Soch Vtec 93' on a Coupe 96'

Hi everyone, long time without posting anything.... since you guys helped me out on my first swap and my first turbo made at home, well, what better place to ask for help than here?..... ok, here is the problem:

Im swaping a 93 single vtec on my cuz' 96 coupe... I took the old DX motor out the car (big headache with no cherry piker) and took the wiring harness off the motor... then, I took the 93 soch vtec wirring off the other motor and tried to put the 96 DX harness on it.... are you guyz with me?.. ok... I heard some where that I could use the DX WH on the 93 Soch Vtec and it would work, but theres a lot of plugs that dont fit... someone else told me to get a OBD2 WH and put it on the Vtec motor and it would be a plug and play...

how do I get around this problem?... I mean, what should I do? whats the best way to do it?... plz, that problem is driving me :screwy: :banghead:

thanks again for any help....

Note: I dont feel like changing the intake Manifold for a OBD2 one... thats one thing.