argh hot girl at work...

there is this damn sexy blonde at my work who is 2 years older than me (im a sophomore, shes a senior...highschool) and shes either a fricken flirt... or likes me, most likely a flirt heh. anyways shes adjusted her bra in front of me, leaned over me and brushed her nice boobs against me... (lol im pathetic) and shes always smiley and flirty with me. anyways now i cant get her outa my mind gaaahhhh. anyways i just got the job so i guess ill see how things go but im goin insane

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You dope! Sounds to me like she's all over you like a cheap suit. Ask her out. :p

hehe maybe ina bit, we work together so its not like ill never have a chance if i dont do it now, problem is if she goes to college...yea ill still be in highschool... and i know she has a prom date cos she was talkin about the prom with her friends there. dunno if she has a bf tho

phat man! good luck with her, when you get the right moment at work with her, ask her out. you will know when the time is right. one thing (speaking from recent personal experience ;)) make sure you get to know her pretty good before you tell her you really like her.

try starting a conversation by finding out where she is going next year. after she starts talking, she will go on about everything and anything she wants to, because girls love to spill information to guys.

I know the feeling man. Theres a nice chick at my work, and I would so ask her out. Well I would if she wasn't taken and I had some balls.

yall are funny...have you guys ever thought about alterior motives?
what if she is just a flirt and she just likes to see what kind of reaction that she can get out of a willing male.....i've seen and i know girls who are just that same thing...cockteases....there are girls who can get money...cars....clothing...anything from a guy just by playing mind games with his head just so that he will succumb..i mean come on alot of attractive girls know that they have that power....adjusting her bra?...maybe it was uncomfortable...or she was trying 2 see the reaction that you'd give her.....reaching over you with her boobs touching you? maybe she was just reaching for something near u, but she thought..."hmmm what could i make this kid do for me if i touched him with my tit...." you never know......

Originally posted by jaxle
...anyways shes adjusted her bra in front of me...

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Question: if a guy 'rearranges his furniture' in front of a girl does that mean he's interested? Or just that things aren't comfortable? It's likely that the bra just needed adjusting. C'mon, these things have wires in them, and scratchy lace.

not always, sometimes your just in a bind, and sometimes you just need to rearrange;)

Originally posted by darklightvr4
not always, sometimes your just in a bind, and sometimes you just need to rearrange;)

I'm thinking it might have been the same thing for her...anyways, girls can be teases, but not just to be cruel. Could be many reasons. Sometimes they think they're playas..sometimes they're just making sure they're still attractive..and sometimes (I catch myself doing this) we flirt MORE if we're in a relationship. Sounds stupid, I know, but if I'm single I'm really shy, especially if I like someone, but if I'm taken, I'll jokingly flirt, and it's not scary at all 'cause I don't care what the other person thinks. This can cause problems if taken seriously, however, so I try to be good. Not that I'd do anything skanky, but I don't want to mislead people.

Originally posted by HogieGT-R
yall are funny...have you guys ever thought about alterior motives?
what if she is just a flirt and she just likes to see what kind of reaction that she can get out of a willing male.....i've seen and i know girls who are just that same thing...cockteases....there are girls who can get money...cars....clothing...anything from a guy just by playing mind games with his head just so that he will succumb..i mean come on alot of attractive girls know that they have that power....adjusting her bra?...maybe it was uncomfortable...or she was trying 2 see the reaction that you'd give her.....reaching over you with her boobs touching you? maybe she was just reaching for something near u, but she thought..."hmmm what could i make this kid do for me if i touched him with my tit...." you never know......

That may all be correct but a true gentleman will be able to win her heart, even though she is only here to flirt. He will be able to change her motive so that now she doesn't want to flirt with him anymore, she want's him.

Originally posted by wickedG20


That may all be correct but a true gentleman will be able to win her heart, even though she is only here to flirt. He will be able to change her motive so that now she doesn't want to flirt with him anymore, she want's him.

i still think that's funny.....a gentleman? be able to win her heart? wtf is this king arthur!? dude yeah being a gentleman is god and all, but when it comes to tarts, they don't give a fuck if you're a gentleman or not...i've tried being the gentleman, and all i got was nothing....i have a girlfriend right now, and even though i'm the gentleman 2 her she still gets mad when i go out with the guys or something like that man....you never win when it's like that...you can try to "court" her as a gentleman, but she'll still step all over you man....flirting or not

Originally posted by HogieGT-R


i still think that's funny.....a gentleman? be able to win her heart? wtf is this king arthur!? dude yeah being a gentleman is god and all, but when it comes to tarts, they don't give a fuck if you're a gentleman or not...i've tried being the gentleman, and all i got was nothing....i have a girlfriend right now, and even though i'm the gentleman 2 her she still gets mad when i go out with the guys or something like that man....you never win when it's like that...you can try to "court" her as a gentleman, but she'll still step all over you man....flirting or not

I'm just trying to give the little boy some hope and you got to ruin it you bastard! :devil: :devil: ...

But really, I think by showing a female that you are a "gentleman," you will solve all their doubts (if they have any) about you.

Someone once told me:
"Don't get your meat where you make your bread"

I, of course, didn't listen.
So I ended up dating this girl I worked with, who also ended up moving in with me. IMO, It is REALLY difficult to sustain a quality relationship when you spend EVERY WAKING MINUTE with them...

But the main thing was that work was like a soap opera every day for the next 1.5 years... Everyone here gossips like crazy, and it was just too much.

She got fired though, which was both relieving and distressing at the same time...

Oh well...