well thats the end of that

SO I tried working things out with my EX and it just went nowhere but more heartache. Were friends now which is nice, and she is still a roomate (in another room). I still need her to be apart of my life, which really sucks...I hate needing anything.

But now I am totally ready to find someone new, problem is I have been out of the game for so long I dont even know where to start. The clubs are alright, but the bitches there are skanks or wont really give you the time of day because they are there for a playa or just to be left alone (which totally dosent make sence)

And other than that, I can make great friends or relationships, I just dont know how to meet chicks...

And hell,I want a chick who is into cars....THEY DONT EXIST! Some are here, but I like see one chick on these fourms like every 4 months. And this shit is worldwide. How the fuck am I going to meet a girl who is into cars.


FUCK!!!!!! :banghead:


AND DAMNIT I NEED TO GET LAID!!!!......yes...I know thats probally more than any of you needed to hear but...I DONT CARE RIGHT NOW!...sorry for any incovience

maybe you shouldn't call them "bitches." most women don't like that.

as for meeting them, try places other than clubs. bookstores, concerts, the mall, etc. perhaps you have friends who have friends that might be your type (or something along those lines). it's all about connections! good luck, man.

Bitches.

most girls I meet at clubs are bitches, hence why I said that. And my friends all know liberal women who hate guys like me. They all want a guy without ambition who lives at home... It sucks!

Meetin them in bookstores and such dosent work for me because I dont know how to just go up and say hi. Just walkin up and sayin it dosent work (for me at least)

Start anywhere. Say something nice. If they smile thats good.

I have 2 weird friends.
Friend 1 walks up to a girl in the club and says "SAY BITCH...GIMME YO NUMBA!" as a bet..............she did it. (weird...we all say it was out of fright :lol:)

Friend 2 stayed in the dorms and fucked this girl. SHe didn't want anybody to know....HE told us.....
I seen her at the movies one day and spoke. She acted as if she didn't know me. That pissed me off. I said "you may not know me but you sure the fuck know how my homeboys dick taste like in yo mouf..." (extremely embarassing to her....I know it was wrong.....but some girls get on my nerves with that shit)


Moral is...*drum roll*.........start anywhere. Girls are everywhere. Job, park, drive thru, waitress, store....anywhere.

Just talk about the setting you are in. Like, if you are in a book store and see someone you want to talk to, casually walk up to them and mention,"thats a good book" or something. Be smart though, if she asks you well what is it about just say your sister read it or something. If you get the feeling she is not nto you. just walk away. As corny as it may sound " there are more fish in the sea". Just be relaxed and do what feels natural.

Man come to Aus if you want a chick thats into cars.
I know what you mean though. You out of the game for so long all the rules have changed.
Best of luck with everything dude.
Cheers, Troy.

as for meeting them, try places other than clubs...... "bookstores".

Start anywhere. Say something nice. If they smile thats good.

"SAY BITCH...GIMME YO NUMBA!"



Lets combine the two.... That'll work :thumbsup:

Just be yourself and if it doesnt work then go ahead and give them the gold ol backhanded compliments.

thanks fior all the help bros! And man...Ive wanted to move to Aussy land! Shits fcrazy down therwe and I gotr alot of family histroy there!

Ill type more when im sober!

I wanna know wheres all dem liberal bitches dat like broke muh fuckas... I can give up hope, quit working, and sit on my ass if it means I'll get laid every night. (again... I miss having sex all the time, it fuckin sucks not getting laid once you used to get it a lot)

I know exactly what you mean. All of it. Girls are fuckin snobs man. You can walk up to a chick, be a gentleman, say polite things and kiss ass for days, and still she dont care. Fuckin women.

If a cute girl walked up to me and said, "Hey, my name is....mandy." (for example)... that is good enough for me. Why? Because it shows she has interest enough to come talk to me and get to know me. Why can't that be enough for girls? Why do I gotta have the bombest pick up line ever just to get your name? I fuckin hate females.

and I need to get laid too. The fucked up thing is when I have a chance, I don't want to. I either lose interest once I know I got her, or else I don't care enough to make the minimal effort because I want a hotter chick.

I guess I'm just as bad as girls. But I'm not judgemental... theres a difference.

