Need ideas for first date

Well, this is my first post about girls. I'm probably going to ask one out pretty soon, but I don't have a good activity for a first date. Going to a movie is too boring, and don't get to interact much. So, let's hear those first date ideas.

go to a sex shop....i know i'd like to do that on a first date

Italian Resturant...

Also, let's try to keep it serious.

Go bowling. Yes I know it's kinda cheese but you get to check out her ...... well you know. :evillol: Also it's easy to talk and make fun of other people around you as an ice breaker. :2cents:

I usually do dinner since there is jack to do where I live.

Bowling sounds like a good idea though.

Starbucks is usually a good atmosphered place to just sit around and talk, ya know, sort of like a warm up to the actual area of the date. Try to figure out what she likes and base your decision off of that. Popular sporting events could be fun, like NFL or MLB. Otherwise just pick a place that she'd have alot of fun at.

The zoo is always good if she likes animals.

place some $2 bets at the horsetrack...

Thanks for the ideas. The bowling would be a good idea, but unfortunately I suck, I can only score like a 70.

No horsetracks around here.

She likes dirt bikes, and has one at home, but not here. (I'm saving up for a crotch rocket) Red Bud is like less than 10 minutes away from where we live, but there isn't a race there until the 24th/25th. I'm not sure if I want to wait that long though. I was thinking about asking her this coming Monday for a date this next weekend.

do you have any putput gokart places near by? Thats always a great first date. Lots to do and still room to talk. Or you could do something really simple, a picnic would not be bad. Find a nice scenic spot, a lake or something like that.

I took my ex out to a movie, but we missed the movie so we just hanged around for 3 hours and bullshitted about the movie to her parents (we were suppose to come straight home if we missed the movie), but our first real date was to an Italian resturant then to the movies :).....:(

Well, this is my first post about girls. I'm probably going to ask one out pretty soon...

No offense but this really made me laugh. :lol:

Seriously there are a lot of good ideas here. I would include the possibility of a nature hike. Good luck and let us know how it goes!

Rent a Ferrari, maybe then she won't notice the actual date and you will still score.

Dont be stupid...

Holy shit Josh your sig quote is funny as hell

Dont be stupid...

Just jealous cause you didnt think of that earlier :lol:

i'm rooting for a nature hike!!! or something else outdoors and fun. but thats just my :2cents:

Go karting if you can, thats always fun.

Just a few days ago I took a gal out for our first date. And bowling was actually the choice of our activity. We bowled two games, then afterwards went out for ice cream. Once we had our ice cream, we went to the nearest park, and we walked around.


I then suggested to go to the swings for a bit, and she sat down. I pushed her gently around for a while and we talked for about and hour and a half. Just getting to know her and all. I'll admit, it was a very good first date. It also landed me a kiss goodnight...and a case of blue balls. But, it was worth it, and it made one hell of a impression on her. She's called me every night since then. Which was Wednesday.

Just a few days ago I took a gal out for our first date. And bowling was actually the choice of our activity. We bowled two games, then afterwards went out for ice cream. Once we had our ice cream, we went to the nearest park, and we walked around.


I then suggested to go to the swings for a bit, and she sat down. I pushed her gently around for a while and we talked for about and hour and a half. Just getting to know her and all. I'll admit, it was a very good first date. It also landed me a kiss goodnight...and a case of blue balls. But, it was worth it, and it made one hell of a impression on her. She's called me every night since then. Which was Wednesday.
...you wouldnt happen to have a twin brother, would you? good job impressing the girl. obviously it's not as easy as it seems it should be.

Well, bad news. Talking to one of my friends today, he mentioned to me that he has his eye on a girl. Well, I asked who, and he said it's the same girl (not knowing that I like her too). Great...The bad part is that I have a feeling that he would backstab me and go for the girl.

What do I do now? Do I wait for a week to ask her out (attend dirt bike race), and risk loosing her, or do I ask her ASAP, without coming out appearing desperate.

