Am i missing something here?

My life has been going to hell lately, and i guess i just need a couple second opinions on my situations.....thanks guys, and sorry its so long.

Situation # 1 ) July-- I was working as a bagger at Smiths grocery store in kalispell. It was strictly for some extra cash cause almost everyone that works there is a deralict. anyways one of my co-workers was this chick named Kate, shes a ditzy blonde that kinda looks like a bunny, now i tried to be nice to kate i really did, said hi to her when i saw her smiled never said a bad word about her, in fact i thought she was ok.......anyways one day im working till 12am, and i meet steve, who is on the nightcrew, i was doing go-backs around 10:30, (which is where you collect all the crap from the registers that the customers decide they dont want and put it back) anyways steve was stocking shelves and we started talking, ended up talking to him for a good hour or so, and we made plans to go swimming the next day, i thought we had a good connection and he seemed really cool :smile: ...

Next day -- steve calls around 3 and i meet him at his house only to find out that its not just me and him swimming like i thought, its me him kate, devin, ricky, brittany etc....about 15 people, anyways we go swimming and get pizza later, and its then that i realize kate is giving me the dirtest looks, im like WTF??? and i will admit that yes i liked steve he seemed really cool and all....

...Later -- i find out from curtis (one of steves friends that is really cool) that steve has a gf that he didnt even bother to tell me and kate about, and not only that she is his ex-fiances little sister, and his friend devin's ex gf....im like whoa dude that is fucked up. anyways i decide im totally cool with just being friends with steve, cause well, ewww after knowing that...ya i just wanna be friends.... so through out late july to the present me and steve have hung out , gone paintballing, chilled, and such, ive never made a move on him and vice versa, i thought we were cool....

Yesterday-- I work at arbys now and steve and kate came in last night and got food before going to a movie, steve casually chatted with me for a bit and i said a polite hi to kate, they got there food, and then steve came and gave me a hug before leaving (much to the disliking of kate)...anyways i thought we were all cool

Yesterday Night -- I get off work and hang out w/ ian and tyler for a bit and come home around 1am, anyways curtis is online and starts talking to me we talk fot a bit and then i tell him i saw kate and steve earlier at work (curtis has hated kate with a passion since he met her and is extremley frustrated with steve for whining about kate and still hanging out with her ) anyways curtis makes the comment that he hates it how steve and kate always talk behind my back when ive dont nothing wrong...im like what??? so this is what he says: "i just hate it how they criticize you for doing nothing wrong, they always say how pathetic you are for still trying to get steve, and how hard you try for him, they both say they fucking hate you..." Im just like....what?? i never knew....it just doesnt make sense to me.....i mean if you hate me , tell me and then dont hang out with me, whatever but dont still chill with me and then bitch about me behind my back......whats ur guys comments on this situation??


Situation # 2)

This time its about Ian....

I met Ian at the end of september. he goes to my HS, and hes a year younger. He is absolutley crazy about snowboarding and i swear he would sell his soul for it...anyways we hit it off great, he was really cool and such we started hanging out alot, we got along really good, and he told me i was the coolest chick he had ever met...but he was always different when we hung out without all his other friends... i never really though much of it, we got along great, however i just transferred to my current HS, and so im quite a loner, while ian has tons of friends, hes always busy at lunch and what not, so i am usually alone, not that i expect him to be with me all the time, i know he has his own life....anyways we started talking about going out, and i went over to hang out at his house, a couple weeks ago and we kissed. but now hes just started ignoring me i only see him if i call and ask to hang out, or he only texts me if i text first, well ok, if your feelings have changed lemme know.....it finally bugged me enough to ask him about it and he just says nothings different he just doesnt want a gf while its snowboarding season.....well whatever, but i saw him up on the mountain the other day, (i snowboard too) and he didnt even recognize me, hmm....am i just overreacting ....whats ur guys opinions???

Cliff notes? Have you thought about a career writing soap opera's?

Cliff notes? Have you thought about a career writing soap opera's?

