Girls and maturity

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Some never do and others finally realize if they want that life long relationship they have to find someone who treats them great and is sort of boring but exciting in other ways.

I'm in the same boat as you man. I'm 23 about to be 24 in a month and it sucks trying to meet girls who aren't complete cunts. It sucks even worse when they appear to be sweet and genuine at first and then turn out to be the exact opposite.

Some start looking for a serious relationship after they're left with a baby from the "bad boy" who they were with, because then they look for the guy who will take care of them and their kid, I swear if you get it on with one of these chicks I feel bad for you because they're just spoiled goods and you will forever be in second place compared to their kid, sometimes though they'll forever be looking for a badbody until something similar happens or just leave it to time.. btw dont expect women in their 30s to be much different as when women get to that age their sex drive jumps and they want more sex than before.. so just to let you know :lol:


BUT HEY you're in your early 20s you shouldnt be worrying about getting in a deep relationship with someone until you're older. Go out and have fun man.

You can be a nice guy and still get chicks. I think its all about the outgoingness(is that a word) in a guy that girls like. You can still be polite to girls, have manners and everything a nice guy would do, but you can still go to partys and shit man. Goodluck.

But what situation isn't improved by being drunk? :cheers:

Being sick.

That's true, unfortunately I lack "outgoingness", at least with girls that I am getting to know. As soon as I get comfortable enough with them to be myself, I have probably bored them to death with the non-outgoingness. Being drunk helps a lot. But what situation isn't improved by being drunk? :cheers:

Same exact same thing here man. I got a great personality when you get to know me well. I was with two girls last year that really liked me. I could talk on the phone with 'em and IM and shit, and have a good time. In person though, it just wasn't working. I went out with both of them though, and they were both older then me, lol. And freaking smoking, damn Im dumb.

I have to say that there are some girls that are appreciative from a young age. Like me...

Unless of course I change when I hit 19.

Unless of course I change when I hit 19.

Why 19? Why not 18 or 20? Why change at all?

there are decent chicks out there, you just gotta know where to look. Get a positive hobby. I'm ugly, but I've seen loads of ugly dudes with smart chicks, so the odds must remain the same for me. Getting drunk and joining the idiots will only make it worse.

you need a positive hobby like art class, exercise class, hiking.. something that involves skills and work... if u don't try, nothing will happen.

...you need a positive hobby like art class, exercise class, hiking.. something that involves skills and work... if u don't try, nothing will happen.

So true. Improving yourself is also a good way to build up self confidence. Did you ever notice that when you had a girlfriend, especially one that you were really nuts about who made you feel good about yourself, that you had no trouble hitting it off with other girls? Chalk it up to self confidence.