Perhaps the title of the tread needs to be changed to "help clawhammer get the girl"

Just a nitpick.. but if you do the dinner and a movie thing..

go to the movie first, then the dinner. If you go to the movie last.. you've spent the last part of your date not talking...

Take her to the movie, then to dinner so you can talk about the movie at dinner.

AF really needs a "Love Advice" sub-forum in OT lol. I always thought dinner, than a scenic spot to park at across the river from downtown Manhattan would be a nice night, just sit, relax, and cuddle nd chat while watching everyone do their thing in Manhattan. Something of that nature...might not work with a girl who likes dirt biking hehehe,

Clawhammer, ask ehr out, Don't hesitate. Either he dicks you over or you dick him over. Get to stepping.

DO NOT EVER GO TO A MOVIE FOR A DATE. Nothing says "you're not interesting enough to talk to for 2 hours" like a movie! Goto the park, to the beach, bowling, minigolf, pool, something!

...you wouldnt happen to have a twin brother, would you? good job impressing the girl. obviously it's not as easy as it seems it should be.

Sorry, no twin brother there hun. :)

Clawhammer, I would honestly advise you to ask her out on a date first. You would be missing out on a really good opportunity. I have done it before, and I regret it now. I mean, you never know. Plus, a date is really just a date. There's nothing more to it. It's a chance to get to know a girl for what she really is. And if you don't like her, then you can let your friend take his chance. Really, the whole objective to me is to try and find a connection with the gal you are dating. As bad as that sounds, it's the my way of looking at it. Either you make that connection or you don't. And if it doesn't work, you atleast know you have a friend out of the matter. That is unless you end things on bad terms, then that's a different matter.

But really, if you really think your friend would backstab you for a girl, then really he's not a very good friend at all. Just do your own thang. If he's got a problem with it, just talk it over with him. Let him know that you also had your eyes set on her. A good friend will give you the opportunity to make your move despite the fact that he is also interested in the same girl. And like I said, if things don't work between you and this gal, talk up your friend. Let this girl know that he's also interested. That's pretty much it from my point of view.

After talking with some other friends (not the potential backstabber of course), they suggested that I take it slow. I already know her somewhat, and we definetely share interests. They suggested to like study together, and what not, then move up. That's probably what I'll end up doing.

if you don't move in there and ask her the chance will be gone.

I think its really funny, only AF would suggest karting as a first date.

...not a bad idea

NO NO NO!!!! NOOOOOO! ASK HER OUT. Don't go study, and do "friend shit" together. Then you'll end up in the dreaded friend zone. Ask now or become a bitch friend.

NO NO NO!!!! NOOOOOO! ASK HER OUT. Don't go study, and do "friend shit" together. Then you'll end up in the dreaded friend zone. Ask now or become a bitch friend.

LISTEN TO THIS MAN. If you go ahead and try to do friend stuff together, you will never go anywhere and be a friend and let your other friend go and get her.

I don't think a movie is so bad as long as you do something where you both can talk and get to know eachother before (a meal is ideal) and after (coffee/walk/drinks). The movie will take the pressure off both of you for at least a couple of hours and will give you something to talk about afterwards. Don't see a romantic comedy though; the MensHealth Girl Next Door recommends an action, horror, or suspense flick.

-Try to talk to the girl ALOT before going out with her..

This gets you into the friend zone...BUT still retains an attraction, if your not to "buddy-ish"..if you get me. This makes it easy to go anywhere with the person, plus you get on a common ground with them so you don't have to spend big $$$ on some fancy place..

OR, go to nathans..or any place that sells hot dogs, and hand her just the bun....she'll get the idea...lol.

-On a serious note....DON'T CALL HER LIKE A B*TCH..

From my experiance, girls HATE IT when your all up on them...

Wait for her to call you.