Exactly what I was gonna say man. High school drama, nothing less nothing more. Ever hear of that show Degrassi? Contact them with this story, they will be highly interested. Peace-

i was just looking for a little moral support guys, gosh, but if this really is retarded feel free to delete it

Moral support? Lay off the high scool drama bullshit. Nobody will fucking care who slept with who when ya'll graduate so just let it be. Peace-

Put out and they'll like you more.

1. Go tell steve and kate what you think about them and embarrass them somehow maybe.

2. Ian doenst like you anymore, either he thinks your a bad kisser or he realized it was a mistake. I know this because its happened to me more then once and its exactly how I reacted

This is a male-dominated forum. Did you honestly think you were going to get serious advice?

Even I had a hard time reading that...

Well it sounds like your begging for "ians" attention, i hate that shit.

Put out and they'll like you more.
:lol2::thumbsup:

Good advice.

Oh geeze...bleeddodge is giving Oz type advice now, i dont know if this site can take a second Oz..

As for your situation, i'll tell you the same thing i told my "little sister"(not really, just a friend we call each other brother and sister) What happens now, isn't going to mean shit, 1 year from now, especially if you're in high school, so why put so much thought into it. Move on and dont give a shit about any of those other people....





(This has been generalized advice and may or may not fit the situation)

Yeah it's just highschool drama, you'd be off alot better alone or just hanging out with your own crew.

I really gave it serious thought to reading it and I started...but cliff's notes...and after glancing over, I'd say fuck them all...who cares? No one will remember this next year so it doesnt really matter. just mine

every one is right. Get over it and move on. Not much else you can do. Unless you sleep with both of them in a three some.....But thats another story. You know what I found funny about your story. Well, tha only grocery store n my town is Smiths. My brothers name is Curtis, And a gal named Kate works at Smiths. And she is a typical dumb blond. Kinda kool though....lol......

Ah yes, high school drama, how I miss it...NOT.

Just go up and tell people however you feel and do whatever you want to do. If the high school clique doesn't like it, tell them, word for word, "you don't like it I got two words for ya, fuck you!"

That's all you need to know.

Stop "trying" to make things work, and have enough patience to let it work itself out. Any kind of real relationship doesn't have 1 person liking the other, whether it be friends or a companion. Highschool is full of people not knowing what they want, who they are... all the while trying to prove themselves to their peers. Just steer through the BS and you will get what you want eventually.

OK....well you guys sure tell it how it is....and your right, not much else i can really do then just tell them they're dumbasses and move on, it all gets better when your outa HS anyways, or so im told. and im out this year....

So......what exactly IS your problem with the opposite sex?

So......what exactly IS your problem with the opposite sex?

What are you talking about Oz??

Sorry, posting in the wrong thread stoned. Disregard.

Ahhh the angst of the teenage years.....

A few words:

1. High school sucks.
2. High school boys suck even more.
3. High school drama sucks even worse than 1 and 2.

These folks you're talking about are backstabbers, avoid them like the plague...Curtis too. He's stirring up the pot by saying anything in the first place.

As for Ian, he's a silly boy that is interested onlyin things that benefit him. You thought you had him, now you don't. Brush yourself off and move on to better things.

Stay away from backstabbers and don't be a backstabber. Stay away from people with too much drama. And stay away from selfish people.

Make friends with people who like you for who you are, have good attitudes and don't get involved in other people's drama.

*Be aware that some people never grow up. When I was growing up I thought everyone would move on after high school/college, become civil adults and make a life for themselves. Not everyone does.

^^^Kat Woman said it all.. and I didn't even need to read all of the post (EDIT:the opening post of this thread) to know this. True words of wisdom Kat.

fuck em all. You think your life has problems because of some kids talking crap behidn your back? Dude, worrying about petty stuff like this is just gonna make you have butt problems. It's high school. After you graduate, you'll look back and laugh at yourself. In the mean time, if you wanna see some people more fucked up so you can feel better, go to a debtors anonymous group and then hit up the incest survivor's group. (you can find the postings typically in Churches, optimist clubs, and YMCAs, among other public facilities.)