let's talk about foreplay

For whatever reason, it's become uncool for men to be into foreplay. I guess most men just aren't good at it or just don't care for the other at all, because I find foreplay to be a lot of fun. Not just fun, but it really is essential if for the most intimate sex and to be able to please her.

Let's share and discuss some of our favorite foreplay moments, stuff that really gets them going, male and female. Obviously, let's try and keep this at least R-rated, we don't need to hear detailed descriptions of what goes on below the belt.

I'll get the ball rolling. When I'm taking off her shirt, I like to stop as it's halfway over her head, so her eyes are closed and her arms are raised above her head, and just grab her hands and start kissing her. She seems to get a kick out of it, kind of like some lite bondage or something :)

yeah i agree, many guys now it seems ur sitting there and they're like..let's have sex. it's seems almost out of left field and always merits a no answer. same goes for guys who just leave right away after sex. don't do that, it'll make your girl feel like a cheap slut who's getting used just for sex and chances are that's not how you wanted her to feel.

as far as foreplay goes, i love it when he's sitting on the couch and i'm on him, facing him, and start kissing him, kinda grinding a little on him. anything is good lol always a good time :p

oh, can't tell you that, it's a secret. :nono:

My girlfriend likes it when, as I start to remove her shirt, I start kissing her belly and work my way up as I continue taking it off of her:smile:.

She also likes when I start out giving her a light but sensual back rub and every so often with increasing times, start kissing the back of her neck and by her ears.

Her wrists are also very sensitive. I just lightly rub the inside of her wrist and she loves it.

No sex at the end but the intimacy is great just the same. I don't care what anyone says, you don't have to have sex to be intimate with your girlfriend/boyfriend.

Not telling all, but with my ex (yeah, I broke up with the girl i posted in the "post your significant other" thread) I used to love it when I just kiss her ear lightly and that whole side of her body instantly gets goosebumps. So cute. Worked too ;)

Meh, haven't done anything with anyone in ages. I've almost forgotten what all of that feels like...

^why'd i move back up here??? :shakehead


it's a white thing. Hispanics love it. We're the sensual type. :licka: I don't know anything specific, it's more of a spontaneous thing. Foreplay ain't always needed when it's done right or at the right moment. Although, I guess the spontaneity of it kinda is. The time it takes to strip or partially strip. Idk, i dont write this stuff down, i just do it and they've been satisfied.

I ain't heard much about lack of foreplay though. When girls bring it up if we're out with friends, te guys say they do it. So, maybe it's just the gross amount of jerks and jocks...wait, same diff, that don't. 'Cause whenver I hear it from a girl, it's about your stereotypical frat boy, whether he is actually in a frat or not. It's never the good boyfriend, or the dork they took a chance on, or anyone.

As always, stereotypes were formed for a reason.

NFI, never tried it.





























J/P, Nothing turns her pants to teflon more than giving her a new credit card and softly whispering the word "Shopping" in her ear.

NFI, never tried it.



J/P, Nothing turns her pants to teflon more than giving her a new credit card and softly whispering the word "Shopping" in her ear.


ROFL:evillol:

im all about it, work your way from neck to the money spot as slow as u could resist. then tease by it for a good few minutes. a slight blow on that area, then maybe up a leg for 1 more min. by the time u get there, they will be begging for it...........

depends on the situation and the location.
foreplay in a restaurant is whole new ball game.
foreplay in a restaurant in venice is something else entirely.
teasing from morning until evening is another nice little game to play.


....and considering that this forum has a lot of under 16 year olds on it, i'm not entirely convinced this is a valid subject matter.

keep it clean guys and gals.

minimum age is 13 to join, all kids should've had sex-ed by that age. and if they haven't, im sure they'd know about it.

The neck the neck the neck! Also, I enjoy sliding my tongue up her entire back. Last girl I had went WILD when I very lightly would bite her shoulders. However, she also enjoyed her hair being pulled and her ass slapped. HARD.

But the tried and true is to go for the neck.

foreplay's great. plus, if she said it was great, and you didn't give any foreplay, she was lying to you.


also, (according to Playboy mag), A woman can reach her climax by simply massaging her the right way in the right environment. How's that for foreplay, She's having the time of her life and Mr. Johnson downstairs didn't even need to knock on the door!

I ain't heard much about lack of foreplay though. When girls bring it up if we're out with friends, te guys say they do it. So, maybe it's just the gross amount of jerks and jocks...wait, same diff, that don't. 'Cause whenver I hear it from a girl, it's about your stereotypical frat boy, whether he is actually in a frat or not. It's never the good boyfriend, or the dork they took a chance on, or anyone.

As always, stereotypes were formed for a reason.


I dont think you can stereotype people who are good at or like involve foreplay. Just seems stupid and childish.

