I'm tired of this sh*t!

Ok, for those of you who don't know, me and my gf broke up around 3 weeks ago, pretty easy breakup actually. Anyway, as a free man, I've been kinda playing the field. There's a girl I know, known her for 5 years now, that is as close to the perfect girl for me as you can get. She's a strong Christian (as am I), cute, funny, her family likes me, and everybody says we're gonna get married someday (which I obviously would not object to). Anyway, I've been talking to her lately, mutual flirting, all that good stuff. I admit to her that I like her and she says she likes me too, but doesn't want to date yet (she used the word yet) because her college is 3 hours from mine (we're only 25 min away when we're home). I understood that fine and decided maybe I would just save myself for a while. Last week, I found out she's been making out with a guy at her college (not dating, just making out). The guy made out with her the first time when he was drunk, and didn't even talk to her for a week. He's not a Christian and does not hold near the same moral standards as she does. Heck, he only seems to hang out with her so they can make out. I've always been there for this girl, been there for her to vent to, for a shoulder to cry on, and just when she needs someone to talk to. She says she's worried that now that I like her and she's "with" this guy, she doesn't want to lose me as a friend. That would even be ok, but all she talks about is this guy when she's around me, and it pisses me off. He doesn't deserve her. Hell, I don't deserve her. It just pisses me off that for all the crap I've gone through with/for her, that I apparently mean that little. I'm beginning to think that maybe she said she liked me too so that I wouldn't feel bad about it, because it would seem to me if she cared that much, she wouldn't be off doing what she is.
So tonight we went to a local cruise night, I was happy, hot cars and hot chicks. I had told her I wasn't sure if I wanted to go because it might be awkward, and she said it wasn't for her, so I decided why not. We go, she says maybe 10 words to me the entire night, and most of them were about her make-out buddy. I pray every night for guidence (for those of you who aren't Christian, please don't make a joke about that) and everything seems to tell me I should be with this girl, including what she says, except for the way she acts. I don't know what my point was. Hell, I guess I'm just tired of being lied to, cheated on, and played with by women. If it weren't for the guys in my dorm at college, I'd probably be an emotional wreck, but they give me the support I need to keep going. I know God has a plan for me and I know/hope theirs a woman out there waiting for me, but I wish that everyone would quit playing with me. I suppose I've vented enough, I should try to get some sleep, maybe that will calm me down...

your being cheated on by a girl your not dating? Sounds like she is just using you as a backup incase her "make out" buddy fails.

This is what women do. Regardless of her religious beliefs and morals she's at least blowing this guy by now. Let this one go and soon enough you'll forget her.

Don't get so emotionally cought up in this shit man. Thats the only way I learned to withstand these situations. If she wanted to be with you, IMHO she would have told you by now. Maybe you and her will end up together later. My .02.

In the words of OZ...







bang her sister. That'll get her nice, jealous, and wanting you.

Sounds like shes not holding up very high moral standards either mate..

Bullshit games these women play, dont worry about 'er.

nice guys always finish last....give her a challenge....see what happens

Damn, I honestly hope I'm never like that.

Damn, I honestly hope I'm never like that.

You mean like me or like the girl?

nice guys always finish last....give her a challenge....see what happens

I'm beginning to think you're right...

You mean like me or like the girl?

Her. That's really wrong.

As a person in a similiar situation to you, I can honestly say stop being her little venting pillow. I was the same thing.. flat out head over heels for this girl who was going out with a guy who was playing 3 girls at once and this summer I decided that I couldn't take it anymore. Trust me it's gonna hurt a lot more to sit there and listen to all that shit than it will to just cut off most contact.

Yeah man, you need to just forget about her because she is either A. lieing to you or B. having you as a back-up. You should never just be a way for a girl to vent, that will always leve you in the friend status.

Or as Chris Rock would say your like a dick in a glass case. In case of emergency break glass.

nice guys always finish last
Yeah man, you need to just forget about her... You should never just be a way for a girl to vent, that will always leve you in the friend status.
They are right man. I know what you mean, I have always tried to be the friend in hopes that it turns out to be more. Never works. I've been there too, had a perfect girl in mind, you find out stuff about her and you still like her for her moral principles even though recent evidence shows she has none. Just go find a new girl.

They are right man. I know what you mean, I have always tried to be the friend in hopes that it turns out to be more. Never works. I've been there too, had a perfect girl in mind, you find out stuff about her and you still like her for her moral principles even though recent evidence shows she has none. Just go find a new girl.

Ya, thats pretty much what I've decided to do. I'm at college, lots of hot Christian girls (I'm a Christian, ya) and most of them are or will soon be single, I don't know what I was thinking. I'm not totally giving up on her, but I'm not gonna wait for her anymore. But at the same time, I'm not pursuing any girls here, because I figured out if I show too much intrest they ignore me, so I ignore them and they actually talk to me. Women will remain an enigma to me...

She sounds like a slut, SSSEEEELLLLUUUUTTTTT!!!!


Bang her sister.