I messed up...

Mistake #1, accepting the invitation to "hang out" with a girl i've had a crush on for a long time.
Mistake #2, giving in to the temptations :(
Mistake #3? telling current g/f?

It wasnt anything bad, but i still feel horrid aobut it. I mean, ME! i'd never think of doing this, i dont go that low.what the hell should i do? why the hell did i do it?

shit. ya know. girls. ARGH!

Hmmmm.

Hanging out with girls is not a crime,esp if you have been open with your girlfriend about it.It only becomes a problem if your girl objects violently,and you continue to do it,or if you hang out without telling your girl.
Has she told you her thoughts on this?was it just 'hanging out',or could you go crazy if given the invitation?

More info needed on Misatake#2 before can recommend appropriate course of action. How much do they both mean to you? How much do you mean to both of them?

mistake #2, ...well the others that were with us kept screaming out "tradition! tradition!" and i was like what's tradition? and the girl goes "you really wanna know?" NExt thing i know were sorta all over each other with no end in sight. We stopped it before it got too hot n heavy, but er..

well my current g/f i really like a lot, and i'd hate to hurt her. But on the other hand, thos other girl (who we'll call M for now) ive had a crsuh on for the longest time and she's finally noticed me. You knwo this sorta crap never happens when i DONT have a g/f. Argh. sooo

help

Move to utah

Ahhh...this isn't a situation that the web can solve for you. Personally though, I'd ditch the current one for the unrequited love. Just me though.

women come and go...being *unfaitful* isnt cool unless shes (gf) is down with it....hey...maybe she wil join in next time.....

OR...you just got played....women talk...

be afraid....very afraid....:devil:

Honesty is ALWAYS the best answer...

....damn, I gotta stop smoking crack this late, just roll with it man.....

Is it just me or do you guys see the option for a threesome too?

:eek: :eek: :hehe: ALLLL RIGHT STEEL!!!.. PLAYAAAA....!!!!!!

hehe well i remember u got all happy when u meet ye current g/f and now this... humm your still young so dont worry too much about it i supose. i say take advantage of the situation while your still young. once your old it just gets harder hehe i guess..

good luck me go home.

:D :D :sun: :flash:

but im not a player, thats the only problem.

Go with what FEELS right.

I got sandwiched once before, and I made the wrong choice because I was too busy thinking and not feeling what was right. Sometimes intuition really does know what's going on before you do...

Originally posted by saturntangerine
Go with what FEELS right. I got sandwiched once before

:eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek:

And who were the 2 priveleged gentlemen suitors?

Originally posted by saturntangerine
I got sandwiched once before <snip>
Makes for a pretty interesting visual....lol...sorry just being a guy :D

Originally posted by Steel
Mistake #1, accepting the invitation to "hang out" with a girl i've had a crush on for a long time.
Mistake #2, giving in to the temptations :(
Mistake #3? telling current g/f?

It wasnt anything bad, but i still feel horrid aobut it. I mean, ME! i'd never think of doing this, i dont go that low.what the hell should i do? why the hell did i do it?

shit. ya know. girls. ARGH!

Oh no not again, just follow your heart, go with whichever one you like best

yeah, again. i always get myslef into the situations.

Originally posted by ozriceboy
And who were the 2 priveleged gentlemen suitors?

I think I need to proof-read my posts more carefully!!! :uhoh:

I meant to say that I know what it's like to have to choose. Infact, I'm coming to another juncture in my life where I have to choose... What fun. Just know that you're not alone Steel.

Originally posted by Steel
yeah, again. i always get myslef into the situations.

Get married.It doesn't remove the temptation ,but the potential cost of making any further mistakes will ensure that you stay monogamous for a long time.

Originally posted by Steel
yeah, again. i always get myslef into the situations. Don't feel bad my life is one of those situations, I am always screwing things up, luckily enough the consequences are always humorous:D

Originally posted by taranaki


Get married.It doesn't remove the temptation ,but the potential cost of making any further mistakes will ensure that you stay monogamous for a long time. :eek: :eek: :eek: WHOA WHOA WHOA hold the phone. Unless you are being sarcastic and the humor of your post is going right over my head, Mr. T, I am going to have to go ahead and strongly disagree with this advice. I think why I disagree is obvious enough, but if you'd like me to elaborate, I'd be happy to. I almost never hear of marriage being a problem solver; marriage is only a step to be taken to make a good situation better. Bad call, IMO.

Originally posted by JD@af
:eek: :eek: :eek: WHOA WHOA WHOA hold the phone. Unless you are being sarcastic and the humor of your post is going right over my head, Mr. T, I am going to have to go ahead and strongly disagree with this advice. I think why I disagree is obvious enough, but if you'd like me to elaborate, I'd be happy to. I almost never hear of marriage being a problem solver; marriage is only a step to be taken to make a good situation better. Bad call, IMO.

pardon my jaded and sarcastic cynicism........obviously marriage is not the way to solve this kind of dilemma....the post was supposed to highlight the risks that you take when you make a permanent commitment to one person.Marriages come,some marriages go, but alimony and children last forever.Choose your partner with care,it's no use looking back fifteen years later and thinking what might have been.

Originally posted by taranaki


pardon my jaded and sarcastic cynicism........obviously marriage is not the way to solve this kind of dilemma....the post was supposed to highlight the risks that you take when you make a permanent commitment to one person.Marriages come,some marriages go, but alimony and children last forever.Choose your partner with care,it's no use looking back fifteen years later and thinking what might have been. ;) Now you're talking...

enh, well we havent talked lately....so... i guess im good for now. Im not planning on doing it again either. Very quick way to lose 2 good girls.

Well...this has to be the first ever AF thread that has gone as steeply uphill after going steeply downhill. Wow.