This Sucks

Well my relationship with my girlfriend has come to a totally unexpected halt this evening, I didn't even have a chance to show her the 4 keys to a mans heart. I went over to her house and she was sitting there drinking (which is VERY RARE for her anyways) The first thing I said was "hey baby, how was your day" and she just sat there in silence, so I walked up to her and gave her a hug and when I hugged her, I looked her in the eyes and she had tears in her eyes and wouldn't look at me, didn't want me touching her or anything, so I finally asked her "babygirl whats wrong" and she just looks at me and the first thing she said was "I'm tired of being in a relationship period" I was like "whys that" and she just shrugged her shoulders like she didn't even know the answer to what she was saying, so I leaned foward to try and hug her again and she just pushes me off (like literally onto the floor) she then gets up walks back to her bedroom and comes back and hands me the ring I put on her finger when I pulled that all to well known question out of my soul, and just stands there and me and her are standing almost toe to toe in an eyelock, at this point we're both tryin to hold back the tears we both want to let out, and then she just starts wailing on me and so I just stepped back, thinking she's just drunk or something, then she said "Rockey, I still love you" and I made it clear to her that I still loved her with all of my heart, and well after I tell her how I feel, she just asks me to leave, I said "I ain't leavin till you give me an explanation as to what's goin on with you" and after I said that she just starts throwing BIG shit at me like vases with roses still in them, and pictures, and hell she even threw the damned fish bowl at me with a friggin goldfish in it, after the fishbowl hit the wall about two feet from my head I decided it would be in my best health concerns to leave, so I reluctantly walk out, get in my car and just sit there staring at the ring for like 10 minutes or so and then she comes out of the house toting a bat so I just started the car and left.

She won't answer my calls, I went back to her house and she won't answer the door, or anything, I don't know if it's something I done or if it's something she's done and is ashamed of or WTF it is. I just hope it isn't over, I didn't EVER see it ending like this.

man I feel for ya. Thats a tough one, women sometimes go crazy over stuff...and they stick to their guns. Maybe she cheated on you...maybe she thinks you did...maybe you did something and she found out?

I dont know bro...but I hope it has a good ending!

you didnt give her the 4 keys thing did ya?

you didnt give her the 4 keys thing did ya?

Nope, I would have because she would have normally laughed at some shit like that, but I didn't have a chance to. I remember we used to just sit around and bullshit eachother just to see which one of us could be the biggest bullshitter. Needless to say, this one puts her over the top. I know I didn't do anything that she wouldn't have liked, she even loved my incureable love of the speedomoter needle staying buried, she loved everything about me and god knows I love everything about her.

Like I said I don't know WTF happened.

women are crazy bitches. . .ezpecially your bitch. You swear you didnt cheat on her or something? Cause thats a really random act to just go all crazy like that. Someone prolly told her that you cheated on her.

Yeah I agree, someone probably told her you cheated or something.

Hell I don't know WTF it was, she won't talk to me or answer my calls, she won't talk to her best friend, it's like she just went all emo on me or something.

I know for a fact that I didn't cheat on her, hell I have no reason to.

wait, she wont talk to her best friend? You sure shes not lying to you?

Which one her friend, I doubt it because her friend has wanted to be with me since we've met, that also troubles me. Another thing that bothers me is that she's changed her voicemail message to the song Your crazy by Guns and Roses, Hell Now that I think about it, I think her friend has a lot to do with it. I got pissed today and fed up and went to her work and she's a waitress at Ruby Tuesdays and so I sat in her section and she wouldn't even wait her own table she had a co worker wait my table but she was working the table in front of me and behind me but she WOULD NOT even look in my general direction. If I find out her "buddy" has something to do with this, you can consider a Pontiac 6000 trashed, I mean that fuckin car won't EVER run again, and she'll KNOW it was me because I'm gonna throw a fucking cinderblock through her windshield.

just rember, if she broke up with you over something her friend said without going to you it wasnt worth it (as painfull as that sounds).

And if you go to jail over it, dude....then your really messed up. I mean, you wont be lonley anymore, Bubba will fill in the boyfri....*ahem* girlfriend spot but its not worth it bro.

I think you should talk to that girl thats on here...cant rember her name but she has red hair. Yes, she seems to know your life *or maby ive lost my mind from too many of my own problems* she will know the solution!

As far as I know, there is no redhead on here, unless it's qute or sexy angel. those are the onlt two I really talk to from time to time. I'm startin to think that a relationship of over a year and a half was just THE BIGGEST waste of my time I've ever drug myself through. She won't talk to me, her best friend claims she knows nothing about it, I'm almost ready to say FUCK THIS and FUCK HER (once more) I hate for it to end like this, she's the ONLY female I've EVER put a ring on and pulled that all to familiar question on, but if she want's it to end like this I'll let it rest the way she wants, regardless of the pain. AT LEAST she was nice enough to return an EXPENSIVE ring to me!!!!

