and says "hey all the fat girls like you"? And saying, 'it blows his mind', and 'it's a curse'....Really?
It might have been the fact that I read it at 4am, but it comes across as a bit immature and egotistic. No offense meant, and I'm sorry if I'm wrong, but it is the internet, and tone is hard to interpret, but that is how I did/do. :dunno:
There are teacher having sex with there very under age students in the real world, so the odd ball teacher throwing out statements like that wouldn't surprise me all that much :lol: but I get what you mean.

Fat bitches need lovin too...theres my 2 cents lol

Anyway, I don't think you're incredibly unattractive

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There's a back-handed compliment if I ever saw one!!!! You're unattractive.....just not INCREDIBLY unattactive!!! :icon16:


Rick, I was kind of in the same situation as you. I attract a good amount of large women. I always figured it was because I'm polite and chatty with them when most guys just blow them off.

more cushion for the pushin

Got the same problem man, but I think mine is a bit worse. I attract the ghetto big girls. I think it's because I look like Tiger Woods.

Glen Quagmire: "Don't look at me like that. Fat chicks need love too... but they got to pay."

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Superficial.

Look beneath the surface.

Superficial.

Look beneath the surface.
You know, I don't think so. Attraction should and has to be a big part of who we seek a physical relationship with. It is not in my opinion anyone's fault if the attraction is there or not. Its just lack of a spark and that doesn't mean you can't be friends with someone cause of the way they look or down the road you will see them as being beautiful but it obviously wouldn't be love at first sight. Just my :2cents: .

Igovert, not that you were worried about it, but no offense taken. What kind of teacher you ask? A 55 year old spanish woman with a rich husband and an ego. She wasn't much of a teacher really, all she did was talk to us all day. Gossip mostly. And she thought it was quite funny that all the fat girls had a crush on me.

Okay let me put it into perspective. Some of the girls who have had crushes on me were literally just about curse-worthy. Like stalker type. There was this one girl who would scream out my name and run up and latch onto me and tell me she loved me (and not let go)... if I didn't run, every time she saw me. This other girl told a zillion people that we were bumpin and grindin at clubs and making out and all this crap (by "all this crap" I mean at least about 10 other rumors), umm... Other girls have somehow gotten my phone number and called me every day, had conversations with my mom, mapquested my house and stopped by randomly, always talk to my friends about how much they liked me and my friends were always making fun of me for it.... I mean.. I'm sayin... Is this normal? If all these crazies are having crushes on me, why can't I just find a regular girl that likes me that much? And if this isn't normal I'd like to know a girls opinion on WHY ME? I'm just really confused about all this.

Oz.. I won't lie. I'm superficial to an extent. I look for looks first, and personality second. But I wouldn't disassociate myself from anybody just because of looks. Nor would I get all pissy and write a thread about it just because girls who like me aren't pretty. They've mostly been incredibly strange and at least borderline harrassive after many many attempts to let them down in a kind way. I mean, when you go to school and you're the last one to hear about your new girlfriend... things just aren't comfortable.

So, new question. Can anybody relate to that, or explain that to me? What could it be about me, that draws the psycho bitches?

Wow man, can't say that I've been in that position, neither have most of my friends. You must wear the version of Axe that attracts the looney ones :dunno:

I think all you can really do is chalk it up to coincidences and keep on truckin.

Aw, crap, you must be right! It must be my loony axe scent. lol jp.

Okay, but how many of you guys have EVER had at least one... no.. at least two girls like that like you?

I am just looking for a little clarity. I'm just me, I don't know what's normal for everyone else.

I've had a couple, but not nearly as many as you say and they definitely go as extreme as yours went. Well atleast you'll never be bored right? haha

Plus, fat girls are like Mopeds. They're fun to ride but you don't want your friends to see.

I feel your pain man, fat chick seem to flock to me too :/ I dunno what it is, I dont lead them on.

alright cool, at least I'm not being misunderstood and hung out to dry by everyone.

p.s. man I love riding mopeds, haha!

Yes, I've had one looney like that. Called my house 5 times an hour at least. Followed me. She was borderline stalker. We've all been there at some point.

My big fat ex (she didn't use to be fat) is a stalker, another chick is like 400lbs literally and is obsessed with me. I know exactly what you're saying. Hot chicks are quieter and the fatties are trying to be a super whore to get my attention....not cool.

the fatties are trying to be a super whore to get my attention....not cool.
:eek: I take offense to that, I am a super whore and I am not fat at all :rolleyes:

(Although I don't know a guy who isn't a super whore :lol: , I am sure they exist just don't know any)

Moved to relationships.

