So Soon?

Hey guys,

Just got a call from my recruiting center and was offered a job today. So now I have today and tomorrow to either accept or decline the job offering. Now if I do accept I will be leaving on March 11th from London, Ontario and heading to St-Jean, Quebec to start my Basic Training.

I'm anxious and yet hesitant at the same time because I have a lot of things here left unfinished. I met a girl not too long ago and things have been becoming serious. She's really cool and for the amount of time we have been together I could see myself with her for the rest of my life, but this means that I am gone for the next 3-5 years and because of that I might have to break things off. I called her as soon as I got the call from the recruiting center and told her that we need to talk face to face about this.

I have a really good job now, but I don't see myself doing this for the rest of my life. Although the pay is insanely good, it's not something I see myself doing until I'm 40-50 years of age. Although I can do this if need be to stay here with her....so you see it comes back to her again.


Anyways, just wanted to let you guys know I have enjoyed all the time on AF and I will miss you guys...



-Kasim Mohammed Nakeyar

don't know you well but best of luck and may God bless.

Cheers,
Michael

HAHA, you'll be back...they always come back...especially the post whores such as yourself.


But seriously, good luck in whatever decisions you make, and congratulations on improving your life with either the job or the relationship. :bigthumb:

Take it easy Raz, but you'll be back, you know it.

Good luck with everything.

haha good luck. just make sure you don't get into any of those sea kings or submarines, it might be your last trip in a helicopter. jk

when's the next time you can go for your basic? if you really think this girl could be the one, stay with her, if it falls through, join up.

$50 says he finds a computer within a month to get back on AF

Good luck raz, I vote see how things with the girl turns out first.

I dont think this is the last we will see of u

Is this job with the military? What would you be doing?

I'd pick your future over the girl, but that's just me.

it's hard when the one you love is involved. my only advice is to follow your heart. if you want to stay with her, then stay. but it's your call.

Hey guys,

Just got a call from my recruiting center and was offered a job today. So now I have today and tomorrow to either accept or decline the job offering. Now if I do accept I will be leaving on March 11th from London, Ontario and heading to St-Jean, Quebec to start my Basic Training.

I'm anxious and yet hesitant at the same time because I have a lot of things here left unfinished. I met a girl not too long ago and things have been becoming serious. She's really cool and for the amount of time we have been together I could see myself with her for the rest of my life, but this means that I am gone for the next 3-5 years and because of that I might have to break things off. I called her as soon as I got the call from the recruiting center and told her that we need to talk face to face about this.

I have a really good job now, but I don't see myself doing this for the rest of my life. Although the pay is insanely good, it's not something I see myself doing until I'm 40-50 years of age. Although I can do this if need be to stay here with her....so you see it comes back to her again.


Anyways, just wanted to let you guys know I have enjoyed all the time on AF and I will miss you guys...



-Kasim Mohammed Nakeyar



god luck doll face... dont be naughty:nono:

man, sucks Raz! it was always good having a fellow Ontarian on here, haha.

good luck in whatever choice you make man. think it through long and hard, get her opinion...whatever decision you make you know AF supports you in it.

hope to see you back on these pages soon!

:smokin:

Yea, I'd be signing up as an Infantryman. My first choice was Combat Engineer but they were full and I want to do anything I can o help out in Afghanistan.


The way I see is that this IS what I want to do, now the only question is whether or not she wants to wait around for me. It is unfair on one part to ask her to wait, she shouldn't put life on pause because of me, but then again I want her to be there when I get back.

Oh and I'll probably find the time to drop in every now and again to say hi and see what's brewing in the AF pot. But you won't see me here as much as before.

Anyways thanks again guys

good luck raz, hope you come to a decision you can sleep with without regrets. w/e your choice, godspeed and safe journey.

Don't be a stranger, man!:)

is tonio gonna leave a farewell joke?

Is this job with the military? What would you be doing?

I'd pick your future over the girl, but that's just me.

I'd have to second this one. I was in the same situation(instead of military it was offshore welding) and I choose the girl got married and now we are divorced and I can't get that job.
Always look out for and keep yourself before others when it comes to your future.
Either way you choose hope it works out for the best.

man, sucks Raz! it was always good having a fellow Ontarian on here, haha.

good luck in whatever choice you make man. think it through long and hard, get her opinion...whatever decision you make you know AF supports you in it.

hope to see you back on these pages soon!