That sucks man, but trashing a CAR because of it. Sounds stupid to me. Deal with the person not their possessions.

You're right D, the car thing was just something I said in a drunken rage, this weekend I actually got her to answer her phone and she said she just couldn't deal with how well the cops know me, and I think about it and she's right, EVERY TIME I go out, the cops always do their usual routine of stopping me, searching me then questioning the hell out of me, except when she's with me, they pester her to. And she doesn't want a boyfreind that just get harassed every time he goes to town, she said she can't handle the stress of every time I go out, she has to wait by the phone to see if I am in jail or whatnot. She just is as tired of the cops screwing with me as I am, except I can't leave myself but SHE can leave me. On top of that since she's been going out with me shes been getting more and more attention from the police whenever she goes into town as well. I really really don't know what to do here, because she still loves me and well I don't want to destroy her reputation to the point that it's like mine and she can't even go anywhere without a police officer harassing her. She said the reason she was drinking was because that was the only way she could bring herself to do what she done.

Stoned Pimp, change your signature, that's just mean.

Stoned Pimp, change your signature, that's just mean.

Grow up and stay on topic.

Sorry to go off topic... I'm just saying, how would you feel if it was your mom that was Terri and was dying and somebody made fun of them?

Anyways...

Move to a different town. Lets face it, if shes worth it and feels your worth a damn she will move with you. You both can have "movie night" untill you can move. If you two cant last only hanging out together in your homes for a while, you DEFENTALLY dont want to get married to her.

Bty, I put a ring on a girl and after 4 years of hell she tore my heart out and left me for dead.





Shoulda gotten Chuck to roundhouse her....

yeah why cant you just move away?

Her best friend knows,they always do.I could almost bet that something went down without your knowing.Tough break man.

Moving sounds like a good idea...

1) With her. If the reason she's breaking up is because of all the police attention, it's all good.

2) Without her. If she won't come with you, then you're better off.

I've got a buddy going through the exact same shit. His gf and him were talking about marriage, had the house set up, met each other's families, etc etc then she just won't talk to him, says she loves him but won't talk to him. It's been going on 2 months now, no end of torture for him and he finally decided to cut the strings. Don't torture yourself, you both know how you feel....make the move, with or without!

imo sounds like you dodged a bullet...if she wants to be left alone...then do it...don't hound her or anything...if she wants to let you into her littler world again and explain herself then let that be her decision...you have to remember, you're not married to this person or have kids with this person...the only thing you have is, now, wasted time...but experience in guarding your heart in relationships...i'd just move on...you're young, i think, and holding on to someone that doesn't want you is bad for your health...harder than it sounds but just do it...toss everything that reminds you of her and be done with it...her, her family (up to you) , and especially her friends...but that's just me

Tough deal!

Give the girl some space, if she really loves you she will want you to contact her after some down time.

Don't call or visit for about a month. If you think you're going to burst write a letter, hang onto it, then give them (you know there will be more than one) to her. Letters are great for writing down how you feel, you can't be interupted and you can write another explaining (when you calm down) what the first one meant.

It cheesey but its true:
"if you love someone let them go, if they love you they'll come back"

It cheesey but its true:
"if you love someone let them go, if they love you they'll come back"

and goes the same for dogs :icon16:

I know! I've tested the theory. None of my dogs have run away :p

Who else on here hate's the member called "stoned pimp" I personally HATE Rockey and wish to see him strung up by his balls in a prison while big bubba makes good use of him. I just hate his guts because he whooped my ass with a crowbar today because of some of the shit I've posted on here about me being his buddy (see intorductions forum) I only posted that because I thought he had a good rep on here and I thought that it would bring me up in AF. I just had to vent a little because he broke my fucking collarbone and my jaw is WIRED SHUT thankx to a crowbar that a pissed off asshead had in his posession.

PLEASE don't send me to banlandia for this post I just HATE HIM SOO MUCH because I'm having to eat through a straw.


You reckon that's a problem? Just remember that dude you beat with a crowbar...... Imagine how HE felt......


Dat shitz savage y0

You reckon that's a problem? Just remember that dude you beat with a crowbar...... Imagine how HE felt......


Dat shitz savage y0


Dude, he didnt beat anyone with a crowbar. He made another username to look like a badass. He faked it all. Which is why i dont believe shit he says anymore about anything. Not like i had respect for him before that anyway...

Dude, he didnt beat anyone with a crowbar. He made another username to look like a badass. He faked it all. Which is why i dont believe shit he says anymore about anything. Not like i had respect for him before that anyway...


Hehe, ever so subtle sarcasm and unwillingness to let him forget ;)