Why!?!?!?!?!?!?!?(Warning: Language)

Alright heres a little story.


You see I'm 20 years old yeah, but lately I've been chillin with my friends late night everynight, and my mom always bitches about it saying shit like "I need my sleep". Im quiet when i go in the door, but yet she still continues to throw a curfew on me and im fucking 20 years old.....I may live under her roof, but she should learn to SHUT THE FUCK UP and STOP CARING..Because i seriously don't give a fuck if she cares about me anymore...I do not care about what she thinks her opipion doesn't matter to me. I look to my friends when i need help, not mom....




My mom=pshycotic piece of shit dumbass bitch.....

My mom can go to fucking hell for all I care. fuck her.

As much as it seems frustrating, she is only doing it because she cares. I had the same thing with my parents. They used to worry everytime I went out. Wanting to know what time I would be back, where I was going, etc, etc. It’s a parents prerogative to worry about their children. :)

Look at it this way, at least you have a mum that cares. So many others don’t have that, their parents couldn’t give a damn what they are getting up to and where they are.

Originally posted by Spec2 Girl
As much as it seems frustrating, she is only doing it because she cares. I had the same thing with my parents. They used to worry everytime I went out. Wanting to know what time I would be back, where I was going, etc, etc. It’s a parents prerogative to worry about their children. :)


Look at it this way, at least you have a mum that cares. So many others don’t have that, their parents couldn’t give a damn what they are getting up to and where they are.

My mom has NO RIGHT to know EXACTLY what im doing, hell no she doesn't. what i go aobut doing is my biz, not hers. Fuck what she thinks...It looks like i will be living in my car for sometime....Because I honestly can't take this shit anymore.........my mom can go to fucking hell.


I don't care if she cares Spec2, she can go fuck herself for all i care.....stupid hypocrite mom.

You can't have it both ways.Mum - leave me alone,I'm 20....I want to be my own man.....but here's my laundry,where's my dinner,make my bed and do my dishes.....................


If you don't like it at home you are old enough to look after yourself.

Originally posted by taranaki
You can't have it both ways.Mum - leave me alone,I'm 20....I want to be my own man.....but here's my laundry,where's my dinner,make my bed and do my dishes.....................


If you don't like it at home you are old enough to look after yourself.

amen brotha

its really ignorant to whine about your parents when your still living with them

your 20
move out
then your on your own
she has a right to know what your doing as long as you live there

Originally posted by SkYLiNeFrEaK
Alright heres a little story.


You see I'm 20 years old yeah, but lately I've been chillin with my friends late night everynight, and my mom always bitches about it saying shit like "I need my sleep". Im quiet when i go in the door, but yet she still continues to throw a curfew on me and im fucking 20 years old.....I may live under her roof, but she should learn to SHUT THE FUCK UP and STOP CARING..Because i seriously don't give a fuck if she cares about me anymore...I do not care about what she thinks her opipion doesn't matter to me. I look to my friends when i need help, not mom....




My mom=pshycotic piece of shit dumbass bitch.....

My mom can go to fucking hell for all I care. fuck her.

Your Mom won't be around forever. Someday when you are older and wiser you will miss her. The way your Mom cares about you will outlast any friends you have now. Trust me on this one.

My son is 24, just graduated with a degree in chemistry and still lives with me. I give him a lot of slack, spoiled him with 14 guitars, 5 amps and a whole shitload of accessories for his guitars. He's a solid kid, responsible and all, but he did screw up once, never hit him, but I really laid down the law on him. I respect his wished, but he has and does respect mine after some serious conversations as I remind him I will always be his parent, even after he leaves the coop!

I'm 24 and still live at home.
Yeah my parents get a little annoying at times, but they are only looking out for me. pretty much these days they let me do what I want.

Take it easy on your mum. She probably only wants to make sure you're going to be safe, thats all.

and as long as you live under her roof, you should show some respect.

:silly2: :silly2: :silly2: :silly2: :silly2: :silly2: :silly2: :silly2: 20 and still living at home????? These are the best years of your life, get out there enjoy, go flatting, party with them, without worrying about your parents getting in the way.:coolguy:





Remember, mum knows best:)

Time to cut the umbilical cord.

Originally posted by SkYLiNeFrEaK
My mom=pshycotic piece of shit dumbass bitch.....

My mom can go to fucking hell for all I care. fuck her.

There comes a time when you realise just how mortal your parents are. Be careful what you wish for.

More to the point, friends come and go, your parents will always be a constant.

As a parent myself, I live in fear that the day will come when my kids no longer need me.

I hate to say it, but I have more sympathy for your mum than I do for you. If you don't like it, move out and move on - but it will never be the same.

I believe we have spoken before on this. You had also mentioned some plans that you were making, hopefully they are still on schedule.

I will only give my .02 on the situation you've painted. Regardless of how much they get on your nerves, they are your parents. They, more than anyone else have you in their best interests. Now sometimes parents can be overbearing and they seem like they are always on top of you. But remember one important thing, and someone else touched upon this earlier, when they are gone, they are gone.

If they are too much in your business, then leave home. You've mentioned to me many times before about how you are planning on moving in with buddies or whoever else you had in mind. Follow through with those plans. But remember one important thing, and it's something that I've repeated to you numerous times. Living out on your own is not as easy as it may appear. Especially in these times where jobs are shaky, money is hard to get and living, well, that is a job on it own right.