I guess im a "jock" and i love foreplay, i think in some cases it can be better than sex. A nice massage is a great place to start, esspecially if your using lotion/oils.

also, (according to Playboy mag), A woman can reach her climax by simply massaging her the right way in the right environment.

actually it can take less than that, but i can't share all my secrets...

Pretty much what chris said.

;D

whoa...everyone knows my name...

whoa...everyone knows my name...
yeah i get that feeling too sometimes. or outside of AF like when ur at family reunions and people come up to you and you have no clue who they are but they sooo remember you. :uhoh: /pointless post.

and what MBTN said about hairpulling. i, for one, HATE having my hair pulled. if i'm trying to go down on you and all u can do is yank my hair..that's very distracting and annoying as hell. so before u start pulling on her hair, make sure she's cool with it.

pulling hair during oral could be dangerous...... she might bite down............ ouch

pulling hair during oral could be dangerous...... she might bite down............ ouch

yep, sudden sharp pain often causes the person recieving the pain to bite down hard. so pull all you want, and they're swallow all of it, literally.

I don't like hair pulling when I'm going down on a guy, but during sex I love it when a guy pulls it gently.

If I remember correctly...hah.

thats my move, of coarse if they're into it. u gotta feel em out before u start pulling!lol and dont worry nicole, its been a while here too. workin on three months maybe..............:banghead:

Three months? That's nothing...

what r u working on? years?

Not a whole year, but longer than 3 months...probably like, 10-ish months.

happens to the best of us....:shakehead

actually it can take less than that, but i can't share all my secrets...Pretty much what chris said.

;D


Chuck Norris can make a woman climax by simply pointing at her and saying

"Boo-ya!!"

Chuck Norris can make a woman climax by simply pointing at her and saying


"Boo-ya!!"


i too am aware of this:

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i too am aware of this:

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Damn!!! You beat me to it....I swear I was going to post this!!!

i don't even have to say anything, i look at the girl and wink. just like that...

What girl have you been practicing on?


I knoooooow it's not me...

I knoooooow it's not me...

is that right?

unappreciative woman...

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haha J/k. funny shirt though. I agree with MBTN girls love the neck, and a few other things...

all this sex talk is turning me on

you're not the ony one...


i mean......ewww......gross....

Mmm...Chuck Norris....

Oh yeah...

Actually i'd rather not disclose my secrets...I really enjoy foreplay more than I do sex sometimes...it gives me a deeper satisfaction (no not in my crotch area) that I did something to please my girlfriend that didn't involve sex.

i feel the same way, sex is good, but foreplay and teasing is the best. i like to give more than recieve. i aim to please....

You pansies have to TRY to make a girl climax? You can't be serious. I can get them to orgasm at least once during foreplay without even trying. Yes, even the ones that claim, "No one's been able to make me orgasm/cum, except me."

Fuckin' newbs.

Qute! Nicole! (puts thumb to ear and pinky to mouth and lips 'call me') ;)

who said they cant make a girl orgasm?

You pansies have to TRY to make a girl climax? You can't be serious. I can get them to orgasm at least once during foreplay without even trying. Yes, even the ones that claim, "No one's been able to make me orgasm/cum, except me."

Fuckin' newbs.

Qute! Nicole! (puts thumb to ear and pinky to mouth and lips 'call me') ;)
Please, read everything next time. Several times if you have to.

Now, if I didn't clarify enough for you, please point out where I said someone can't make a female climax.

got ya............altho noone said they have to try, we just like foreplay

whoosh *swings hand over head*

nevermind......

lol, it doesnt matter....

It's all pyschological anyway... just tease tease tease and when she can't take it anymore, tease some more. Then finally give it a little and WHAM! Puddle on your sheets!

It's all pyschological anyway... just tease tease tease and when she can't take it anymore, tease some more. Then finally give it a little and WHAM! Puddle on your sheets!
Gotta agree.

For us men, it's all about the physical stimulation. Women......it's all in their head. Once you understand how a woman works, givin' them orgasms is almost effortless.

Getting them in bed in the first place though is where all the effort is :D

Getting them in bed in the first place though is where all the effort is :D
Haha! Touche! That requires practice, and you still get shot down every now and again.

Haha! Touche! That requires practice, and you still get shot down every now and again.


Nothing chloroform cant handle.

O Rly!?

Yea Rly!

Haha! Touche! That requires practice, and you still get shot down every now and again.

Don't spoil our fantasies, not all of us are married :p

Well, it's not like I can walk in and go, "Lets Fuck!" lmao

It's worse when you're married.

It's all pyschological anyway... just tease tease tease and when she can't take it anymore, tease some more. Then finally give it a little and WHAM! Puddle on your sheets!

It sounds like you might be arriving a bit early mate?