Hmmmmm...I Don't Know...Hard Decsion To Make...VERY Important To Read

My family really needs me right now and I am thinking about moving back down to AZ. I don't really know if I wanna do this...as to see alot of my things (material things) at that go away forever. I mean I have a wonderful apartment, 10 mins from the beach, car will have to go (as the job won't be there to support it, but I am thinking of a truck anyway so.... :confused: ) all for HEAT and HOT HOT HOT weather. The people down in AZ know this, right guys'....and those damn fires all over the place. Jesesh.


So, I am trying to think things through right now. Anyone done this before? I love CA, but my family needs me for a while (I am like the non-screw up of the family and they need all they can get from me, which I am willing to do, as you see me writing this thread. I am just so damn confused, I don't know what to do :confused:


Hmmmmm, me so lost...

....so all in all, I just wanna say if I have fucked anyone over, nor liked me kidding around about certain things, or even just don't like me around here (hardly doubt that one though :D ) I ask that you come on and give me a reply to what you are feeling. I don't know what else to do, this is a big change and all, but what are your guys' thoughts? I ask this because I have grwon to like ALL of you guys', and really trust you...that's why I am writing this. :(


I am sorry to all I have hurt on here and to tell the truth not very truthful indeed, but it has been a shitty time in my life for a while now...I really hate it, please forgive me and let me start over... :)


Kobe

that is indeed a difficult decison to make, on the one hand you have your life all set everything cool, but on the other hand your family need ya help, from your question you seem like a caring enough person to do the right thing............
I assume you can't take time out form your work to sort out the family probs......

Wow, that really is quite a decision.

If you have a really good thing going for you right now maybe you should tend to yourself for a while. At the same time, family is where you go when all else fails. I would personally physically write a list of pros and cons. Give them weight, and see which column comes out on top. The other way is to follow your intuition... it's not often wrong on things like these.

Good luck in whichever choice you make. Keep us informed, okay?

Originally posted by ragt20
that is indeed a difficult decison to make, on the one hand you have your life all set everything cool, but on the other hand your family need ya help, from your question you seem like a caring enough person to do the right thing............
I assume you can't take time out form your work to sort out the family probs......



See that's the thing....I have been down here since March (when I registered on the forum. That's why I registered here, cuz I can't sleep in AZ...too many things going on right now, so I joined a forum, and you guy's were it!) so I have taken off from work this long already, and even though the boss and I are tight as hell (been friends for a while) he still needs someone to replace me of my skill or have me back. He needs his work done and I understand that. So right now I have been living out of my 401, stocks, bonds, everything I have had for a while saved up for my children (not to say I spent it all, I had enough $$ in there for a while of their life) and my wife and I. It's just so damn hard...you know.


And thanx Tangie, I might try that...but in the end I know my life is more important than my family, I mean I didn't get intot eh trouble they did, DAMNIT!! AHHHHH....

I might just do the unthinkable... :eshooter:

Honestly I dont care about your personal life. You will find whats best for you and your situation.

But misleading people, getting their hopes up over something, and it turns out to be a joke. That can piss people off. Some people take the little things serious. Thats why I make it a point here on AF to try and find the frauds.

But regardless, lets put that behind us. :)