Ahhh!! why do guys always have to think about sex!

Ok ok so i'm with this amazing guy okay, gentle man, responsible, romantic and everything you can wish for, its just that. every guy in this world has to think or talk about sex, ALL TH TIME!! i just wanna know whats so amazing about it? geez..i mean yeah okay once in a while is understadible..but why do they ALWAYS have to either talk about it or ask for it! whats the big deal with guys and sex? were you all born with an automatic sex brain cell or what?

were you all born with an automatic sex brain cell or what?

Yes, it's called a penis.

P.S. Welcome to AF.

Ok ok so i'm with this amazing guy okay, gentle man, responsible, romantic and everything you can wish for, its just that. every guy in this world has to think or talk about sex, ALL TH TIME!! i just wanna know whats so amazing about it? geez..i mean yeah okay once in a while is understadible..but why do they ALWAYS have to either talk about it or ask for it! whats the big deal with guys and sex? were you all born with an automatic sex brain cell or what?
isn't that just the worst? you won't get much sympathy here, there's only like 4 other girls besides me. but yeah i TOTALLY agree it gets sooo annoying. i mean if u want to talk about it sometimes yeah that's fine. but when it's all you ever hear from them, it's like stfu already. some guys get all hurt and offended when you tell them u don't want to hear it. but yeah, if ur guy is that amazing, i say stick with him. hopefully he'll grow up and his brain will be less geared towards sex. try talkin to him flat out about how you feel about it. if that doesn't work, i've found that being the nastiest bitch possible often works. at least for that time and then 15 minutes later they'll be back for more.

example from last night:

guy: so what position do u wanna be in?
me: alone position

try stuff like that ;)

welcome, lou. not all guys think of sex constantly. and truth be told if you really love someone it's not just sex. there are guys that think about all the time, and only want one thing...*cough*...MBTN...*cough* and they're all-too-common.

some guys just have an over-active sex drive.

some guys just have an over-active sex drive.

Yeah...it's really hard to live with and it controls your life like a drug. I'm getting help and checking into Betty Ford soon...

if you really want i can just get the scissors and remove that problem.

yea, talk to him about it. a relationship will benefit by going slowly with things, you need to really spend time together and such before doing sexual things. they're for a long time into the relationship. talk it over with him, if he has any sense and wants to stay with you he'll calm down and realise what you mean.

if you really want i can just get the scissors and remove that problem.

You just keep away from my crotch with scissors or any sharp objects...infact...stay away from my crotch period.

some guys aren't even aware of the fact that they're the world's biggest pervs...i can't fathom how they couldn't know but oh well. in short, they don't know what they're doing is unacceptable and making girls around them rather uncomfortable. like i said before, talk it over :)

yea, i was with my friend at the park today, and this guy's just sitting under a tree staring at her, i wanted to slap him. it's just odd.

hes not a perv..and i did tell him that i didnt liek it..and he said they were only jokes..see when i tel you guys this..it seems liek hes a jerk and hes lying..but i dunno i kinda beleive him cuz he really sint the sexual perv kinda guy..i mean he's 17 and well.you cant balme him for thinkign about it..but i told him too much was too mucha nd he got offended so yeah =S..one of my problems is that i always blame myself after..im not able to live with a fight..so yeah..=S

some guys aren't even aware of the fact that they're the world's biggest pervs...

Oh I know I am.

they don't know what they're doing is unacceptable and making girls around them rather uncomfortable.

You've never acted uncomfortable. You actually really got into it...a little too much maybe....

our judgement is impaired by the fact we don;t know him, we can only go by what you've told us. i guess we can't just see the whole picture.

Oh I know I am.



You've never acted uncomfortable. You actually really got into it...a little too much maybe....
pipe down or i'll savagely rape you again. don't think i won't go thru with it this time. you only got away last time cuz u burst into tears you little girl.

never said your guy in specific was a perv, like chris said, we only can make judgements on what you tell us and let us know.

Damn that he's a male which means that he is a perv to an extent. Truth be told though that guys think about sex or sexual situations about an average of once a hr or someshit like that. I saw that on cnn few months back.

P.S. If he is makin alot of sexual comments and or jokes then that does not let him qualify as a gentleman






Welcome to AF by the way.

A lot of it is the age of the guys your hanging around with - some of us grow up eventually.

Then again, some don't.

welcome, lou. not all guys think of sex constantly.


So true, sometimes we also think about tanks.

^or just old fashion blowing stuff up

^^^excuse me kind sirs, but do not forget cars and competitive events

So true, sometimes we also think about tanks.
i thought u guys were joking when u said u know stuff about tanks...but really you weren't. that's sorta weird. *shrugs* oh well. do guys think about tools? those are masculine

i thought u guys were joking when u said u know stuff about tanks...but really you weren't. that's sorta weird. *shrugs* oh well. do guys think about tools? those are masculine



haha this is quite funny.:grinno: This was just a continuation joke based on my earlier post.

