Things girls like...

even though i was sleeping, this is someting i call agreed. its been 3 yrs now, all i see is girls want the 'holister' guy and also lack intelligence. thats y i tend to talk to people older than i am....so much for fun in high school when ur surrounded by idiots, that are narrowminded and only want to smoke and drink.....

I'll agree to that too.

Everyone I associate with is much older than me, I know them all from work. One of my best friends that I always go do stuff with is 26 and married.

On another note, I think a lot of us are assuming too much about all the members of the opposite sex. Just because someone looks a certain way doesn't mean they're all about drinking and sex. I think a lot of people get the wrong impression of me because of what I look like. Nobody ever believes that I don't drink, they think I'm joking. And people assume I'm stupid because I'm blonde and somewhat attractive.

Everyone should stop going on what people look like, just talk to them. You're never going to get to know what a person is really like unless you get to know them.

didn't work for bruce lee...not gonna work for you...:shakehead

i love it when a guy does something cute and thoughtful. emails and IM's are nice but when was the last time you wrote her a card/letter?

she already knows you think she's hot, sexy, fuckable, etc. what about cute, adorable, beautiful, gorgeous, fun?

listened and was genuinely interested in what she has to say

flowers are nice, next time u go see her, standing on her doorstep with a single rose is very romantic to many girls

if u can sing or play guitar, u could write and sing her a song. or if ur not musical, just writing her a song or a poem. trust me, it doesn't matter if it totally sucks, if she loves you she'll love that you did it for her.

just call her out of the blue cuz u were "thinking of her"

you could make s'mores together.

go for a walk somewhere

make her dinner

are there any free zoo's are museums near you that you could go to together?
It looks like it worked good for chuck norris
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It looks like it worked good for chuck norris
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that was beautiful.

Chuck beats his women...women want to be with him, men want to be him.

It's how it works.

Everyone should stop going on what people look like, just talk to them. You're never going to get to know what a person is really like unless you get to know them.

yea but if you're like me you do talk to them and get to kno them. they ususally ask u to hang out and u go, they pop open a bottle and light up or tell u that is what is going to happen.

yea but if you're like me you do talk to them and get to kno them. they ususally ask u to hang out and u go, they pop open a bottle and light up or tell u that is what is going to happen.

Yep. Not every guy is the same, and wants to get in your pants. For instance, I caught up with an old friend of mine whom I havent seen for several years, and Im going ask her to go for a walk in the park. Not the usual dinner an a movie. The walk in the park is for us to get to know each other again, not a real date yet.

Its ironic how we all stereotype each other.

Just a warning (from a high school teacher)... They always told me growing up that High School was the best years of your life. I beg to differ... High School is crap. Everyone thinks they know something, but they know nothing... NOTHING.

Even if you don't go on to college, your 20s is when you find out who you are... THAT is worth living for. Once you have that figured out, the other decades just cruise on by.

As for what girls want... I am almost 24 now, and I still don't know what I want. Heck, I didn't go on a date with anyone beside my best friend (who was a guy... just making sure you all know that) until I graduated High School. How can you possibly have a relationship with someone else unless you have any semblance of a clue about who YOU are???

COme to think of it, most of my friends are older as well. I get along so well with adults, and at Blair, all I hang around are the people in the grade above me because they're actually mature, intelligent and aren't narrowminded.

Just a warning (from a high school teacher)... They always told me growing up that High School was the best years of your life. I beg to differ... High School is crap. Everyone thinks they know something, but they know nothing... NOTHING.

Tell me about it. I just graduated and high school was a joke.

How can you possibly have a relationship with someone else unless you have any semblance of a clue about who YOU are???

True enough. People these days think they know what they want...but they really have no idea.

meeh....high school blows for me. so much for it being the best part of my life. the best part of my life is when im out of school, chillin with the poeple that aren't single minded. o and gtmike is right on that though. i guess i am like him. im not the type to just talk to u to get in your pants. i could really care less about that. its more of a i got u on my side kinda thing and wont have to worry about anything going too wrong without support....yet i still haven't gotten that yet...erone says get some friends, but what are friends that want you to do something you aren't? thats no friends, thats just influence. i know what i want. i basically explained it above. its more of a mental thing to me, more of a physical thing to most guys....