:smokin:

Count 3 ontarians. im from ottawa, where are you at?

god luck doll face... dont be naughty

wow, you're still on? i thought you'd have left after those other threads. well, you're stronger than i thought

anyways raz, just do what you feel is best but there are some good chances that you wont have another crack at this girl if you leave for that long but the army will probably always be open.

good luck

Don't follow your heart man, just go with it. At the time, doing something for her may seem right now, who knows. I'm not one for destiny and all, but if it's meant to be, she'll wait for you. It's not selfish to choose what you want to do with the rest of your life.

If the girl loves you like she claims/ or like you think, WTF doesn't she just move with you?

because my training is scattered all over Canada. Then when I complete it, I'm going to Afghanistan to serve there for God knows how long.



That's why she can't move with me.

good luck eather way man.

Im still kickin around the idea of service, and a girl is in the pic too so I feel ya.

Hope whatever you choose leads to a good life free of regrets.

Goodluck in the future w/ all decisions you make.

Bye.

good luck man and if you wait for *looks at calender* about 4-5 years maybe i'll join you in afganistan

$50 says he finds a computer within a month to get back on AF

ill take that bet, he'll be in basic, aint no way he's getting near a computer til after. or at elast til he generates enough leave.

man raz... infantry, watch your ass out there. i got 3 in my family over there. and i hear some stories from the front line, a place i wouldnt want to be. talk to the girl, and i hope the best for you man, god speed.

LOL, yea im chained to the barracks for at least the first 3 weeks, then after that I can leave on weekends where I will be visiting family in Quebec.

I know everyone tells me that infantry is the worst, but since I heard the Canadian army is taking control of Afghanistan, I wanted to help in any way I could...and I would be lying to myself if I didn't take this oppurtunity.

Damn Raz.. goodluck man, dont get messed up is my advice. Hope everything comes out good for you and all that stuff.

Your my hero! :smooch:


hahahahaha....kidding...:uhoh:

You'd better get your ass back here, you little bitch.


Best of luck :wave:

I honestly forgot Canada had an army...

I just never hear about it

reminds me of an Onion article. "In the news today, a Canadian battleship stop a boat full of...wait, Canada has a battleship!?! Does Canada know???"

:rofl:

is tonio gonna leave a farewell joke?
It was a hot day in Iowa. Helga hung the wash out to dry, put a roast in the oven, then went down the street to pick up some dry cleaning.
"Gootness, it's hot," she mused to herself as she walked down Main Street.
She passed by a tavern and thought, "Vy nodt?"
So she walked in and took a seat at the bar. The bartender came up and asked her what she would like to drink.
"Ya know," Helga said, "it is so hot I tink I'll have myself zee cold beer."
The bartender asked, "Anheuser Busch?"
Helga blushed and replied, "Vell fine, tanks, und how's yer pecker?"

:icon16:

hahaha...that was random and unexpected

weak like always! :thumbsup: :lol:

It was a hot day in Iowa. Helga hung the wash out to dry, put a roast in the oven, then went down the street to pick up some dry cleaning.
"Gootness, it's hot," she mused to herself as she walked down Main Street.
She passed by a tavern and thought, "Vy nodt?"
So she walked in and took a seat at the bar. The bartender came up and asked her what she would like to drink.
"Ya know," Helga said, "it is so hot I tink I'll have myself zee cold beer."
The bartender asked, "Anheuser Busch?"
Helga blushed and replied, "Vell fine, tanks, und how's yer pecker?"

:icon16:
C+ Joke. :grinno:

Good news, finally spoke to the woman about all this tonight.
Bad news, looks like things are done between us.

We had a long talk about all of this, and I came to the conclusion that it's over because we haven't been seeing eachother for very long and as much as we think we know eachother, there's still lots to go and I said that I'm not going to worry about what she's up to and having to find time to call her...I need all my focus on the task at hand.
Plus the whole thing came up where she says she's proud of me for what I'm doing, but she thinks if I wanted to I could have done more to stay here with her...I let her know that I don't change my goals for no one.

So we're not on the best of terms right now, and of the 2 weeks left...I'm really not in the mood to see her anymore.


What a shitty day

:-( sorry to hear that man, chase the job though.

At least you only JUST met her, not when you decided that yes, she's the one for you, hehe.