Need Help With Romote Start!!!!!! :(

ok well im trying to do this crap im in the middle of it.. im having a hard time with the pass lock.. it has these wires PLEASE help wut do they connect to???

RED and black i got

VIOLET - INPUT TO BULB CHECK RELAY #85 connect this wire to VIOLET ribbon cable on DEI remote start relay that is - ground when only while the vehicle is cranking

BROWN- Output to bulb check wire #30 connect this wire to 20gauge black BULB CHECK wire in ignition switch power harness this wire will test - ground when the ignition switch is turned to the on position

ORANGE - acc. input connect this wire to the ORANGE ribbon cable on the DEI remote start relay or a wire from the remote start system that provides a - ground before and after the vehicle starts but not during cranking

WHITE resistor relay output #87 - this wire will appy the selected resistor value to the passlock system connect this wire to the small black wire in the threww wire ribbon cable in the vehicle

BLUE resistor relay normally closed #87a connect this wire to ignition switch side of the yellow (block) wire in the three ribbon cable in the vehicle

Blue/White resistor common #30 Connect this wire to the side of the yello (black) facing away from the ignition switch wire is located in the vehicles three ribbon cable

WHERE IS 3 RIBBON CABLE????
and what is BULB CHECK RELAY where do i connect
-violet
-brown-
-orange
-white
-blue
-blue/white

IM LOSTT... im in the middle so any help is MUCH APPERCIATED! thanx!