what do you think about this girl? kinda messed up

alright, to make it short theres this girl whos with a buddy of mine, and when she gets drunk, she hits on all of his friends. after that happens she tells me she doesnt remember anything, and that she would never do that. i also hear all these rumors about how she cheats on him, but she tells me that they re all lying trying to ruin her life, and that she really loves him. shes not ugly or anything, shes pretty hot. i really want to help this buddy of mine out, but i dont know what to say, and i dont know what to really believe, i mean i saw her hitting on the guys when she was drunk with my own eyes, but is that because shes drunk? i mean whats her problem if she really does all this? is she mad at someone, or her bf? maybe shes just a slut, but could there be other things to it? what do you think?

Well this is a tough situation. I know plenty of girls that are friends of mine that have seriouse boyfriends but get off on watching others guys drool over them when they flirt. I hate chicks when they lead guys on with out real intentions of doing anything. If I were in your shoes and this was my boys chick...I would flirt back see how far you can take it and see if she crosses that boundry twords hooking up with you. Do some tests of your own. But dont get carried away and hook up wit ur boys girl. I have been in that position and lost good friends cause I cant control myself.

Sounds just like my ex, never remembered a thing when she drank, I swear she is alergic to alcohol, she can't even handle a few beers.

Anyways, she would always hit on/flirt with other guys, I'd blow up at her for acting like a drunk slut (sucked because everyone would point it out to me), anyways, as soon as we broke up, well she started fooling around right away, whenver she was drunk, in fact she admitted to me. Although I know for a fact, she never did cheat on me, her intentions were very much there, and she didn't really wanna be in the relationship at all. She just wanted to have fun (or be a slut).

Take the previous posters advice, and see what she would be willing to do to you, or get one fo your buddies to do it, when people say they don't remember, it's probably true, but alcohol usually brings out your true intentions so....

Well this is a tough situation. I know plenty of girls that are friends of mine that have seriouse boyfriends but get off on watching others guys drool over them when they flirt. I hate chicks when they lead guys on with out real intentions of doing anything. If I were in your shoes and this was my boys chick...I would flirt back see how far you can take it and see if she crosses that boundry twords hooking up with you. Do some tests of your own. But dont get carried away and hook up wit ur boys girl. I have been in that position and lost good friends cause I cant control myself.
what he said except warn your boy about it and tell him whats uip and tell him that ur gunna do that so he doesnt see it as u trying to pick her up

also hear all these rumors about how she cheats on him, but she tells me that they re all lying trying to ruin her life, and that she really loves him

Yeah, I know when I was in high-school, me and all my friends used to make up all kinds of crazy lies to try and ruin our buddys girlfriends lives... :rolleyes:

she's lying. And who gives a damn if she's drunk when she does it? That shouldn't matter to your buddy, because if she cheats on him drunk, it's still cheating... wether she remembers it or not.

Haven't seen much of ya ci5ic, but ditto. Doesn't matter whether she's sober or not. Unless it's a different area code...come on now! Tell him, talk to him, w/e to get him to break up with her unless he really just doesn't cares and is just happy to be hittin' it.

SLUT

Can we spell

1] S L U T

2] D r a m a Q u e e n

this isnt how i knew her in high school, but im starting to think shes a slut now.

i think she is a cum guzzling whore

"She may be just your gal, but she's everybodies pal. All women are filthy lying whores"

Girls like this are a complete headache. Avoid them like the plague. Unless of course they are putting out, then you gotta hit it and quit it.

Put a radioactive tracer dye on her lady bits.

Then walk around town with a Geiger counter. If it sounds like Bikini Atoll out there, dump the whore. If it's nice and quiet, console your buddy on his recently acquired, awkwardly placed skin cancer.

Alochol lowers inhibitions people. Was she really hitting on them or was she just being friendlier??? I ask cuz when I get drunk I become a fuckin social butterfly. Im all over the place talking to people, dancing and shit with whoever, even when my girl is there, and she knows already that Im a happy drunk and I get like that.

I'm asking cuz I got busted for "being too friendly" by my girl with some other girl that she didn't like cuz I was dancing with this girl even though I would have never talked (and dont talk) to that certain girl if I wasnt drunk cuz I know that my girl hates this bithces guts and she wants to kill her.

Speaking from experience she might have just been friendly and it looked like she was hitting on other guys. If she was flirting however, and ur friend isnt that close to u, U better hurry up and go get in on the action cuz she's a slut when she's toasted.