So no i'm not a tank fanatic by any means, i just though it would be quite enjoyable to continue the stereotype:icon16:


However, on a serious note, most guys I know have a least some basic knowledge of tanks. But its not just the tanks its military jets, cars, tools etc... See, we never really grow out of the chilhood stage of playing with toys. We just move on to bigger better toys;)

However, on a serious note, most guys I know have a least some basic knowledge of tanks. But its not just the tanks its military jets, cars, tools etc... See, we never really grow out of the chilhood stage of playing with toys. We just move on to bigger better toys;)

Holy crap, that is so true.

You have to remember that a 17 year old male is 1 year away from the prime of his sexual life. What do you expect? Women don't reach their sexual prime until they're in their early 30's. I know, like most men it seems, I am (or was) a huge perv, but I am also a gentleman for the most part. I did not meet my wife until I was 26 and guess what... yeah we had sex right away. Maybe it was love at first sight or something. Well, we've known each other for over 5 years and have been married for over 4 years. Sex is a very important to both of us but it's not the only reason why we love each other. I'm sorry but it just gets on my nerves when people say stuff like you should wait 6 months before having sex with your significant other. Yeah, this tactic kept me from getting laid when I was younger...

It would be different if women had a few million eggs to get rid every day.

BTW: did you hear that scientists have figured out how to put radio recievers in breast implants?
Women were complaining that men just stared at their breasts without listening to them

See, we never really grow out of the chilhood stage of playing with toys. We just move on to bigger better toys;)

The only difference between men and boys is the size of their toys.

i think about sex a lot and i think about sex with a lot of my female friends a lot as well....
the difference is, i'm fully aware that they're just fantasies and i don't think about that too much nor do i have the need to tell the whole world about them, let alone these people who are my friends.
heck, they probably know that i fancy them and wouldn't mind doing the, in stallone's immortal words, "wild mambo" with them but that doesn't mean i have to talk about it.

another thing, the guy's 17.
at that age, if he's talking to you about it, he probably wants it and the talk is to see if your interested.



and perhaps i've revealed a bit too much in that first bit of this post...

i think about sex a lot and i think about sex with a lot of my female friends a lot as well....
the difference is, i'm fully aware that they're just fantasies and i don't think about that too much nor do i have the need to tell the whole world about them, let alone these people who are my friends.
heck, they probably know that i fancy them and wouldn't mind doing the, in stallone's immortal words, "wild mambo" with them but that doesn't mean i have to talk about it.

another thing, the guy's 17.
at that age, if he's talking to you about it, he probably wants it and the talk is to see if your interested.



and perhaps i've revealed a bit too much in that first bit of this post...
You mine as well tell the whole world cuz you just told everyone on af:evillol:

^^ haha true ..anywayzwe talke dit over and he said it was normal..anywayz how could i blame a 17 year old ? he stopped talking about it in every sentence he said and he only jokes about it now. anywayzzz thank you all for posting comments/replys feel free to keep talking about sex if you guys (girls) want lol!

just to add another thing.
from my experience, girls think about sex just as much as guys do; they just know how to not talk about it all of the time.
have you ever heard a bunch of girls natter over a drink about their boyfriends?

sometimes u just have to give in and let them have their way. usually it works for me.

like Oz said, most guys grow up. the ones that don't, well, don't stay with 'em if it bothers you that much.

What I want to know is if two gay guys are together, is one of them always talking about / wanting sex, while the other is starting threads on internet forums about what a pest he is, or do they both just constantly talk about it? Oh wait, on second thought I don't want to know.

Like many have said, 17 is a very horny age for guys, 18's even worse for some. I joke about that kind of stuff with my girl friends (friends that are girls) but I'm obviously not serious. just stuff like "hey Mandy, are you 16 yet?" (i just turned 18, this was the morning of my birthday lol). Anyways, don't think to much about it, it's quite normal and he should grow out of it, if he doesn't grow up fast enough, just make it quite clear that you don't want to hear about it, if he doesn't listen then he's not worth dating.

Like many have said, 17 is a very horny age for guys, 18's even worse for some. I joke about that kind of stuff with my girl friends (friends that are girls) but I'm obviously not serious. just stuff like "hey Mandy, are you 16 yet?" (i just turned 18, this was the morning of my birthday lol). Anyways, don't think to much about it, it's quite normal and he should grow out of it, if he doesn't grow up fast enough, just make it quite clear that you don't want to hear about it, if he doesn't listen then he's not worth dating.
i'm 18 :naughty:

yeah some guys really do need to tone it down tho. i've had guys ask me to have sex with them or make sexual comments to me and i was like "excuse me? i don't even know your name.." of course, like said before, are a lot of guys who sadly never grow up.

alot? excuse me but i have yet to meet a grown up guy, we're all childish, the only thing that changes with age is our ability to surpress it.

