Dealer Installed Remote Start 2004 LS

Has anyone out there had a dealer installed remote start on a 2004 LS?
Does your easy entry/exit drivers seat work with the remote? I am going to a CAMVAP hearing next week and Ford is saying that the remote starter is not a authorized accessory for the 04 LS. Numerous problems with the car. Transmission hesitates from reverse to drive on cold. Dealer claims it's not the solenoids. Cruise control speed wont stay at set speed. Gas milage has deteriorated since the "correct as built data" was programmed for the third time. There is also a long list of electrical problems. Some of them get fixed, but there always seems to be another problem cropping up.

Does "dealer installed" = "Ford parts" or "Aftermarket parts (viper, audiovox, etc.)"

Does "dealer installed" = "Ford parts" or "Aftermarket parts (viper, audiovox, etc.)"
Dealer installed = genuine ford gold remote starter with powercode technology designed specifically for my linocoln and about 2,100 other ford model vehicles
Ford Part #s
Kit 2W7Z-19G634-BA
Relay YL3Z-19G390-AA
Pats Kit 1L2Z-19G365-AB

Bummer. Sounds like you are getting screwed.