Guys...

I don't get it...am i the only one with this problem? Is like....us guys just seem unable to be satisfly(sp) with what we got.....other's girl is always somehow...hotter? why!? any body know how to make us (me) ungreedy?:shakehead

What's it matter if the other one is "hotter"? Sure, I've got female friends that are hot, but their personalities keep them from being anything commitable(if that's a word), imo. The one's that are good match for me, oh well, they understand. I'm hitched and it's stayin' that way as long as possible. If I thought I belonged to someone else, I'd be there.

I don't know how to answer your question except iwht my own experience, which is stated above.

other's girl is always somehow...hotter? why!? any body know how to make us (me) ungreedy?:shakehead

this may sound like stupid response, but, why don't you just try and get a hotter girlfriend??

although, i would be willing to bet that the REAL problem lies within you and your ability to appreciate your girlfriend to the fullest extenet. whether she is hotter than others or not you are with HER and you need to realize all that she has to offer. sounds to me like you don't

this may sound like stupid response, but, why don't you just try and get a hotter girlfriend??

although, i would be willing to bet that the REAL problem lies within you and your ability to appreciate your girlfriend to the fullest extenet. whether she is hotter than others or not you are with HER and you need to realize all that she has to offer. sounds to me like you don't
Awesome job putting into words what I couldn't.

there'll come a time when you'll realise that love is blind and having a better-looking girlfriend means nothing.

personally, i find the girl i love the most beautiful i've ever seen. but there's no point being superficial. relationships based on sex and looks rarely last. love someone for who they are, and not what they look like.

Awesome job putting into words what I couldn't.


what can i say, great minds think alike

Hmm...I'm incredibly shallow and I go for nothing but looks alone.

I also lost my glasses months ago.

Hmm...I'm incredibly shallow and I go for nothing but looks alone.

I also lost my glasses months ago.
From looking at your avatar and myspace, in my honest opinion you look prettier without them. That's saying a lot, because I most generally think girls look prettier with.

*looks over shoulder* I ain't hittin' on you, so make sure your man don't come runnin', now.

there'll come a time when you'll realise that love is blind

Then why is lingerie so popular?

On a more serious note though I'll say this, love comes in many different taste. Example?

http://www.helgeoveras.com/images/john_lennon_portrait.jpg

John Lennon here, who was one of the Beatles, probably could have gotten almost any hottie in the 1960's. It was a sure thing if she was a hippie.

Who does he go for though?

http://www.instantkarma.com/images/yokoonobox1jr.jpghttp://www.momes.net/dictionnaire/o/yokoono.jpg

Probably the ugliest bitch (yes she's a bitch because she broke up the Beatles) on the planet where all the world's alcohol couldn't make her half-way decent.

As I said, love comes in many different taste. I will agree A LITTLE (I won't fall for no damn Yoko Ono) as the girls I've had the strongest feelings for weren't the best looking but their personalities made up for that. The hottest girls I've known I couldn't stand and it was a turn off.

She have great personality(sp) too, and as far as i can tell i am not the only one who think she is pretty hot...i mean people stare at her everywhere she goes...emm that say something u know....I am not saying that i am not happy with her, is just that...emm u always have some complain u know....human are never statisly~!!!

Then why is lingerie so popular?

On a more serious note though I'll say this, love comes in many different taste. Example?

http://www.helgeoveras.com/images/john_lennon_portrait.jpg

John Lennon here, who was one of the Beatles, probably could have gotten almost any hottie in the 1960's. It was a sure thing if she was a hippie.

Who does he go for though?

http://www.instantkarma.com/images/yokoonobox1jr.jpghttp://www.momes.net/dictionnaire/o/yokoono.jpg

Probably the ugliest bitch (yes she's a bitch because she broke up the Beatles) on the planet where all the world's alcohol couldn't make her half-way decent.