ANY stalker is unwanted.

See past the size if she's acting normal.

That is all.

Well i've been in a similar situation. the thing is that all of my "big" female friends end up liking me. i had one in high school who started liking me (plus she was a year older) so i kept my distance because some of the stuff she did when seen like that was kinda uncomfortable.

now i work with a big girl who was trying to hook me up with her friend, sent me a picture, she had a pretty face, didn't look all that big, just a little chubby (i dont mind chubby) but then when we got to the hot tub, the belly was a bit of a turn off lol (the pictures only showed her face). but yeah it turns out that my coworker likes me 2.

i think it might be that big girls are a little easier to be friends with because you're not looking for anything more than a friend and they think you like them. I know i'm more comfortable approaching a fat chick for the first time than a hot chick because of the lack of physical attractiveness.

the other thing about my co-worker's friend is that, well i'd been hanging around with them for a while and we got to the hot tub and i later learned that the chick digged me and wanted to "make a move" on me lol. my co-worker told me this i'm like "well it's a good thing she didn't because i don't want to have to turn someone down" but if she does try, i can just pull out plain old logic, she's going away for school in 2 or 3 weeks, i won't see her till she gets back, no point starting a relationship that we can't continue. so i'll just keep it away from the little "big" problem.

I've had a couple, but not nearly as many as you say and they definitely go as extreme as yours went. Well atleast you'll never be bored right? haha

Plus, fat girls are like Mopeds. They're fun to ride but you don't want your friends to see.

LOLOL!!!!!!!


Igovert, not that you were worried about it, but no offense taken. What kind of teacher you ask? A 55 year old spanish woman with a rich husband and an ego. She wasn't much of a teacher really, all she did was talk to us all day. Gossip mostly. And she thought it was quite funny that all the fat girls had a crush on me.

Okay let me put it into perspective. Some of the girls who have had crushes on me were literally just about curse-worthy. Like stalker type. There was this one girl who would scream out my name and run up and latch onto me and tell me she loved me (and not let go)... if I didn't run, every time she saw me. This other girl told a zillion people that we were bumpin and grindin at clubs and making out and all this crap (by "all this crap" I mean at least about 10 other rumors), umm... Other girls have somehow gotten my phone number and called me every day, had conversations with my mom, mapquested my house and stopped by randomly, always talk to my friends about how much they liked me and my friends were always making fun of me for it.... I mean.. I'm sayin... Is this normal? If all these crazies are having crushes on me, why can't I just find a regular girl that likes me that much? And if this isn't normal I'd like to know a girls opinion on WHY ME? I'm just really confused about all this.

Oz.. I won't lie. I'm superficial to an extent. I look for looks first, and personality second. But I wouldn't disassociate myself from anybody just because of looks. Nor would I get all pissy and write a thread about it just because girls who like me aren't pretty. They've mostly been incredibly strange and at least borderline harrassive after many many attempts to let them down in a kind way. I mean, when you go to school and you're the last one to hear about your new girlfriend... things just aren't comfortable.

So, new question. Can anybody relate to that, or explain that to me? What could it be about me, that draws the psycho bitches?


Hey dude, at leat be thankful that you're getting some kind of attention. And I know it's probably something you're not looking for but, hey, at least you're getting attention and you're not like a conceited person who does things in search of attention (at least I assume).

I say be thankful because just be thankful you're not like me. I just suck with girls period. It's been such a fine line on how to be friends with girls...at least for, me, I just suck at it, which obviously explains why I've never had a girlfriend in my life. I've never had anyone come up to me or tell someone who later told me that they thought I was hot, or good looking or they liked me...not once...I did like when I was in 3rd grade...but that didn't really count. Not only that, I'm just really shy and when I do converse with girls, I usually end up being too much of an asshole (I know girls, most of the time like a little bit of an asshole for humorous purposes, oddly as it sounds) or I just end up not trying hard enough and being too paranoid yadayada...I'm rambling....

Moral is, I'd say accept it as a compliment, aside from the stalking part. Who says you can't maintain a normal friendship with those who like you, except for the ones who stalk you like it's their life to...

