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i have to shake the whole car to get the transmission to change gears
please help me.

You probably have a sticking shift solenoid. You can try a filter change and add some Seafoam or Trans-X additive to see if it helps. If the fluid is dark brown or smells burnt, you're looking at a possible trans replacement. Whatever you do, DO NOT do a trans flush/fluid exchange. There are multiple posts regarding this issue on the Grand Prix forums (the Lumina's sister car). If the fluid is so bad you NEED a flush, your trans is already toast.

i have to shake the whole car to get the transmission to change gears
please help me.
Shake the car?/ Need a clearer description /explanation of what you and the trans are doing!?

does anyone know where can i locate the fuel reset switch

does anyone know where can i locate the fuel reset switch
No such thing on this car.

where are the fuses located under the dash