Friends with Benefits

Friends with Benefits how did it go for you guys? :iceslolan

mine is still going strong, the only messed up part is developing feelings. :shakehead

how is ur friend with benefit doing?

Did it once, developed feelings, stopped doing it, just friends now...

uh, why do i have a feeling the only thing this newbie is gonna post will be about women......

Benefits, like when a friend cooks for you?

I'm glad they're getting matching 401K contributions, but it makes little difference to me.

I don't know what's worse, the fact that he's a newbie, or the fact that he's 25 and acting like he's 10 years younger.

I could never bring myself to that kind of stuff.

I could never bring myself to that kind of stuff.

same here, i have feelings for a friend but not the "i wanna fuck her" way, noob, you're shallow and pathetic.

I had sex once with one of my really good girl friends. I'd be willing to do it again, but it's not something I'm really looking for.

The only person I've ever been like that with was my ex, right after we broke up. I couldn't not have feelings for him. It was the worst, most painful thing I've ever done. That's my input.

As far as you asking about this, though, I don't think you deserve a serious answer, so I'm gonna go with Chris -

noob, you're shallow and pathetic.

The only person I've ever been like that with was my ex, right after we broke up. I couldn't not have feelings for him. It was the worst, most painful thing I've ever done. That's my input.

As far as you asking about this, though, I don't think you deserve a serious answer, so I'm gonna go with Chris -

noob, you're shallow and pathetic.

you still answered the question :iceslolan

"COMPLETELY off-topic Talk about anything other than cars. But you can't be mad and angry in this forum!

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I'm completely basing my opinions on you from the 2 threads that you've started, and so far, you're not doing good.

Wow, two threads... You are a shallow, sexist, immature, insecure person. If you're the kind of person who gets close to a woman just for the nooky...which I'm pretty sure you are...do us all a favor and die. Die is a strong word...I really want you to stop living.

you still answered the question :iceslolan

"COMPLETELY off-topic Talk about anything other than cars. But you can't be mad and angry in this forum!

This is true, but I'd have to agree with Nicole. You'll only get a serious answer with a serious question, and if you for some reason find this to be a serious question, then I'm sure most of AF will give you a stern "No".

As for the completely off topic.. Yes, this would fall under that catergory, but nobody obviously wants to see anything like this. If this is how you'd like people to know you due to first impressions, welcome to AF :smokin:

Edit: Sometimes I don't even think "die" is a strong enough word :lol:

my topics is just to bring a sense of humor....y is everyone taking it all personal?

You need to become a respected member before you just go and start threads about crap like this. If I offended you with my prevvious posts, I appologize but still...THINK! and welcome to AF.

Thats sick. a friend is a friend, not a person to do stuff like that with.

Geeze, what an interesting thread.

I've done the FWB thing. We were good friends, and ended up hooking up. Agreed it woulnd't mess with the friendship, and every now and then when we saw each other stuff would happen. Smeh. I didn't call her up for bootycalls or anything like that. It was actually really good, because we had a strong emotional connection.

As long as both people know where they stand and are aware that it won't do anythng to their friendship unless they let it, then it's all good.

Once feelings develop though, well, it's all over.

Gman, you make it sound like making out or sex is some disgusting dirty act that people should be ashamed of doing. WTF?


As for Sprinter...geeze man, have a wank or something and post less sexual oriented threads.

Geeze, what an interesting thread.

I've done the FWB thing. We were good friends, and ended up hooking up. Agreed it woulnd't mess with the friendship, and every now and then when we saw each other stuff would happen. Smeh. I didn't call her up for bootycalls or anything like that. It was actually really good, because we had a strong emotional connection.

As long as both people know where they stand and are aware that it won't do anythng to their friendship unless they let it, then it's all good.

Once feelings develop though, well, it's all over.

Gman, you make it sound like making out or sex is some disgusting dirty act that people should be ashamed of doing. WTF?


As for Sprinter...geeze man, have a wank or something and post less sexual oriented threads.

Gman is 15 years old. he will understand in a couple of years

I'm sure he's perfectly capable of answering for himself.

tried it once and i'm never going to again cos when you stop hooking up, the whole friendship's fucked up.

my topics is just to bring a sense of humor....y is everyone taking it all personal?
Cuz though you might not think so but Some people will consider you sexist or just straight horny:nono: (this being based off those 2 threads). Ones sex life is theres and not really meant to be shared with others that you don't really know.:shakehead Humor uhm I don't see any humor in this subject. Maybe when people here get to know ya a little better you'll probably get better answers but not right now cuz they still see you as a:newbie:

im fine with sharing, but not everyone is. driftinggrifter made a good point.
anyway, dude, stop posting about sex. go out, have some beers, and do it instead of talking about it.