P.S. My homies at the party told me that the other bitch was setting me up and kinda following me on the dance fllor and around the party cuz she knew that I would talk to her and dance with her cuz I was drunk. Fucking bitches!!!!!!!

You know, even if it doesn't go well, your buddy might get lucky and end up like this guy. (http://www.big-boys.com/articles/whatibeendoing.html)

i dunno man

alright, to make it short theres this girl whos with a buddy of mine, and when she gets drunk, she hits on all of his friends. after that happens she tells me she doesnt remember anything, and that she would never do that. i also hear all these rumors about how she cheats on him, but she tells me that they re all lying trying to ruin her life, and that she really loves him. shes not ugly or anything, shes pretty hot. i really want to help this buddy of mine out, but i dont know what to say, and i dont know what to really believe, i mean i saw her hitting on the guys when she was drunk with my own eyes, but is that because shes drunk? i mean whats her problem if she really does all this? is she mad at someone, or her bf? maybe shes just a slut, but could there be other things to it? what do you think?

kind of sounds like a general situation of where the chick is sticking around your buddy because she's a gold-digger and using him and probably thinks he's wussy; and then when she gets to a party and gets loosened up, she happily goes after the "bad boys" there that she wants and knows she can have and can blame it on the alcohol later.

actually this guys poor, he has no money, hes broke, and i wouldnt say hes one of those good boys either, he gets in trouble a lot, and does a lot of drugs.

i think a possibility might be that shes after some of his friends, and all the parties he goes to, and all the poeple he hangs out with.

by the way i know that right before she started getting serious with him, she wanted my number, and he gave it to her, and she called me when she was drunk.

I think you should tell your friend about this. Then convince him to let you "test" her out. It's a win win situation. If she rejects you, your friend is happy all is well. If not, you get laid, your friend is glad you helped him to expose her. It's all good.

Isn't your friend at these parties? Why don't you just let him watch her.

Geez listen to yourselves. This girl could be a ho, or she could also have a problem with alcohol. A buddy of mine blacks out if he drinks liquor, and is the life of the party for 3-4 hours, then throws up and goes to sleep. He doesn't remember a thing the next day (and has since quit drinking liquor)

At least give the girl a fair shake; get a blood alcohol chart:

http://www.brad21.org/bac_charts.html

(note different amounts on female chart)

and figure out how much it takes to get her drunk. Then watch her at the next party, and see how much she drinks before starting to hit on people.

There are 2 possible cases:

1) She's telling the truth and is blacking out

2) Trouble.

And keep in mind, some people DO have an allergy or non-resistance to alcohol which makes them black out after only a little (mentioned in a previous post)

I would say if there is more than one person saying she's cheating she is. If she hits on guys when shes drunk that's not a good sign. I say tell your friend to drop her.

Isn't your friend at these parties? Why don't you just let him watch her.

he wasnt there.

sluts ALWAYS use alcohol as an exscuse, after the first time she was told that then if she cared she would stop. simple as that

"She may be just your gal, but she's everybodies pal. All women are filthy lying whores"


True such an old line lol. Seriously though it her fault if she wines about it, Its simple DON'T FUCKING DRINK! & dont hit on guys its not that hard not to drink... Well to some it is :smile:

look, just tell the girl that your gonna tell your bud. if shes truly cares about the kid, she'll stop drinking. if shes a ho, she'll keep drinking. let them figure it out from there.

i, however, cast my vote for hitting it. :thumbsup:

Alcohol makes you do crazy thinks bro. I agree with Brody P, its tough. Play with her a little and if your friends with her b/f ...well you should just tell him.

look, just tell the girl that your gonna tell your bud. if shes truly cares about the kid, she'll stop drinking. if shes a ho, she'll keep drinking. let them figure it out from there.

i, however, cast my vote for hitting it. :thumbsup:

I completely agree. It seems logical and its the easy way out for you. Tell her. Tell him. Forget about it. Couldn't get much easier.

Stupid Question: Why is she at the same parties as you, instead of going to parties with him? You said you saw her drunk and hitting on other guys so you must have been there. And you said he wasn't there.

Well I think the truth comes out when you get drunk. So I think she is cheating on him, she is cheating on him by flirting with others, but he lets that slide. I would give her the boot. But you have to look at if she is high maintenance, does she have alot of baggage. There are way to many women out there to be stuck with a second rate girl.