As I said, love comes in many different taste. I will agree A LITTLE (I won't fall for no damn Yoko Ono) as the girls I've had the strongest feelings for weren't the best looking but their personalities made up for that. The hottest girls I've known I couldn't stand and it was a turn off.
what'd we learn from this example? don't do drugs...

but yeah back on topic, wow, girls come with personalities?! but hell who cares about personalities when there's boobs! ass! legs! wowz! hotties!

please don't be so shallow, it only makes u look like a stupid, inconsiderate, only thinking with your dick, sorta guy. prooobably not what you were going for. meet a girl who you get along with well, and she will become more beautiful. think like chris. maybe take your girl shopping and buy her some sexy clothes that you both like, take her to the salon for a new 'do. i've known of VERY few girls who would ever turn down a complimentary trip to the salon. while looks are important, they're not everything.

what'd we learn from this example? don't do drugs...

but yeah back on topic, wow, girls come with personalities?! but hell who cares about personalities when there's boobs! ass! legs! wowz! hotties!

please don't be so shallow, it only makes u look like a stupid, inconsiderate, only thinking with your dick, sorta guy. prooobably not what you were going for. meet a girl who you get along with well, and she will become more beautiful. think like chris. maybe take your girl shopping and buy her some sexy clothes that you both like, take her to the salon for a new 'do. i've known of VERY few girls who would ever turn down a complimentary trip to the salon. while looks are important, they're not everything.
This woman knows what she wants and how to get it.

What a turn on.





Holla back at me gurl!

everyone pretty much stated what I think on the matter. If you keep looking at it as 'well, there is a hotter girl, I could get hotter,' Then you'll never be happy with what you have. I love my girlfriend because she's hella smart, great personality, keeps me on my toes (in the good way) and of course, is attractive to me. Here is a picture:

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v306/J_Swigz/JonathanAndTaniaCouch.jpg

Are there 'hotter' girls? Yes. Do I notice them? Of course, I'm a guy with eyes. Do I ever think I should get one of these hotter girls because they might be more physically attractive? Not really. I'm happy with my girlfriend and think she is beautiful and love her to pieces :smile:. I don't need to the "hottest thing on the block" to be happy, you know?

Now, another thought I have is, don't let anyone necessarily dismiss you as shallow or dismissing of your woman's worth, because I know (being a guy) how guys can sometimes work. Trust me on this, when you find a girl that you are truly happy with, while you might see a girl that is 'hotter,' the woman in your life will still always be the most beautiful girl you've ever seen, and that is all that matters:smile:.

Hot is for staring, beautiful is your wife.

from reading previous threads of your's, i'd say you lack plenty of self confidence. Be happy with yourself before you look to others for happiness. you could be expecting someone else to be filling a hole that can't be covered without facing personal demons. When you are happy about yourself, you will find happiness in others.

Damn dude, that was deep. *sniffle*

Thx guys for the input

This woman knows what she wants and how to get it.

What a turn on.





Holla back at me gurl!
HoLa BaCk At Me BoI! :chair: :biggrin2: :slap: how about not..

sorry i was so harsh earlier but i'm SO sick of guys not caring about anything but looks. i'm constantly getting messages from guys who are like "hey you're so hot, call me/message me" and that's it. any guy who lacks that much creativity is never going to get a message back, at least from me.

now if a guy had said "wow you look so awesome in that ski racing vid on your page, tell me more about that!" i'd love to talk to him. see my point? get interested in more than just her looks and like all the other guys said, it is very very likely that the more you love and care about her the more beautiful she will become in your eyes. most girls who are attractive already know that guys think they're beautiful. if you want to get one of those girls, you gotta stand out from the rest of the guys drooling over her.

wow you look so awesome in that ski racing vid on your page, tell me more about that!

everyone pretty much stated what I think on the matter. If you keep looking at it as 'well, there is a hotter girl, I could get hotter,' Then you'll never be happy with what you have. I love my girlfriend because she's hella smart, great personality, keeps me on my toes (in the good way) and of course, is attractive to me.

Are there 'hotter' girls? Yes. Do I notice them? Of course, I'm a guy with eyes. Do I ever think I should get one of these hotter girls because they might be more physically attractive? Not really. I'm happy with my girlfriend and think she is beautiful and love her to pieces :smile:. I don't need to the "hottest thing on the block" to be happy, you know?

Now, another thought I have is, don't let anyone necessarily dismiss you as shallow or dismissing of your woman's worth, because I know (being a guy) how guys can sometimes work. Trust me on this, when you find a girl that you are truly happy with, while you might see a girl that is 'hotter,' the woman in your life will still always be the most beautiful girl you've ever seen, and that is all that matters:smile:.I have to say thats is one of the best posts I have read when it comes to relationship posts in here. Very sincere and to the point. Kudos to you man, hope you and your girl stay happy with each other. You got a good head on your shoulders J. You give the rest of us guys a good name.

and what qute says is correct. its not about the looks.

TS out

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Hell, if I ever meet anyone from here, I'll buy 'em a drink or two.