The whole first threads thing is sort of creepy but since you brought up the friends with benefits thing and while I'm visiting this totally pointless thread I figured I'd post my first opinion about it.................

if and only IF you and your friend can pull off that sort of shit without messin up your friendship outside of the bedroom then by all means GO FOR IT!!!! I've got a friend with benefits and I must say it's the BEST thing that ever happened to either of us and the sad thing is that she is practically married and (for some reason) the guy gets jealous of me when his fiancee leaves him in the middle of the night and comes to my house and he at times doesn't hear from her for like a day or more each time.

I can't figure out this guys jealousy, am I doin something that he can't or is he just that insecure?

The whole first threads thing is sort of creepy but since you brought up the friends with benefits thing and while I'm visiting this totally pointless thread I figured I'd post my first opinion about it.................

if and only IF you and your friend can pull off that sort of shit without messin up your friendship outside of the bedroom then by all means GO FOR IT!!!! I've got a friend with benefits and I must say it's the BEST thing that ever happened to either of us and the sad thing is that she is practically married and (for some reason) the guy gets jealous of me when his fiancee leaves him in the middle of the night and comes to my house and he at times doesn't hear from her for like a day or more each time.

I can't figure out this guys jealousy, am I doin something that he can't or is he just that insecure?

She's practically married yet leaving to "hang" out with you. Not gonna lie thats fucking pathetic, on BOTH your parts. If she is almost married she shouldnt be doing shit like that to her "significant other". Your just as bad because of how disrespectful it is because you KNOW they are practically married. Guys like that piss me off. See a girl and it doesnt matter if they have someone or not, they just see a peice of ass. If i ever seen some guy doing that shit to my gf i would be hitting that, with a baseball bat for being a disrespectful peice of shit.

She's practically married yet leaving to "hang" out with you. Not gonna lie thats fucking pathetic, on BOTH your parts. If she is almost married she shouldnt be doing shit like that to her "significant other". Your just as bad because of how disrespectful it is because you KNOW they are practically married. Guys like that piss me off. See a girl and it doesnt matter if they have someone or not, they just see a peice of ass. If i ever seen some guy doing that shit to my gf i would be hitting that, with a baseball bat for being a disrespectful peice of shit.

:iagree:

It takes two to tango and two to have an affair. This guy isn't helping by helping the "almost married couple" cheat.

like i said, shouldn't tread on someone else territory

edit: o shit. i never said that.

edit edit: i said it, erased it, posted something else, and then never said it... ...i gotta sotp.

Depends... All situation to...

For the most part if it was just a regular friend maybe but a close friend no because I'm not the the type of person who can view a friend like that after such an experience, I couldn't view them the same way again thus ruining the long friendship we had.

So yea - Your pretty shallow...

Well, I gotta go with D on that although I've been in Pimp's position and the guy she was with was actually seein 2 other women. So it worked out, kinda. Longer story attached to that.

As for FWB, well, it can work but just people that'd do booty calls, no. I've had it with this one girl and it wasn't a booty call thing, but like we were available for each other for whatever. The very dependable friend and the sex only happened occasionally depending on the situation. So it was a FWB, just the benefits weren't always sex related and that's about as close you can get without developing feelings or considering it slutiness {insert better word if ya got it].

Oh yeah, the only reason we never developed real feelings, I was goin' tomove in a few months a long ways away and then i kept coming back from college to visit and leave etc. So, yeah...although now I live here, damn those feeligns will always catch up.

EDIT: As for the n00b, STFU please!!! Man, this is completely off-topic but that doesn't mean you can come in here asking where to find child porn or have a who's hotter poll. Given, we've done that but they were closed after awhile and I'm pretty sure such threads are no longer allowed. Did you even read the guidelines in like every Mod's sig or at the top??? Yes it's OT but to a degree. No matter how OT anywhere be considerate on whether it's a waste of time or not, offends people, or just makes you look like you lied about your age when signing up. *sigh*

did it one, decided she wasn't worth my gas money. simple as that

Gman, you make it sound like making out or sex is some disgusting dirty act that people should be ashamed of doing. WTF?