Just a warning (from a high school teacher)... They always told me growing up that High School was the best years of your life. I beg to differ... High School is crap. Everyone thinks they know something, but they know nothing... NOTHING.

Even if you don't go on to college, your 20s is when you find out who you are... THAT is worth living for. Once you have that figured out, the other decades just cruise on by.

As for what girls want... I am almost 24 now, and I still don't know what I want. Heck, I didn't go on a date with anyone beside my best friend (who was a guy... just making sure you all know that) until I graduated High School. How can you possibly have a relationship with someone else unless you have any semblance of a clue about who YOU are???

yeah, wtf? highschool sucked. college is the best years of your life... or maybe not... i wonder what marriage is like?




yeah, college is the best years of your life.

Just a warning (from a high school teacher)... They always told me growing up that High School was the best years of your life. I beg to differ... High School is crap. Everyone thinks they know something, but they know nothing... NOTHING.

Even if you don't go on to college, your 20s is when you find out who you are... THAT is worth living for. Once you have that figured out, the other decades just cruise on by.

As for what girls want... I am almost 24 now, and I still don't know what I want. Heck, I didn't go on a date with anyone beside my best friend (who was a guy... just making sure you all know that) until I graduated High School. How can you possibly have a relationship with someone else unless you have any semblance of a clue about who YOU are???

Tangie NAILED IT!!

You can't love anyone until you love yourself.

I was single for 2.5 years, then got together with my best friend. Together 5 months, and she just realised she's been in relationships for 4 years in a row and hasn't had any time to get to know herself properly or figure out what she wants. So that's us over.

It's not too bad. Single life rocks. Stop LOOKING for someone, and just let them find you.

Relationships suck penis. Big time.


Case in point, I was in a relationship for a week and a half not overly long ago, one Saturday night I was texting her, then at midnight said "I'm going to watch the Qualifying for F1, text you at 1:30" at which point she went nuts. I prompltly told her to fuck off and ended it, fuck that, F1 = my life, she = known for the better part of 2 weeks.

Screw loss of freedom, especially when you're as god-damn sexy as I.


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No I don't know how this relates to the topic, just saw the sub-argument and gunned for it.


Girls like it when you say funny things, being funny is not hard (Unless you're pickle).

Jared, just because blank chose me over you is no need to get nasty.

I don't see how people can expect to find "the one" under the age of 19... how do you know this is the person you want to spend forever with when you haven't experienced the world? etc etc etc

I don't see how people can expect to find "the one" under the age of 19... how do you know this is the person you want to spend forever with when you haven't experienced the world? etc etc etc

That brings up a point that most miss. I've met/read about/heard about/talked to whooooooooooooole bunch of people in their late teens and early twenties that are going ballistic because they haven't found the person they are going to spend their life with. Girl I was just dating want a marriage and two kids by 25.

WTF? What ever happened to your twenties being the time to go out and experience everything you can?

Stop LOOKING for someone, and just let them find you.

Yes, thank you, for the love god someone else gets it. Do what you like doing, be a good person and whoever you're meant to be with will cross your path eventually.

I used to think it'd be great to be married and have my first kid by 21, now that I'm 21 I'm like NO WAY. Although kids and marriage have been discussed but only to the point that there's no way we'd consider either before our late 20's.

So given a topic about "What girls like" and given that I have the better part of a quart of Jack milling around in my system has anyone brought this up?

Cause you know they like that. (http://67.19.222.106/music/graphics/tongue.jpg)

YEEEEEEEEEAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!! (http://img133.imageshack.us/img133/8929/picture0011xc.jpg)

Stop LOOKING for someone, and just let them find you.

100% agree. I havent been looking for a date for a several years now. Thats not to say I hadnt been on a date in that time. I figured I'd know when I meet a person worth dating, and I have. Dont go chasing when you have no idea what you're looking for.

