Women

I broke up with a long term relationship about 3 years ago. It went for 5 years, we lived together. She wanted to get married, I didn't. Ever since then I have been a social retard. I do not know what to say to the ladies. I do my own thing, not really paying attention to women. But since I am nearing 30. I need to start to think about another long term relationship. Marriage, kids and house. I go to the bars/night clubs, every now and then. 2 times a month. I don't drink alcy. Haven't for 3 yrs now. I find it hard to find women to date. Been thinking about internet dating, speed dating, and dating services. A bud of mine has been getting alot of luck from this. Another thing I have been pondering is a cruise ship for singles. yes the have them. But I need to work, dont have no time off for that. So its like what do I do?

Can do the gym thing, be more social'bl but I find it hard to guess what age they are. I assume every woman from 18-22 is 16. And every chick from 23-33 looks 45. Then every hot chick, is untouchable. Thats a self esteem issue. Then I could do the bar scene, same thing with assumption of age. And finally internet dating, I tried that, but found that alot of the users never responded.

Between a rock and a hard spot here. Fate will happen sooner or later, but i want it sooner.

You just gotta be agressive and confident. I know its hard to change the type of person you are but girls like a guy who is confident. Take a chance, if you see a good looking girl just go up to her and talk to her about anything you can think of. If she is reading a book or something make some comment about the material she is reading. The gym is a great place to meet girls. My "gym secret" to meeting girls is if you are going to be doing some cardio on a treadmill or eliptical or something and you see a cute girl stretching ask her if she will help stretch you, thats the perfect chance to strike up a conversation, be clever and keep the conversation moving ask a lot about her, girls love that.

Things like online dating and stuff actually arent that bad of an idea. My dad met my stepmom that way. He also met some really hot young chicks too (my dad is such a pimp).

Good luck with everything man.