damn

My gf is pregnant, I'm only 17 and work at fuckin mcdonalds. I dunno how I'm gonna support the kid or tell my parents. I just wish gas prices were the least of my problems right now.

go apply at lowes or walmat. wal mart will pay you ok, like starting at 7.50 in socal an hour. but first try to apply at lowes, they can tart at 12 an hour, u can go up quick in both. grad high school, go to night school for college. i work at walmart right now but will apply at lowes since they pay better, i also go to college full time

lol i have no sympathy for you. If your not smart enough to be having safe sex then your not smart enough to be having sex at all. One thing you better do is man up, you better not bitch out and try and dump the kid off on your GF and her family. Your childhood is over, no more stupid shit, no more wasting money, you better give that kid a good life and realise for the next 18 years your a responsible for a human beings health, upbringing, life, everything. I really hate dead beat dads, please dont be one.

Sorry to say, but if you're man enough to have sex, you're man enough to deal with the consequences. That's your flesh and blood right there and now. Time to step up and be a man.

What did you do? Score a three pointer?

Yeah man unless you decided to be a man and "get more of the feel" by not having safe sex then thats your problem.

But if it happend even when you had safe sex then i'd try talking her into having an abortion, because if not you're fucked for the rest of your life, and so is the child because its shown in statistics that kids that are born to teenage parents and also in an unmarried couple dont exactly succeed in life.

Yeah man unless you decided to be a man and "get more of the feel" by not having safe sex then thats your problem.

But if it happend even when you had safe sex then i'd try talking her into having an abortion, because if not you're fucked for the rest of your life, and so is the child because its shown in statistics that kids that are born to teenage parents and also in an unmarried couple dont exactly succeed in life.

Don't kill the child, put him/her up for adoption.

Ahh.. lets not turn this into a pro-life pro-choice thing.. please..

Sure its yours? Seriously. Not being a smart ass.

Even check out UPS, I've heard they can pay pretty good. But I think it's good you seem to be taking this like a man and preparing yourself.

DO NOT KEEP THE KID. Give it up for adoption so he/she can have a better life.

As a side note, if you don't turn this kid into a productive member of society, adam corolla will send someone to kick you in the balls. Just a little motivation for ya there.

Sympathy factor = 0%

Sorry to say, but if you're man enough to have sex, you're man enough to deal with the consequences. That's your flesh and blood right there and now. Time to step up and be a man.

Quoted for truth.


Oh, and use a condom next time.

lol i have no sympathy for you. If your not smart enough to be having safe sex then your not smart enough to be having sex at all. One thing you better do is man up, you better not bitch out and try and dump the kid off on your GF and her family. Your childhood is over, no more stupid shit, no more wasting money, you better give that kid a good life and realise for the next 18 years your a responsible for a human beings health, upbringing, life, everything. I really hate dead beat dads, please dont be one.
Amen to that!

for those of you who assumed I didnt use a condom... fuck off. But those of you who actually supported me and gave me good advice thanks. Anyways, abortion is out of the question, and if she is gonna have it I dont want to give it away and know my child is out there like that. By the way I wasnt looking for sympathy just getting something off my chest.

Well, I'm sympathetic. IT sucks, serisouly, and I wish it oculda turned out differently, but hey, shit happens. Now you just gotta be a man about it, bite the bullet, and raise your kid right.

I wish you the best of luck.

for those of you who assumed I didnt use a condom... fuck off. But those of you who actually supported me and gave me good advice thanks. Anyways, abortion is out of the question, and if she is gonna have it I dont want to give it away and know my child is out there like that. By the way I wasnt looking for sympathy just getting something off my chest.

Yeah yeah we know... its YOUR kid. YOUR flesh and blood. Well guess what. If you do a shitty job of raising that kid, and screw them up psycologically, which no offense but you likely would considering your situation, society has to deal with him/her 18 years down the road. You are just not far enough along in life to be able to PROPERLY support and mentor another human life. Let someone who has the means, the knowledge, and the desire, but not the ability (meaning they can't have kids of their own), do it. They will do a better job. The kid will have a better life. You could still visit the kid too. You and your gf will be able to go to college and make something of yourselves.

IMO not giving the kid up for adoption would be unwise and selfish on your part.


So please, don't let your emotions get in the way. Think with your head, not your heart, and give the kid a proper family. For society's sake if not just the kid's.

Yeah yeah we know... its YOUR kid. YOUR flesh and blood. Well guess what. If you do a shitty job of raising that kid, and screw them up psycologically, which no offense but you likely would considering your situation, society has to deal with him/her 18 years down the road. You are just not far enough along in life to be able to PROPERLY support and mentor another human life. Let someone who has the means, the knowledge, and the desire, but not the ability (meaning they can't have kids of their own), do it. They will do a better job. The kid will have a better life. You could still visit the kid too. You and your gf will be able to go to college and make something of yourselves.

IMO not giving the kid up for adoption would be unwise and selfish on your part.


So please, don't let your emotions get in the way. Think with your head, not your heart, and give the kid a proper family. For society's sake if not just the kid's.


QFT. Come on man, you were at mcdonalds. If you really love this kid and want him/her to have a fair chance to succeed in life, give the kid up for adoption. If your girl doesn't want to get rid of the kid, and you can't make her, get the state involved.

Did you talk to yours and her parents about this yet?

If either parents are going to help raise the kid then he/she will be fine and this is your best option if you want to "keep" your kid.

Hopefully this will be a lesson to other kids out there. Sex is all fun and games until someone gets pregnant. Then you wish you had a time machine to go back and do it over. Don't let the little head do the thinking for the big head!