You should just ask her out for coffee and then maybe a nice walk. Don't act like it's a big deal even though it is a big deal to you.

i totally agree with turtlecrxsi/\ he has a good point chicks are diging on the romantic stuff . how can you only score 70? whoever was talking about bowling i went out with a girl i knwo from school bowling up at stow/kent ( i beileve) bowling alley and put put golf if you are in ohio close to it good idea there bowling i didnt feel like getting a ball that fits so i grabed one ...coninsidently it was a 6 pound ball and ( a tip dont wear baggy pants) 1st i went up to bowl pants were under my heel and i sliped shot the ball at least halfway down the lane before it hit the ground lol note you i am about 6feet tall and about 220 pounds embarasing yes but we played it out the 2 games then did put put hot date there lol
done babling now
~shawn~

Take her to a concert and then coffee after.... cuz it's different and then you have at least one thing in common (seeing the concert) to talk about and it kinda gets rid of the nerves

A bar, followed by a restaurant, followed by more bars. Never fails.

wait... jay.... you mean to say your date technique is to ply them with alcohol?

charm + alcohol = sex

:D

charm + alcohol = sex

:D

Well I guess any girl would think you are charming after having so much alcohol, now wouldn't they?

Most respectable girls don't go for alcohol on the first date...nor second. :)

Well I guess any girl would think you are charming after having so much alcohol, now wouldn't they?

Most respectable girls don't go for alcohol on the first date...nor second. :)
No. I'm a charmer full stop. And there aint nothing wrong with going to a few bars on the first date. Respectable girls dont go for alcohol on the first or second date? What is this, the 19th century? I like a girl who knows how to have a good time ;)

Alright :lol:

To each his own then. :thumbsup:

Well it all comes down to what you're looking for. I dont expect any girl to put out on the first date. If i like her, it's a disappointment if she's willing to.

Jay likes to work for it, he wants a challenge.

I stick to my original advice when it comes to dating, just dont be an idiot.

You people are so uptight. My first date with my wife was like this... I just finished my league bowling for the night and it was hot and summer. I borrowed some cover up perfume from my friend's wife. I got to her place, she offered me a beer and now I'm married for over 3 years...

goto see a comedian. it lets you know her sense of humor

and about girls putting out i wont date a girl or go out w/ her if she has sex w/ me in the first 2 weeks of me trying to get in her pants

and about girls putting out i wont date a girl or go out w/ her if she has sex w/ me in the first 2 weeks of me trying to get in her pants

That doesn't make any sense at all. So you're saying that you'll try to get in a girls pants for two weeks and if she gives in you won't go out with her anymore?? What the hell is the point? :screwy:

when it comes to girlfreind material i wont go out w/ her if she sleeps w/ me in the first 2 weeks. it makes perfect sense. if she hooks up in the first 2 weeks shes a slut more then likely

Clawhammer, ask ehr out, Don't hesitate. Either he dicks you over or you dick him over. Get to stepping.

DO NOT EVER GO TO A MOVIE FOR A DATE. Nothing says "you're not interesting enough to talk to for 2 hours" like a movie! Goto the park, to the beach, bowling, minigolf, pool, something!


wow that really puts things into perspective on what chicks might think when you ask them to a movie... thanks for that :)

when it comes to girlfreind material i wont go out w/ her if she sleeps w/ me in the first 2 weeks. it makes perfect sense. if she hooks up in the first 2 weeks shes a slut more then likely

You'll never get laid...

Take her to a dark industrial backroad in your Rota van and drop some hella skids, all the hoes like Rota vans doing skids boe.


Chicks love my Mazda Bongo wit da 12a mang.

Update: I'm going down the friendship route, which I'm not complaining about, since I'm not looking to get laid. Thanks for the help everyone.

Thanks for the ideas. The bowling would be a good idea, but unfortunately I suck, I can only score like a 70.

No horsetracks around here.

She likes dirt bikes, and has one at home, but not here. (I'm saving up for a crotch rocket) Red Bud is like less than 10 minutes away from where we live, but there isn't a race there until the 24th/25th. I'm not sure if I want to wait that long though. I was thinking about asking her this coming Monday for a date this next weekend.

EVEN better, take her out again (to bowling), maybe she could help with form? teach something?
just an idea

theres no dirtbike track there?? go to the mountains if they're close. (sorry i get used to looking at mountains just looking out my bedroom window; i forget not everyplace has them)