I wanna know wheres all dem liberal bitches dat like broke muh fuckas... I can give up hope, quit working, and sit on my ass if it means I'll get laid every night. (again... I miss having sex all the time, it fuckin sucks not getting laid once you used to get it a lot)

I know exactly what you mean. All of it. Girls are fuckin snobs man. You can walk up to a chick, be a gentleman, say polite things and kiss ass for days, and still she dont care. Fuckin women.

If a cute girl walked up to me and said, "Hey, my name is....mandy." (for example)... that is good enough for me. Why? Because it shows she has interest enough to come talk to me and get to know me. Why can't that be enough for girls? Why do I gotta have the bombest pick up line ever just to get your name? I fuckin hate females.

and I need to get laid too. The fucked up thing is when I have a chance, I don't want to. I either lose interest once I know I got her, or else I don't care enough to make the minimal effort because I want a hotter chick.

I guess I'm just as bad as girls. But I'm not judgemental... theres a difference.

totally agree on most of it, but my fucked up thing is

I want sex to mean something so I only want it with a chick im attached to. So what I could get isnt what I want. :banghead:

I want sex to mean something so I only want it with a chick im attached to. So what I could get isnt what I want. :banghead:
same here too.

Like I was hangin with this chick not long ago, a fine black girl, mmm, yummy dude, she was nice. Well about a week after meeting her shes talkin about, "When are we gonna have sex?"... I'm like, "not yet." I couldnt stop myself from foolin around and doin anything besides sex, but I couldn't do it. She called me a tease and told me how bad she wanted me, and I told her it was gonna have to wait until it meant something.

Eventually I felt like she was way too attached, (eventually meaning about 3 weeks) and I had to stop talking to her. DO YOU KNOW HOW BAD I WANTED TO HIT THAT SKINS? GUHHH!! I hate morals. And now when I look at a chick I think... do I really wanna spend six weeks tryin to hit it? And usually the answer is no. I want a hot azz bytch yo. So I only approach the hotties. Hot chicks always talk about "Guys are too scared to talk to us, why dont they just say hello?" But when you talk to them they act cool with you, take your number and never call.

I don't ask for numbers, I give mine. I'm sick of getting numbers from girls who don't want a call from me. If they wanna talk, they can call me. Obviously they know I want to hear from THEM.

Single life sucks. I miss a steady relationship with ass benefits.


About your situation with your ex, I kinda had the same thing before. We broke up, and hated each other for a while, but then started talking to each other just to see how we were doing cuz, we cared, thats all. Then it was like, well hey I still care about you, lets not argue, how about a friendly dinner some time? Then after a few friendly dinners, they started to become dates, and after a date theres usually some sexual tension, which results in making out. Which leads to one thing... and another. Which means you're back in the ship you abondoned before.

Be careful of that. Unless you wouldn't mind it. I kinda did it on purpose, but it's not hard with an ex. It comes natural. Too natural. So if you don't want that you have to cut ties.

maybe you shouldn't call them "bitches." most women don't like that.

as for meeting them, try places other than clubs. bookstores, concerts, the mall, etc. perhaps you have friends who have friends that might be your type (or something along those lines). it's all about connections! good luck, man.


Lol, not true. I was at a party at the U of M and my friend and i sat outside drunk yelling at girls calling them bitches and sluts and more often then not they actually talked to us..


Thats not how i treat women BTW....i was drunk and it was funny.

problem is I want to be back with my ex, she dosent want that with me, she bairly hangs out with me as a friend *and unfortunally we live together*

problem is I want to be back with my ex, she dosent want that with me, she bairly hangs out with me as a friend *and unfortunally we live together*

That really sucks just for the fact u must see her everyday..

I'd imagine if theres any feelings its "irretated" or annoyed.