Yeah, that came out wrong. What im trying to say is that I think it would just make the relationship a little odd, thats all. And with my friends, i wouldnt think of pursuing a relationship, because they're just friends.

NOOO I'm not coming onto her she comes onto me and well we've dated before and I guess that I left a lasting impression on her or something, and for the people calling me an animal FUCK YOU!!!! There isn't a person on this site (unless some of my friends have joined AF) that knows our past. Our dating started around when I was 16 or 17 and we've known eachother since I was like 12 or 13 and one time she was in a real shitty realaitionship and she left him for me and we broke up after about a month or so and we've been having little flings every now and then since that happened.

Here's another thing to clear my name and place the blame on her (did that come out wrong?) I'm only 18 and she's 23 about to be 24 and she has two kids and that's one female that I actually trust and would drop everything and marry her tomorrow and she feels the same way about it so I don't care about your opinions...............hate if you want dawg I personally don't give a damn!

Friends with Benefits how did it go for you guys? :iceslolan

mine is still going strong, the only messed up part is developing feelings. :shakehead

how is ur friend with benefit doing?

my topics is just to bring a sense of humor....y is everyone taking it all personal?

why the fuck do you think we're taking it personal? idiot.

agreed this guy is one of three things ( personally think it's all three) 1) a perv 2) lonely and last but not least 3) a newbie

This guy needs to be banned for a week or two and set in a corner and let him think about what he has posted and how he could correct his reputation on AF

my topics is just to bring a sense of humor....y is everyone taking it all personal?

cause most people here's too mature for your all too common wannabe American Pie humor

Sex is beautiful. you'll get bored soon and get into kinky with guys. And since i dont know any chicks who would be interested in being friends with someone wanting too screw around with a friends, so.. how's it going with you and your friend? ..oh, dont tell me, im not like that

*finished releasing long time irritation*

NOOO I'm not coming onto her she comes onto me and well we've dated before and I guess that I left a lasting impression on her or something, and for the people calling me an animal FUCK YOU!!!! There isn't a person on this site (unless some of my friends have joined AF) that knows our past. Our dating started around when I was 16 or 17 and we've known eachother since I was like 12 or 13 and one time she was in a real shitty realaitionship and she left him for me and we broke up after about a month or so and we've been having little flings every now and then since that happened.

Here's another thing to clear my name and place the blame on her (did that come out wrong?) I'm only 18 and she's 23 about to be 24 and she has two kids and that's one female that I actually trust and would drop everything and marry her tomorrow and she feels the same way about it so I don't care about your opinions...............hate if you want dawg I personally don't give a damn!

I wasn't going to say anything, but since you brought it up again. The reason people likely feel the way they do reguarding your situation, I know I do is this. She has 2 kids likely with her fiancee, but I could be wrong. Fiancee implies that she is planning on getting married. Just because you have known eachother for some time, and have dated and what not for about half that time doesn't make it right. You can't clear your name, because it takes 2. That's great that you say you feel that way about her, but you talk like it's no big deal. Lastly if you 2 both feel that way about eachother, why aren't you 2 together and engaged rather than her and her fiancee? Just my :2cents:

On another note, haven't been around in a while, how is everyone?

If you must really know NONE of her children are by the same guy and I feel as if I'm the victim here because............ she won't leave me alone about sex, my parents won't get off my back because I'm in a "bad relationship" and yall won't cut me a break because I posted a part of mypersonal life because some damned newbie asked about it!

GET OFF MY BACK EVERYONE!!!! I was just answering a simple question and if anyone has a problem with it well take it to the PM's instead of taking up thread space!!!!

Let's just kill hte n00b. He's caused too much trouble. And I'm not judgin' ya pimp. Bigger things to be bothered over than something like that. Good luck in the sit though...

If you must really know NONE of her children are by the same guy and I feel as if I'm the victim here because............ she won't leave me alone about sex, my parents won't get off my back because I'm in a "bad relationship" and yall won't cut me a break because I posted a part of mypersonal life because some damned newbie asked about it!