So, while you are really upset at the fact that they are constantly in your business, you are just venting out the frustration. I know you don't really mean that. Because if your parents weren't there, then it would be the opposite. You would be cursing them for not being there for you. So think this through and see which would be worse. Bottom line is, if you're all grown, then move out and find your place. Don't waste you time complaining and getting aggravated over something you have control over. One more thing, talking really helps. Say exactly what is on your mind. It would be in the best interest for you and your family. I hope you understand what I'm driving at and I hope your situation clears up.:)

Originally posted by SkYLiNeFrEaK
Alright heres a little story.


You see I'm 20 years old yeah, but lately I've been chillin with my friends late night everynight, and my mom always bitches about it saying shit like "I need my sleep". Im quiet when i go in the door, but yet she still continues to throw a curfew on me and im fucking 20 years old.....I may live under her roof, but she should learn to SHUT THE FUCK UP and STOP CARING..Because i seriously don't give a fuck if she cares about me anymore...I do not care about what she thinks her opipion doesn't matter to me. I look to my friends when i need help, not mom....




My mom=pshycotic piece of shit dumbass bitch.....

My mom can go to fucking hell for all I care. fuck her.




What the F*** is wrong with u.. u should be happy that she cares.. some people are not the fortunate.. I love my MOM dearly.. and i would NEVER say such hurtful things to her or about her.. SHE brought me into this world. and it's my JOB to show her my THANKS and APPRECIATION AND MAKE HER PROUD.. u NEED SOME SERIOUS GROWING UP TO DO ( OR A SERIOUS A$$ KICKING ).. DAMN, I can understand u wanna chill and hangout( THAT'S FINE!! ).. well if that's the f***ing case move out.. U GOT ALL THAT MOUTH BUT YET U STILL LIVING UNDER HER ROOF>> and i BET U don't pay rent either( DO U? ). ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS my friend... COME ON, u're a man right? PROVE IT?>
Oh by the way... if u're friends tolerate u sayin $hit about u're mom like that.. than there're no tru friends...

"A REAL FRIEND WOULD TELL U THE TRUTH( even if it hurts ).. NOT TELL THINGS U WANNA HEAR"

I hear ya, I'm 18, and still live at home...

My parents were getting all over me a while back, saying I was doing drugs at my friends house, and all that... I told em I wasn't and stayed home for about a week...

Finally I just called from work, left a message saying I was going to my friends house, and came back a few days later... they haven't said anything since.

Now they have backed off a bit... still crazy tho...

Now my moms saying shit like "as long as you live in my house, you will behave like a christian boy... no drugs, sex, alcohol, etc" :rolleyes: ...fuck that :P

-Grendel

Oh, BTW... I'm trying to move out, but its hard when you owe your parents $1000, and make minimum wage :(

move out. I moved out when I was 18 (three years ago) and haven't regretted it. You life is much better when you stand on your own two feet and make your own way.

As many above have said, as long as you're living under her roof, you have no room to talk. Move out on your own and see what life's really like...if you can't afford to move out, then maybe you need to reevaluate yourself. When was the last time you helped out with rent/house payment or even groceries. I bet you don't have any clue what things cost, or you wouldn't be complaining. If you were to move out on your own, you'd be paying a MINIMUM of about $700 a month for rent, utilities, food, etc. You just have to ask yourself: Is freedom worth $700 a month? If yes, move out. If no, suck it up, abide by her rules and grow up.

I don't care if you're 18 or 30, if you still live with your parents, you are very much a child. When you move out, you will experience so much more freedom and responsibility, you'll never want to go back. You will have the freedom to do as you wish and the responsibility to manage your life. Yes, it has drawbacks but they are more than worth it vs. the costs of living with your parents.

hey man yeah i know that you want freedom and all, and that you want to leave the nest, but do you think that you can handle it? i mean come on the cost of living these days is fuckin $$$$$$$$$ ya know? i'm 17 and my rents are on my ass..mostly my mom, especially about me and my girlfriend, but still dude i love them 2 death. i mean i don't mind that i have a roof over my head with the only rent being obeying their rules which aren't as strict, and waking up early on sundays 2 go to church. i mean it's true that once they're gone, they're gone, i found that out when my grandma's sister (my grand aunt) died last december at around the time of my Confirmation. she was healthy and all of a sudden she died of a stroke...life can be cut just as fast as you can snap your fuckin fingers dude. don't take it for granted. you need 2 talk 2 your mom to vent out man and to maybe negotiate some ground rules man. my mom had it worse, where she was living with my dad and was 21, but she still had a curfew by my grandma, but she came out ok man. i mean in my opinion, they care enough to try and help you have a better future and lead a better life than what they had ya know? because they probably had to bust their asses off for you man. just show some respect man and she'll probably get off your back. start doin shit for her. gain her trust. the more that you act out the less that she'll trust you man you have to understand that. i doubt that you want to get kicked out of the house nobody really does man.

My parents are pretty cool about most things except cerfew issues. I graduated high school and they still want me in at 11. I think 1AM is a better time. I have many friends who are JUNIORS that go in at 2. I dont think 1 is too much to ask.

Other than that, I understand that I live under their roof, and must respect, but they need to trip a little less. And it isnt like im a deadbeat either. I will be attending heald college beginning july 31 to get my assoc. degree in business software applications, and after that will probably pursue a bachelors.

Ok, all done