this sucks.

I think I have become uninterested in my girlfriend. I suck at saying what I feel, so I can never say anything the way I intend it. But, I think I really have lost interest in her. She is going to take it really badly, but what else am I supposed to do? Im not going to live in this pretend relationship. Right now I think I just want to be single for awhile. But shes going to practically die if we break up. Im lost.

That's what I thought about my ex...and then he dumped me. Maybe that'll happen for you.

Seriously though, you just have to tell her. Everyone has to deal with heartache at some point in time, so this is her turn. Just don't play games, don't suddenly realize you want her back, or you think you do, or any of that stuff. Make sure it's really what you want and then tell her how you feel.

^Couldn't have said it better. its unfortunate maybe, but true. if ur serious about feeling that way, don't refrain because you're afraid of the consequences, however the pitiful.

She came over a little while ago. She said she wouldnt break up with me. :eek: So I told her that I'm probably not that easy to live with. Oh well we'll see how it goes. I guess I can stay with her for awhile.

That's the worst mentality ever. You're just dragging it out. If you don't want to be with her, don't be with her.

just stayin with her longer is going to make the break up that much worse. tell her how you really feel and that you don't want the break up to hurt her anymore than it will.

Yeah. Some relationships just run their course and then it becomes stale and uninteresting. Can you pinpoint any particular reason you're bored with her? If you can, maybe you can try to bring that up with her instead of jumping to break up. But if she just all around isn't the person for you, then break it off for the good of both of you. How long you been goin out?

Pretty much what's been said sounds good; there's no point in being with her if you don't feel anything. I would really try to stress it to her that you no longer want the relationship and explain it in a way that *hopefully* helps her understand as it seems she's in denial about it.

Well I just broke up with her like one minute ago. Hopefully she doesnt do anything drastic. I just need to be single. We were together for almost 2 years. Thanks for the input.

How did you break up with her? I hope, after 2 years, you did it like a man face to face.

Let us know how it goes.

yeah. she can't get over it. she keeps saying " I cant do this" etc. I feel bad but Im just done. neither of us were happy. I wish she would just let it go.

Good job, man, and good luck.

How old are you guys? She'll get over it, don't worry. She's being dramatic now, but as soon as a few days pass she'll be fine.

Actually, she may not be. But either way, just avoid her as much as possible. Trying to talk her into being ok with it will make it worse. Don't call her, don't go see her, don't do anything to have any contact with her.

How old are you guys? She'll get over it, don't worry. She's being dramatic now, but as soon as a few days pass she'll be fine.

Actually, she may not be. But either way, just avoid her as much as possible. Trying to talk her into being ok with it will make it worse. Don't call her, don't go see her, don't do anything to have any contact with her.
:2cents: I'd say weeks since they've seen each other for 2 years, but i don't know anything about this stuff (age 22, dated one girl in my life). wish my roomate would listen to your advise though. same situation, but doesn't avoid her or stop calling like he should. now she's still in our house every day:banghead:

She's just confused but she'll get over it.

My friend got dumped and her ex is still pretty much just using her for sex because she still loves him and won't move on. It's sad. Us girls can be stupid sometimes.