GET OFF MY BACK EVERYONE!!!! I was just answering a simple question and if anyone has a problem with it well take it to the PM's instead of taking up thread space!!!!
This is why I personally beleive that these things shouldn't be shared with people you dont really know. Hopefully she dont get caught

Well grifter she is a GREAT friend of mine I just don't really give a shit if she gets caught because the guy she's with right now is a dickless bastard that ..........well lets put it this way he's like 28 or so and he's jealous of a 18 year old guy taking his: job, girl, and car (since it's in her name to keep the IRS from it) so I consider him rather pathetic because a 18 year old guy can do things that he can't and make him jealous just because of previously stated reasons and because his place of employment was asking for help so I put in an application and just about got the job except he's an inconsiderate/jealous asshole that's pussywhipped and has nothing better to do than lie to his boss in order to keep him from hiring me?

Well grifter she is a GREAT friend of mine I just don't really give a shit if she gets caught because the guy she's with right now is a dickless bastard that ..........well lets put it this way he's like 28 or so and he's jealous of a 18 year old guy taking his: job, girl, and car (since it's in her name to keep the IRS from it) so I consider him rather pathetic because a 18 year old guy can do things that he can't and make him jealous just because of previously stated reasons and because his place of employment was asking for help so I put in an application and just about got the job except he's an inconsiderate/jealous asshole that's pussywhipped and has nothing better to do than lie to his boss in order to keep him from hiring me?

Okay so your nailing his fiance and he's not supposed to be jealous/pissed. She wont leave you alone? Thats why you TWO fool around? Thats the biggest BS i've ever heard. I dont care if she came to you wanting sex or not. The point is she has someone she is engaged too and you dont give a shit. Its about having respect for someones relationship.

im in a pissed off mood, therefore this post in influenced by this mood.

noob, i think you either are or should be scitzophrenic (i dont care how it's spelled) thus giving you two or more personailities, meaning you can be friends with yourself. so when i tell you to go fuck yourself you actually can do it.

if you're so shallow to just want the "no strings attached" sex with a friend then your relationship with that friend is, quite frankly, fucked up (pun intended) however, most of us, if not all, here are not like yourself and we dont believe in this "friends with benefits" bullshit because we respect our friends and therefore we are not into this "fuck-buddies" shit or whatever you call it.

so no, there isn't a "babes with cars" forum and we dont have "friends with benefits" nor do we want them or want to talk about them. maybe you should take a little time to read through the forums to understand how it works and how the regulars and other member treat each other and interact before you clogg up AF with pointless and annoying threads.

2.2 out - gone to relieve stress by breaking things.

My only comment from here on out and I'd like for anyone to TRY and argue with it.............D, give rsepect where it's earned and hes been nothing but an asshat to me the whole entire time I've known him, and hell call me a shallow asshole if you want I DON'T GIVE A DAMN!!!! I could care less about someone's opinion about me that lives like a shitload of miles away from me, and lets try to not transform this into a flame on the pimp thread but if that's what's wanted by everyone then lets do this thing then I can take it as well as dish it out, LETS GO!!!!

Maybe the G35 stands for the car he drives. Every person I've met that is a guy and drives a G35 are just shallow and pathetic. I raced one w/ the camry on the way home from school, I left him in the dust. To me it's a miracle but I guess I just have a good R/T and can drive.

im in a pissed off mood, therefore this post in influenced by this mood.

noob, i think you either are or should be scitzophrenic (i dont care how it's spelled) thus giving you two or more personailities, meaning you can be friends with yourself. so when i tell you to go fuck yourself you actually can do it.

if you're so shallow to just want the "no strings attached" sex with a friend then your relationship with that friend is, quite frankly, fucked up (pun intended) however, most of us, if not all, here are not like yourself and we dont believe in this "friends with benefits" bullshit because we respect our friends and therefore we are not into this "fuck-buddies" shit or whatever you call it.

so no, there isn't a "babes with cars" forum and we dont have "friends with benefits" nor do we want them or want to talk about them. maybe you should take a little time to read through the forums to understand how it works and how the regulars and other member treat each other and interact before you clogg up AF with pointless and annoying threads.

2.2 out - gone to relieve stress by breaking things.

Well,....that pretty much sums it up.

Closed because this thread sucks.

n00b: Please think before you post something. There is an age limit of 13 for this site and if you can't show the moderating staff that you're AT LEAST that mature, then we can remove you from this community. While this is Completely Off-Topic, it's a forum to discuss fun things and interesting things, not perverted and personal things that are best left for Private Messages. There will be no more posts like this one.