I say be thankful because just be thankful you're not like me. I just suck with girls period. It's been such a fine line on how to be friends with girls...at least for, me, I just suck at it, which obviously explains why I've never had a girlfriend in my life. I've never had anyone come up to me or tell someone who later told me that they thought I was hot, or good looking or they liked me...not once...I did like when I was in 3rd grade...but that didn't really count. Not only that, I'm just really shy and when I do converse with girls, I usually end up being too much of an asshole (I know girls, most of the time like a little bit of an asshole for humorous purposes, oddly as it sounds) or I just end up not trying hard enough and being too paranoid yadayada...I'm rambling....
How old are you? (i didn't mean that in an insulting way, i just want to know) don't worry about it because when you get to university, if you get friends, they'll basicly force you to go talk to girls. it'll get that nervousness out of your system. another thing, if you don't feel good about yourself, how do you expect others to feel good about you. i know you think that if others think good about you you'll feel better but if you don't feel confident or good about yourself, it shows. it might not be something apparent but it's something that'll turn someone off maybe without them even noticing.

oh yeah i forgot this in my last reply: "Fat chicks give the best head because they're always hungry" :naughty:

My boyfriend had this roommate who is seriously in love with him. When he met me, it got so bad (plus other pyschotic females living in their house) he was forced to move out. Anyway, she was really obese and thought she was in with a chance. She acted like a 12 year old around him and kept trying to make me jealous, when she had NO chance. He seems to attract fat girls and they all want to have his babies. I personally find it amusing.

So, even if you get a girlfriend who's not obese/crazy, you're still not going to get left alone.

So, even if you get a girlfriend who's not obese/crazy, you're still not going to get left alone.
If she's obese, chances are she knows how to cook pretty good. Plus one.

oh yeah i forgot this in my last reply: "Fat chicks give the best head because they're always hungry" :naughty:

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Holy God that had me rolling.

If she's obese, chances are she knows how to cook pretty good. Plus one.

and/or rich. If you can afford to eat enough food to be obese, damn. I can barely afford to keep what weight I've already got.

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No, completely unusual! Everybody knows fat/ugly/annoying girls aren't supposed to like guys at all. They all become lesbians or nuns.


...or phys. ed. teachers, or talk show hosts.

your not alone rick, and someone said this earlier, it may be because your polite to them and dont just call em fat bi#ches or whatever azzholes do. ive always been nice to the big ones, cause somewhere is there skinny friend that the fat girl is gonna convince to give me a try...... i had so many large girls like me that i even gave it a try.(didnt like it!)

anyway rick, i would just let it give me more confidence than see it as a bad thing.

Alright, I'd say I'm satisfied now with the responses. I got an array of opinions, and what nots. But the thing I didn't explain fully at first is that it's not necessarily just fatties, or uglies. Its mostly crazies, who are also fat and ugly. Some aren't fat or ugly, to be honest there were some that I was attracted to until I showed interest and then they went psycho-stalker on me. I was a little bit curious if there was something about ME that fat girls liked more than other guys... I was suspicious that being tall and thin had a lot to do with it. But the question was mainly about the crazies. I 've drawn the conclusion that I must be a little bit different myself. I don't know what it is, but I can name 7 or 8 crazies off the top of my head. 3 or 4 of which I was physically attracted to. And this dates all the way back to 1st grade I kid you not. The first one was Jennifer in 1st grade. After my girlfriend moved away she told everybody she was my girlfriend. (yea I had a gf in 1st grade, we used to hold hands and shit) (actually, not and shit.. just hold hands)

I still don't think anybody else here has seen a pattern like I have, based on the responses. But it's okay, I can see that it's not normal, and that's really all I wanted to know.

I will admit I used to write this one girl love letters for like 2 years and put them in her desk while she never spoke to me. Maybe it's karma? But this was from 3rd to 5th grade. Then after that I realized it was kinda lame. I dunno. I think I'm just a little bit weird. Like 5-10% weirder than normal people... Maybe that's why I get all the crazies.

I think you're the crazy here.

My guy friend is gay and he had this girl telling all his friends that they were together. now THAT is crazy. and she was fat and ugly. worse than ugly. Maybe I should send her your way.

hey fat chicks need some love too!!!! :boink:.........................JUST NOT FROM ME!!!!! :rofl:

rick, dont u know half the women in the world are crazy!!!! i had one that i was attracted to. she was totally posessed with me. when we broke up i went on vacation, and she left printed pictures all over my car saying i miss u, i love u forever.....!!! she called me later and said didnt u see them? i was like, ur crazy!!! leave me alone!
i also told her once i was sick of her and didnt want to be with her anymore, and she got dropped off at my house at 2am drunk as hell wanting me. i kicked her out and she was destroyed, she was lying in my driveway crying her eyes out. i had her friend pick her up. so ya,some girls are psyco

hahaha that sucks. i probably would have given her a 26 of vodka and told her to drown the pain away in booze.

i think its time to whip this one out again:

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