Yeah...it's really hard to live with and it controls your life like a drug. I'm getting help and checking into Betty Ford soon...

You poor thing.. Hope you get out of it soon.

You have our prayers.

Being a pervert is an art form. It is only good when used at the appropriate time and in moderation.

Oh and the feeling kinda has to be mutual otherwise it's all for not!

An art form??? lol. ok then.

from what i've noticed (again...)
if the guy is goodlooking, then he's a flirt.
if the guys isn't, then he's a pervert.

from what i've noticed (again...)
if the guy is goodlooking, then he's a flirt.
if the guys isn't, then he's a pervert.

hey, now that's unfair. i'm at least half-decent.

Pfft, if guys only thought about sex we wouldn't have invented such useful things as fast cars, beer and laptops.

Such a woman thing to say.

You have to remember that a 17 year old male is 1 year away from the prime of his sexual life. What do you expect? Women don't reach their sexual prime until they're in their early 30's.

Is that why they say sex an the city is real life based...

just to add another thing.
from my experience, girls think about sex just as much as guys do; they just know how to not talk about it all of the time.
have you ever heard a bunch of girls natter over a drink about their boyfriends?


Two words: FUCKING SCARY

Pfft, if guys only thought about sex we wouldn't have invented such useful things as fast cars, beer and laptops.

Such a woman thing to say.

:iagree:

I think i could not think about sex as much if i just had those 3 things.

Two words: FUCKING SCARY

My very, very shy grilfriend grabbed me in the crouch at a fancy dinner at her place among her relatives. And i dont mean shy in a sarcastic way, she is.. but then thsese things happen :grinyes:

from what i've noticed (again...)
if the guy is goodlooking, then he's a flirt.
if the guys isn't, then he's a pervert.

Same reason that when a guy has sex with a lot of girls, hes a player.

When a girl has sex with a lot of guys, shes a slut.

My very, very shy grilfriend grabbed me in the crouch at a fancy dinner at her place among her relatives. And i dont mean shy in a sarcastic way, she is.. but then thsese things happen :grinyes:
the quiet ones are always the craziest ones.

the quiet ones are always the craziest ones.

true. but there are exceptions, both ways.

the quiet ones are always the craziest ones.

I agree, just think of the librarian in the movie Tomcats. Crazy ass sex freak.

I agree, just think of the librarian in the movie Tomcats. Crazy ass sex freak.

Or the basketball coach in Porky's.

I agree, just think of the librarian in the movie Tomcats. Crazy ass sex freak.

My wife is a librarian... :grinyes:

actually guys i have learned the easiest way to get a girl to have sex with you. Reverse psychology. It will work everytime its scary. If i want to have sex with my GF at some random time, first i do something just a little sexual to get her thinking about sex. Like slap her on the ass and call her sexy. At first she will be like "were not having sex right now" then i just say, i didnt want to have sex i just wanted to slap your ass. "she usually responds with a yeah right. . ." but i say no really i didnt want to have sex, next thing i know shes all over me. Its great. Doesnt happen that quickly, but you get the idea. Ive found that the more i act like i dont want to have sex with a girl, the more they want to have sex with me.

and please girls talk about and think about sex just as much as guys do, and if they dont, that just means they havent been with the right guy yet.

Have you women ever though about it this way;

Woman can have sex with whoever they want whenever they want, so they don't HAVE to think aobut sex all the time. Guys on the other hand.. not so simple. Im running on 9 months dry now so of course its running through my mind at mach 5 whenver i see a cute chick around.

So there.

Any girls wanna have sex btw? :D

+1 its been since nov-dec last year for me

Woman can have sex with whoever they want whenever they want, so they don't HAVE to think aobut sex all the time.

Um...yeah...sure...

I think about sex a lot. Maybe it's because I never get any.

Maybe you're right? And I'm just not trying hard enough.

Women think and talk about sex a lot, we're just not as loud and obnoxious about it as men are. Most of the time.

and please girls talk about and think about sex just as much as guys do,

:1:

Maybe more...

and if they dont, that just means they havent been with the right guy yet.

Or they're lying.

I think about sex a lot. Maybe it's because I never get any.

No it's because you're a woman.

Maybe you're right? And I'm just not trying hard enough.

That's not it either. Women never have to try.

Women think and talk about sex a lot, we're just not as loud and obnoxious about it as men are. Most of the time.

Well gee I wonder why. A woman gets turned on "gee...it's really cold in here."

Us guys can't have the damn Sears Tower poking through our pants and say "somebody turn the A/C down it's cold!"

I think about sex a lot. Maybe it's because I never get any.

Do you want some? ;)

you wish.

Wait, aren't I supposed to say that?

You wish.

Wait, aren't I supposed to say that?

i'm just one step ahead of the game...

i dont think about sex so much, but i make a lot of sex jokes. and have sex dreams.