Thats why you dont move in with people, man! You really did a bad move there, lol. Also if you dont have sex with people after a while they lose interest and move along...you're not in love with someone if they DONT have sex with you, its just the way life goes.

i just had an idea: act smart. or if you're TRULY smart, show it off. i know i totally dig guys with brains who aren't afraid to show it. remember in the movies when girls get guys to teach them how to do something like play football? yeah, well, that happens in reality, too. more often than you think, i'm sure. anyway, point is: show off your skillz!

out here in ventura, all the women I found (but my ex) think smart guys are annoying, they like the dumb as hell guys who have mommy and daddy pay for everything and they drive lifted trucks *which never have seen the dirt* and take like one class each semester, and usually fail

with that said I dont act dumb, no point. If they want something Im not I dont want them. Thats why I look out of my area but thats way harder, then you get the whole long distance thing...esh...

where to meet women according to MSN (http://msn.match.com/msn/article.aspx?articleid=4236&TrackingID=516311&BannerID=544657&GT1=6657)

Lift up a truck and never go mudding!

thanks for the advice on MSN, actually those are places ive been checked out the most (and never actually had the nerve to go say hi or was just way too busy) *several of them anyway*



UPDATE!!

My friend has a friend who he dated briefly, who is way hot and way cool. Well she and I were instantly cool with eachother the first night meeting and immediatly flirted. This was a lil while back. I didnt go after her because my friend would have felt bad. Recently he told me he had put some thought into it and we should get together. He said we could have some fun together, and were what the other is looking for. And hes totally right. Shes strong and tough, but with a strong emotional center *a soft side*, shes wise about people but not judgemental, shes hot, and shes a lil older than me. Also she dosent want to just hook up, she wants a meaninfull relationship like me. So hes right on my side at least. And from all shes said Im her type, so im going to ask her out if I manage to see her again *shes always really busy*

and I dont have her number....DOH!!!

Ill post another update

Go for it dude!

-Chris

Go for it dude!
***Be strong Mitch*** lol
-Chris

try....long haul plane ride...train ride...

another update

Tracy has been trying to get with one of my best friends, and he knows it, he hasnt told her fuck off becuse they are good friends too. She told me she dosent even want to be my friend anymore, and I said she needs to move to her parents home. Im gonna move too, eather with my buddy and we both are cutting her off, or into a room and all three of us will go our own ways for a while. He dosent want to deal with the drauma of her anymore.

And now I dont even get to have her in my life at all....so yah...4 years wasted totaly now it feels...

Not sure anymore if it is better to have loved and lost....

Lets combine the two.... That'll work :thumbsup:

:lol: :rofl: :lol:

I could only imagine.

I don't ask for numbers, I give mine. I'm sick of getting numbers from girls who don't want a call from me. If they wanna talk, they can call me. Obviously they know I want to hear from THEM.

That works like no other. I know this guy that made a couple hundred copies of paper that said "call me" with his name and number on there. He went to the state fair, walked up to the hottest girls he saw, and handed them the paper without a thing being said. The guy's cell phone was ringing non-stopped for several days.

Also, I know this may sound stupid but it has worked. I know other guy that will walk up to women anywhere and just say, "hey, you wanna make a new friend?" Yes it may sound a little childish but he has got some from doing that.

UPDATE!

I told her she needs to move out, give me money for cancling her cell phone and gym membership. I had to send it over a txt mssg because she is never home, always fucking the guy who was sposto be my best friend up here who is now dating her. So fuck them both, they can fuckign have eachother, she thinks they have something. He dosent care about her, he used me to get to her.

reminising about your love/hate feelings toward the females are we here guys..lol....speakin of this subject, i want a hot guy thats into dsms...but then again, i live in the middle of fuckin nowhere...lol.....anyways best of luck to all u guys out there!!

Also, I know this may sound stupid but it has worked. I know other guy that will walk up to women anywhere and just say, "hey, you wanna make a new friend?" Yes it may sound a little childish but he has got some from doing that.
I wonder if that would work like this..

"hey wanna make a new FTF?"... haha..

actually.......now that I think of it, I've known several girls who would go for that one. From hangin with all my ex's friends, I knew just how easy it would be for guys to hook up with them. But then again they WERE insecure sluts, who were head over heels for any guy with a sack of bud to smoke. Wow... I may have just realized a whole lot of opportunities I missed out on.

with that said, here is my new pick up line.

"Hey, I've got a 40 sack and a case of beer at the crib."......"Oh, by the way... wanna make a new FTF?"

I need to try that one out. Results will be posted next week.

maybe you should get rid of that P.O.S. car and get a real car that girls will actually notice (kidding!!!!)....i usually meet chicks at the post office....now that's originality...

you want sex?use your hands...