I don't see how people can expect to find "the one" under the age of 19... how do you know this is the person you want to spend forever with when you haven't experienced the world? etc etc etc

You cant expect to find "the one". Though, thats not to say you wont find "the one" at an age under 19. You cant control love or anything like that. Some of these things just happen. Some people are really in touch with their innerself.

My buddy has been dating the same girl since he was 15, hes 20 now. They plan on getting married after school.

Though, if you go looking for "the one" you wont find it.

i have been dating the same girl since i was 15 im now 18 but i still dont think shes the one ... we get a long and its great but i just think theres someone else out there for me.

well i for one am not the stereotyp some of you ahve mentioned. i DO enjoy drinking every once in a while but i don't do it often. i actually care about women, i don't look at them like a piece of meat, despite the sexual jokes and inuendo. The problem for me is that i haven't really met anyone i'd like to date or spend much time with until recently. the only girl at my school that find worthwhile is a year older than me (no problem with that) and from another country (again no problem with that). it seems that MOST girls my age from my country are either sluts or dumbass ditzes that don't know shit and end up pissing me off because of their lack of intelligence.

I'm not saying there aren't any good girls around, just that the ones at my school aren't worth it at all. but this is coming from a private school with 200 students from JK to grade 12

Women like a man who doesn't lie to them. They like a man who won't cheat. They enjoy a man who will be himself and not care about what the other men think. They like dedication. Flowers, lots and lots of flowers. They like a man who will stand up for them when needed and stand back when not. They want a man who can make them laugh, endlessly. A man who can make them smile even when they're not feeling their greatest. They want a man who can make them feel in ways they've forgotten about, or never knew existed. They want a man who will care about them. A man who will cry with them. A man who will cry for them. A man who's not afraid to cry. A protector. A provider. They want a man they can trust. They want a man that will trust them. Someone to listen. Someone that will give feedback when asked. A leader. A man.

I'm sorry. You know who you are and what for. You know I do and will care for and about you as long as I am capable. If for some odd reason we lose contact, I'll always remember your name and worry about your wellbeing. Above is the kind of man I hope you one day catch and enjoy everything you can about him.

i seriously think there are no hot, nice guys left that are 18-20 that are interested in dating a girl.


Because it doesn't always pay off being nice. But yea, you do know someone who's hot, nice and 18.....and single.


Relationships suck :mad:

They all go for the hot guys, jocks, guidos (no offense) and it's relaly annoying. Everyone's so narrowminded and lacks intelligence :banghead:


That is really refreshing to hear. Where I live, its the otherway around. The girls are sluts, want to just go out to parties and get shitfaced, and never really want anything serious out of the relationship. Exact reason I've been single for awhile. Im 18, and I'm the complete opposite of what you stereotyped. I want to be with someone that I can relate to, have fun with, and love every moment Im with her not just worry about when I'll get in her pants.



Sorry for double posting and jumping into this convo kind of late, but I hope you guys realize that thats kind of a blessing that the idiot girls will go out with the idiot guys. It weeds out the shitty ones so that you won't have to worry about doing it yourself. So when the wishy-washy girls go for the popular guys (or vise-versa), just look at it as them elimenating themselves from being a potential good girlfriend.

Finding true happiness within a relationship is extremely hard as most of us all know now. Seems like no matter how good of a person you might think you are, your significant other will ALWAYS find something to bitch at you about, no matter if its morally right or wrong.

Relationships are great and all, but shit, you have to sacrifice so much to get the good out of it, sometimes it just isn't worth it. Thats why alot of people just want to be fuck buddies. But to me, they're just running away from fate, you can't go around banging everybody forever.

Finding a good relationship is like 1 in a million. Thats why alot of people will just tell you to date, date, date until you find the right person. You've got better chances winning the lottery than finding a good relationship your first try at it.

Not to be mean, but don't get discouraged if you try to get with another person way out of your league and get shot down. Carlos Mencia made a funny, but true point. The couples that've been married for very long times of period stayed married because they realize that their spouse is the best that they can get.

Where's that damn emo forum....